Boyfriend finds me simple, and seems to resent me for it. We have been together for 4 years, both in our 20s.
Whenever we find, he tells me how simple-minded I am, that I have the palate of a dog, and he seems to resent me for it.
That I play other video games that he doesn’t play and have not the biggest interest in expanding much.
That I listen to basic/ main stream music and actually enjoying it instead of listening to underground artists.
That I prefer going to concerts once or twice a year instead of going to clubs several times a month.
He’s known my personality for years. He knows I’m happy the way I am (and it’s not like I completely shut down all suggestions, it’s just that sometimes we enjoy things differently).
But calling me simple-minded with such disdain makes me wonder, if he even likes the person I am.
Netizens’ comments
- Set him free. Free to find someone more to his liking.
Which will free you to find someone that will treat you with love, respect and dignity. - In fact he don’t like that you have your own personality and don’t follow him like a dog!
Maybe it’s time for you to find a real man who will respect and accept you for who you are rather telling those stupid things! Find a better boyfriend because that one is a huge idiot!! - What a pretentious snob. You deserve someone that finds the same joys as you, not someone that undermines you because of your diverging interests.
- Tell him you find him single.