Boyfriend throws a fit when I’m not in the mood for sex
My (27f) boyfriend (40m) just came over the other day and we were watching stranger things, he starts nodding off, so I recommended he take a shower and go to bed.
I’m laying in bed, he gets on top of me and wanted to have intercourse, I say I’m not in the mood. He goes berserk.
Claims it’s not normal to not want to hop right onto your partner after not seeing them for a while (it was like a week) and we were about to go to bed anyway.
I love him very much and am definitely attracted to him, but every time I’m not in the mood and he is, he claims I’m not attracted to him and that “he isn’t an idiot” and “has been here before.”
Am I missing something? Every relationship is more intimate in the beginning, it wanes down a little bit once you’re in a serious relationship.
Plus I’m moving in with him in 2 weeks, I’m broke, I’m going back to school, going through a friend breakup, and am having family issues.
It feels like he has no regard at all for the stress I have going on in my life. Intimacy is absolutely not a priority for me right now, and so no, I am not in the mood too much lately.
It feels like he’s taking out his own insecurities on me, and I’m not sure I can deal with this long term. Thoughts?