So my brother in law moved in with us last year in July. Our agreement was to allow him to live here for a couple months so he could save to get his own place.
Not only has it been over a year but he is kinda inconsiderate. He eats everything, doesn’t clean, doesn’t contribute any money(so he could “save”).
He also smokes in the house which was allowed when he first moved in but then I got pregnant so we sat him down and said hey no more smoking inside.
Anyway back to the point. My husband asked him how much he had saved so that he could help pitch in if needed because we live in a 2 bed room and babies take up space.
He refuses to tell him what he has saved and anytime we try to show him apartments or homes for rent he brushes it off.
I got fed up yesterday because 2 whole bags of pizza rolls were gone that I bought that day.
I may have done it out of anger but I told him he had till the end of the year to find a place and move out. My husband is on my side but his family is telling me I’m being rude and that we invited him into our home we can’t just kick him out because we had a kid.
Edit Just to clear things up. Yes he is an adult and he has a job. My daughter was born this October which is why my husband and I really are putting our foot down.