A girl shared how she went out with her ex-boyfriend just before her wedding and he kissed her on the cheek, and now after getting married, she can’t stop thinking about him.
Here is the story
Hello. I am 29F, just got married. Before I met my husband, I went on a date with this guy, now 32M. He is in a committed relationship now.
Back then, we went on 3 dates and kind of moved on. Me and date guy are connected via social media but never really met up or kept in touch.
Just before my wedding, I randomly decided to meet up with date guy (I don’t know why) and we hit it off. There was so much chemistry. We stayed out late. A couple of weeks later, we went out for dinner. He kissed my cheek. Refused to meet me again after but occasionally messages me asking how things are.
Sidenote: My marriage is not the best. I often crave the attention that date guy gives me. But then, I also have other guy friends I do not feel the same way about. At all. So it is just him I feel this way towards.
I can’t stop thinking about date guy, but I also should not be thinking about date guy. I also don’t know what date guy is up to because he’s so hot and cold. Or am I misreading everything? I have asked him out for dinner a couple of times but he kinda blew me off. Then why the texts if he isn’t interested?
I honestly am in a dilemma, really don’t know what I am doing. Please help.
Netizens’ comments
Play with fire, prepare to get burned.Think you need to seek counselling to sort everything out. If your marriage isn’t good, then you can either fix it or leave it. But do not drag your partner along with you because you can’t decide and you are just craving attention.