BROKE GF NO MONEY STILL WANT GO DRINK, END UP DRUNK, MISSED WORK & GOT FIRED

Girlfriend got fired from work and I don’t give AF I’m actually glad.

A few nights ago my girlfriend tells me she’s going out to grab drinks with her friend. I mentioned to her how she was on a diet and was suppose to avoid alcohol and certain foods for her health and that it was already getting late.

She pretty much blew off what I said and went with her friend. She then texted me she was going to the bars/ club with them as well.

I stressed to her that it is a Tuesday and that she has work at 5am and that she’s already tight financially and it probably would be the best idea.

She again blew me off and went anyways. Well she got drunk and stayed out extremely late and left her keys with her friend who got drunk and she missed work.

She got a text today saying she’s fired. I can’t help but not give a f because I tried to warn her and save her but she’s grown and made the decision.

I feel like I should feel sympathy but I can’t. Now I have to carry a heavier load financially for her because of her poor decision making.

Netizens’ comments

1. Some people learn and mature the hard way. I sure AF did.
2. Sorry that happened to you. Good news is you aren’t married so if this turns into a regular thing you have an easy out. I’m not saying dump her over one mistake but you do need to analyze if these type of behaviors are part of a pattern. If you start seeing a pattern either she needs to express an independent desire to work on herself or you need to leave because when people go down this path they will drag you down with them.
3. No, someone could argue that you are completely fine for feeling cuz you did your best and warned her but she did at her own risk. Goodluck until she finds a job bro
4. Honestly, if I wasn’t in too deep in this relationship this would be grounds for leaving. If i was in deep this would be a serious reconsideration.
   Tells you a lot about who she is as a person, and that she doesn’t value your input or feelings.
   Tells you what she doesn’t see as important and tells you what she does and those aren’t good for longevity and aren’t good for you to subject yourself to.
   If it’s a one off thing then cool, if it happens even once more, She needs to be done.