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EXPECTATIONS VS REALITY: WOMAN IN HER MID-30s FINDS IT HARD TO GET TRUE LOVE
Hi all. 35/F here. Wondering if anyone has gone through this as well and if anyone can relate or has advice.Since my last very serious BF, I have been dating for the past 10 years or so. In that...
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MAN SAYS DOCTORS WHO SAY THEIR PAY IS NOT HIGH ENOUGH ARE ABSURD
i find the posts about doctor pay not being high enough to be absurd. as medical practitioners, our role is to help people. compensation comes in many forms. there is monetary compensation and non-monetary compensation (the sense of satisfaction...
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ELITE UNI CLASSMATES TOLD MAN HE GOT A “DUMB LOOK, SURE FROM POLY & NOT A JC”
Why is it that when I talk to new classmates, they will assume that I’m from poly? Most looked surprised when I told them I was from JC. Is it because I speak mostly Singlish and am not eloquent?...
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STUDENT ENROLS IN UNI, OVERWHELMED BY SCHOOL WITHIN FIRST SEMESTER
A university student shared how he/she feels overwhelmed by school within the first semester of enrolling.The netizen shared that he/she would feel anxious in the new environment and feels demotivated and sluggish, breaking out in cold sweat and becoming...
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GF TOLD BF SHE WANTS TO DOWNGRADE RELATIONSHIP TO ‘FWB’ CAUSE SHE ITCHY
I am stunned. Gf of 2 years sat me down and told me that she wanted to downgrade our relationship to fwb.She wants to remain monogamous.Her point of view is that relationships take too much time and...
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GUY SAYS S’PORE TOO EXPENSIVE & WORK CULTURE TOO XIONG, BUT WHY NOBODY EMIGRATE
Why don’t more Singaporeans emigrate?Many Singaporeans are highly educated and skilled, therefore qualify for many countries’ immigration requirements. And cost of living and hustle culture is significantly less strenuous (maybe other than NYC or HK). Not to mention the...
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SELFISH BF ONLY CARES ABOUT HIMSELF IN BED, ONCE HE FINISH, DONE – GF DON’T GET TO FINISH
Why do guys tap out after they climax?38F here. Serious question for the guys. Last night I hooked up with someone I've been out with a few times. When we're out, he's charming, attentive, and interested albeit a little...
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DIVORCED SIS-IN-LAW DON’T WANT TO MOVE AWAY, WANT TAKE ADVANTAGE
Divorced sis-in-laws would like to stay with us after our weddingMe and my bf know each other due to his elder sister introduction. His sister really likes me to be her bro’s future wife. In short, we and my...
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GIRL VIDEO CALLS BF FOR HIS “PRESENCE” & LEAVES IT ON TO DO HER OWN THINGS
Wanting human presence while doing your own thingWhen I am at home, I have this thing that I enjoy human presence such as video calling or phone calls with my friends.But sometimes I just want their presence and...
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BF SAYS HE NEEDS “ALONG TIME” THEN PLAY GAMES WITH FRIENDS FOR DAYS, GF CONFUSED
why does my (20F) boyfriend (20M) say he needs alone time and then games with his friends for days straight?me (20F) and my boyfriend of three years (20M) have been having some issues lately around ‘our own time’. consistently,...
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SINGLE MAN SCARED HE’S GOING TO DIE ALONE, ALL HIS FRIENDS EITHER ENGAGED OR GOT GF
Singles with friends getting engaged left and right, how do you feel?As a 28 M, 5 of my 7...