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“CONTROVERSIAL ISSUES” WILL NOT DELAY PM LEE’S TIMETABLE FOR LEADERSHIP RENEWAL

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Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong delivered his National Day Rally last night, and in his speech, he spoke about the recent spate of “controversial issues” involving political figures, and how they have not delayed the timetable for the renewal of leadership.

He assured Singaporeans that his succession plans are back on track, and reiterated his confidence in Deputy Prime MInister Lawrence Wong and his 4G team, as well as urging people to give them the fullest support now and after they take over.

Snippet of PM Lee’s speech

Forward Singapore

Our nation must navigate carefully in this increasingly troubled landscape. There is no ready playbook, there is no model answer. I am glad that DPM Lawrence Wong and the 4G team have taken it upon themselves to chart out where Singapore will go from here. They launched Forward Singapore in June last year, to refresh our social compact. They have held dialogues with thousands of Singaporeans who shared their ideas to tackle various issues.

For example: how to equip our people with the skills to succeed; how to improve care for the vulnerable; and how to strengthen our solidarity as one people. The Forward Singapore report will be published later this year. It will be a compass to help Singapore navigate through the stormy seas.

Financial support for the retrenched

Despite the dark clouds, the world still offers many opportunities for those who dare to seize them. In my Malay speech just now, I spoke about promising new sectors such as the digital economy. I also shared that the Government will give more support to workers – to help you adapt and upskill, to stay ahead of the game.

Our Forward SG plans include financial support for workers who lose your jobs, while you upgrade your skills. It will be a temporary safety net to help you meet immediate needs, to free you to upskill and train, as you prepare yourself for a good long-term job. So long as you are willing to make the effort, the Government will go the extra mile to help you.

Succession

As we prepare for the future, one crucial task is leadership renewal. As you all know, my original plan was to hand over and step down as Prime Minister by 2022, before my 70th birthday. But the pandemic disrupted this plan. I promised Singaporeans that I would see the nation through the crisis, together with both the current and the 4G leadership. Now COVID is behind us, and my succession plans are back on track.

Recently, several controversial issues have drawn Singaporeans’ attention. I have spoken about them in Parliament, and in my National Day Message. We dealt with each of them thoroughly and transparently. Let me assure you: these incidents will not delay my timetable for renewal. We are on track.

More and more, my task is to support the 4G team and their agenda. I want to get them off to the best start possible. They are increasingly setting the pace. My themes in this Rally are all Forward SG themes. The 4G will soon wrap up the Forward SG exercise, but their journey is just beginning. Our nation’s future depends on them, working as one with you to take Singapore forward.

Trust in Lawrence Wong

I have every confidence in Lawrence Wong and his team. We share the same core convictions – that we are stewards of Singapore, entrusted with the immense responsibility to lead and care for our nation; that our time as stewards is transient, but we are building a Singapore for the ages; and that our best service to this nation is to hand over a better, stronger Singapore to those who follow us. My team and I are deeply grateful to you for standing with us through thick and thin. Please give Lawrence and his team your fullest support too, now and after they take over.

Closing

The Singapore story has been an unlikely one from the start. Our nation is still young, and we will always be tiny. We will forever be an unlikely nation, created out of the sheer collective will of our people. Nobody expected us to survive, much less to flourish. But each time, we beat the odds; each time, we showed the world what Singapore can be.

GIRL SAYS SHE’S NOT TRYING TO KAYPOH, BUT THEN KAYPOHS SIS’ RELATIONSHIP

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A girl shared how she is not trying to kaypoh her sister’s relationship, but then proceeds to kaypoh her sister’s relationship.

Here is the story

I’m not trying to keypoh my sister’s relationship or personal life but she is already 28 and still single, and as an elder sis, what happened recently really put me in a dilemma state.

A friend of my sis bought an apartment, but he and his wife have recently been posted overseas for work purpose, so they rented out the place and let my sis take one room for free because they wanted her to help them to look after the house. They also managed to rent out a room to a Malaysian male, Jon (not his actual name). That doesn’t bother my sis at all because the place is only a few mrt stops away from her workplace.

My parents and I would occasionally send my sis back to her apartment, and this is also the first time she moved out from home, so we did help with some housekeeping and new furniture, and we get to see Jon quite a few times. He is quite buff, well-built, good-looking IMO, highly educated with a phd in some pharmaceutical/biochemical field, and communicates with my parents really well. There was once my parents and I went over, he just cycled back home but we were about to order food delivery, he even offered to walk out to help us buy. During the entire dinner, there was no awkwardness at all, as he blends really well with my family, and he didn’t hesitate to answer some sensitive questions that my parents asked, like how often he returns to Malaysia, what are his parents job, does he have a girlfriend, and so on.

My parents seem to like him a lot and they’ve always been hinting my sis to go for him, like it’s hard to find such guys with all these combination, but my sis will only find excuse like he’s not her type, she’s too busy with work, she has no time for a boyfriend, she’s not ready to settle down, all kind of excuses. Honestly if I’m not attached, I would definitely go for Jon.

Strangely, one weekend after doing my grocery, I dropped by at her place to pass her some food. When I arrived, she was in the shower, but her room was opened, so I sat inside to wait for her. What really shocked me was the scent of Jon’s perfume lingering in her room. I can recognise the smell of the perfume or cologne that he uses, and I don’t expect such masculine fragrance to appear in my sis’ room. Not only that, that smell further guided me to check whether there’s any short hair in the room. As I expected, I found some short hair on her bed, and that clearly doesn’t belong to my sis. To clear my doubt, I proceeded to knock on Jon’s door and find a good reason to talk to him so that I can confirm the smell. As he was doing some search on his laptop, I could smell the exact same fragrance in my sis’ room.

Now I knew that Jon has actually been into my sis’ room, though I’m not sure what exactly they have done together. Frankly speaking my sis is out of his league, her look is pretty much average, and the only thing attractive about her is her petite body with nice boobs and perky butt, and that might be something that Jon is interested in. It doesn’t take a genius to figure out whether they’ve been sleeping with each other every night, but there is still a small possibility that they may just be normal housemates.

Maybe my sis and Jon are in a fwb relationship, and I don’t have the right to stop what she’s doing. I’m not sure whether they’re already together but refused to announce their relationship. I’m also unsure if they’re just fwb. What I’m really concerned is that my sis might have fallen for him, but he is just using her for relief.

Should I talk to her about it? I know I shouldn’t tell my parents about it, but what should I do?

1 MAN KILLED IN 10-PERSON FIGHT @ ORCHARD CONCORDE HOTEL, BLOOD ON THE FLOOR

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In an unexpected turn of events on the morning of August 20. At about 6am, a brawl erupted along the bustling Orchard Road at the Concorde Hotel and Shopping Mall, resulting in one man killed after being fatally injured, according to Shin Min Daily News.

Fight involving more than 10 people

More than ten individuals found themselves embroiled in a violent altercation that morning, resulting in the unfortunate death of one person who sustained fatal injuries during the fracas.

Promptly responding to the scene, the police initiated an investigation into the incident. Their presence was evident as they cordoned off the two entrances to the hotel and even blocked access to the second floor.

Number tags were also seen being places around the crime scene to identify potential pieces of evidence as investigators, donning gloves on their hands and feet, went about analysing the crime scene. Bloodstained tissues were also seen on the ground.

A security guard who spoke to SMDN also revealed that the police had requested for CCTV footage of the area from the Concorde Hotel.

A History of Trouble

According to the security guard, he told SMDN that the area where the fight occurred has been a hotbed of trouble in the past.

Due to the presence of bars in the vicinity, altercations and disturbances have become commonplace occurrences. This paints a picture of a location where tempers can quickly flare, often fueled by alcohol.

There are often fights in the area

An employee of a catering company arrived at the scene early in the morning, only to be greeted by a swarm of police vehicles and officers. He recounted to reporters how the area, particularly the bar on the upper floor where the incident unfolded, is frequently marred by noise and disturbances.

He said that the area is often very noisy every night, and that there are often fights breaking out int he area because of the bars in the area.

FROM 2024 ONWARDS, SINGLE PEOPLE CAN BUY 2-ROOM FLEXI FLATS FROM ALL BTO TYPES

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In Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong’s National Day Rally, he said that from the second half of 2024, the government will introduce a new HDB framework, that will allow single people to own their own homes.

Under the new framework, new HDB BTO projects will be classified into three types of housing – the Standard, Plus and Prime.

Snippet of PM Lee’s speech

So think of it like this. Standard flats are good flats built all over Singapore, and will have HDB’s standard subsidies and standard restrictions. Plus flats are in the choicer locations within a region, and will have more subsidies and tighter restrictions than Standard flats. And Prime flats are in the choicest and most central locations in the whole of Singapore, and they will have the most subsidies and tightest restrictions. Let me show you the whole picture in one slide.

What are Standard, Plus and Prime flats?

The new framework of Standard, Plus, and Prime. Standard islandwide, subsidies are standard and restrictions are standard – that is why we called it standard. Plus flats have choicer region, more subsidies and tighter restrictions. Prime flats, have the choicest locations, most subsidies and tightest restrictions.

Actually the quality of the flats, they are all good flats, good flats, good flats. But the locations are different, the subsidies are different and the restrictions are different. And this new framework – Standard, Plus and Prime will be a major change to the way HDB sells flats. HDB will roll out this framework for all new projects from the second half of next year. It will not affect existing projects. Your current homes, or the homes you have already booked, will not be reclassified.

No more “mature/non-mature” flats

In time to come, we will no longer refer to new projects as Mature and Non-Mature. Instead, we will build a good mix of projects within and across regions, to cater to different needs and budgets. And that is how we can fulfil our commitment to keep high-quality HDB flats accessible and affordable to you and your children for a very long time to come.

Enhancing Access for Singles

The new framework – Standard, Plus, and Prime – will affect everyone buying a new HDB flat, but there is one special group I want to address: the singles. More and more Singaporeans are choosing to be single. Singles too hope to own their homes and have more housing choices. We hear your concerns.

Today, first-timer singles can apply for new flats, but only 2-room Flexi flats and only in Non-Mature Estates. They cannot buy new Flexi flats in Mature Estates. Singles are also not allowed to buy Prime flats. These rules are to prioritise our limited supply of flats, but unfortunately, they have restricted singles’ choices. We will do something about this.

When we roll out the new framework, singles will be allowed to buy 2-room Flexi flats across all types of BTO projects – Standard, Plus, and Prime. HDB will tell you the details soon. But I am sure singles will welcome this move to have more choices to find your own home and to write your own part in Singapore’s housing story.

PM LEE ON RECENT SCANDALS INVOLVING POLITICAL FIGURES – NO SYSTEM IS PERFECT

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During Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong’s Mandarin portion of his National Day Rally, he touched on a number of topics that included concerns that people had about Singapore’s political system, in the wake of several high-profile scandals involving politicians.

He said that no system is perfect, but assured Singaporeans that he and his team will “definitely do our utmost to maintain Singapore’s clean and effective political system and our reputation for incorruptibility”.

Snippet of PM Lee’s speech

Recent events involving political figures have made some Singaporeans uneasy. They wonder if there is something wrong with our system.

No system is perfect. Whether these events would be a blow to Singapore depends on how we respond. I and my team will definitely do our utmost to maintain Singapore’s clean and effective political system and our reputation for incorruptibility.

Our founding Prime Minister Mr Lee Kuan Yew dealt with similar situations decisively. I have dealt with these matters in the same way. I believe my successor will do so too.

This year is the 100th anniversary of Mr Lee Kuan Yew’s birth. Even as we remember him, we should also remember his guidance. Mr Lee thought that it was important to always remember certain hard truths if our country is to survive.

First, never allow our politics to become corrupt. At the same time, maintain the highest standards of integrity, so Singapore can continue to function well. With this as the foundation, we can implement our core values: Equality and meritocracy; bring out the best in our people and strive for excellence; grow our economy to improve the lives of Singaporeans; and build a multiracial and harmonious society.

What Singapore is today is due to the perseverance and determination of our founding fathers. Let us uphold the nation-building ideals of our founding fathers. So Singapore can continue to prosper and progress, brave the winds and storms that come our way, and still strive for a better tomorrow.

Thank you!

GIRL FEELS LEFT OUT BECAUSE BF GOES OUT WITH HIS FAMILY AND NEVER JIO HER

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A netizen shared how her boyfriend keeps talking about his family as though he doesn’t treat her as one (they have plans to get married).

She also said that when he goes out with his family, he doesn’t ask her to go along with them and she feels left out.

Here is the story:

Hope I can get some very useful advices here as this concern has been in my mind for awhile now.

My partner (A) and I have been together for a few years now. From the beginning of our r/s, I was well aware that A is a very very family-oriented person and always puts family first over everything. Of course, it was nice to know that A has the right priorities.

Over the course of our r/s however, I  began to feel left out sometimes.

For e.g., A would frequently talk about family – daily happenings etc. (would always include A’s sibling’s partner – they have been together for much longer).

Although I am unable to describe in detail, but whenever A talks about them, it seems like A does not view me as part of the family (despite the fact we have the intention to be life partners – family knows that).

Yet, the way A speaks shows that A views A’s sibling’s partner as family. They have all gone out on a few occasions without me, which I tried not to put much thought into due to the current covid restrictions as well as last minute plans made by them (when I was not over at their place but A’s sibling’s partner was).

Hence, this makes me feel really left out and even “extra” sometimes, I really can’t help but feel hurt. I don’t wish to bring up this matter to A as I know how much importance A place towards family and I have no intention to change A’s views. Not sure if there is anything else I can do?

Editor’s notes: Maybe you can try telling him how you feel, if you’re going to spend the rest of your lives together, a little honesty and transparency goes a really long way.

UPCOMING 9% GST HIKE, PM LEE – “I ASKED LAWRENCE WONG IF ASSURANCE PACKAGE CAN ENHANCE”

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Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong addressed a number of issues during his National Day Rally last night (20 August), among the issues he spoke on were the increase in cost of living and higher inflation.

Snippet of PM Lee’s speech

Good evening, my fellow Singaporeans. Over the last three years, through the pandemic, we stayed united, and overcame challenges. Life has returned to normal. We are organising National Day Dinners once again, to celebrate National Day. Some Singaporeans have developed the good habit of wearing masks when they have a cold or flu, protecting themselves and others.

Cost of Living

Even as we emerge from the pandemic, geopolitical tensions are rising and the international economic situation is uncertain. Prices are soaring globally, resulting in higher inflation.

To reduce the burden of rising costs on Singaporeans, the Government has given out various subsidies. Last year, I used a calendar to show you the support that a Singaporean household living in a 3-room HDB flat would receive. This included U-Save and S&CC rebates, CDC vouchers, cash payouts and Medisave top-ups, amongst others. The Government gave out different subsidies to help low-income families almost every month. Other Singaporeans also received subsidies. Everyone should have received them.

We also have a calendar this year. Like the past year, Government will continue to provide various subsidies almost monthly. In August, we have cash payouts. There are subsidies in September; then U-Save and S&CC rebates in October and cash payouts again in December. In January next year, we will have CDC Vouchers again. In time for everyone to buy goodies for Chinese New Year. We have kept our promise to take care of Singaporeans.

Assurance Package

We know that the GST hike this year has affected Singaporeans, so we rolled out the Assurance Package to alleviate the pressure on Singaporeans, especially middle- and lower-income families. Last year, as a result of the Government’s savings, we had a budget surplus. Therefore, in this year’s Budget, we further enhanced these support measures. The extra CDC Vouchers were very popular. I am glad that these measures have been effective and Singaporeans have benefitted from them.

From 1 January next year, we will adjust the GST to 9%. We will continue with the Assurance Package, as planned. I am confident it will be effective in buffering the impact of the adjustment to 9%. But I am sure you are wondering: could we further enhance the Assurance Package. So everyone gets a little more help? You asked me, so I asked Finance Minister Lawrence Wong. He said he will study it carefully. Let’s wait — and of course, we hope for good news.

However, we must understand the Government cannot give out subsidies infinitely. The long-term solution is to make ourselves more productive, transform our businesses, and grow our economy. Then our real incomes can rise and we can all be better off.

Govt has been stabilising prices

Actually, the Government has been stabilising prices through various policies. In 1973, NTUC established NTUC Welcome, the predecessor of today’s NTUC FairPrice. Its social mission was to ensure that Singaporeans could purchase necessities at affordable prices. Fifty years later, FairPrice is now the largest local supermarket chain. It plays a leading role maintaining costs at a reasonable level, so Singaporeans can continue to buy affordable and good quality goods. As a result, other supermarkets have no choice but to emulate FairPrice by offering their own house brands and promotions.

To reduce daily expenses, we can make smart choices when purchasing daily necessities. Many Singaporeans know how to compare prices. They know which supermarket has the lowest price on which day for which item. They can go to NTUC FairPrice today, Sheng Siong tomorrow and Giant the day after. Some are expert, use mobile applications such as Price Kaki, or access chat groups to decipher where the best “lobangs” (deals) are. If you are from the Pioneer or Merdeka Generation, or hold a blue CHAS card, from Mondays to Fridays, you can go to different supermarkets and enjoy discounts everyday. Many people look out for money-saving hacks, and buy value-for-money necessities to keep their wallets full. So long as we shop wisely, we can still get our hands on cheaper items.

NEW $7 BILLION MAJULAH PACKAGE, PM LEE TO S’POREANS: “DON’T WORRY, GOVT WILL HELP YOU”

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Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong said during his National Day Rally speech last night (20 August) that the government is introducing a “Majulah Package” for Singaporeans in their 50s and early 60s, whom he named the “Young Seniors”.

The Majulah Package is set to cost the government about S$7 billion, and will consist of three components, namely the “Earn & Save” bonus of $400 to $1,000 yearly, a one-time “Retirement Savings Bonus” of $1,000 to $1,500 and a one-time “MediSave Bonus” of $500 to $1,000.

Snippet of PM Lee’s speech

The Three components of the Majulah Package

We will introduce a package to help Young Seniors meet your retirement needs – let us name it the Majulah Package. This will be for Singaporeans who are 50 and above this year – born in 1973 or earlier. It will benefit those with lower incomes and less wealth. The support will be tiered, depending on your income and your CPF savings. The Majulah Package will comprise three components.

First, an “Earn and Save” Bonus, to help you build up your CPF savings while you work. Most Young Seniors are still working, and have some years to go before retirement. We encourage you to continue working as long as you can. Lower- and middle-income workers will get a CPF bonus of up to $1,000 a year, depending on your income. The Government will credit this into your CPF account, on top of the usual employer and employee contributions. You will receive this Earn and Save bonus yearly, as long as you are working, whether full-time or part-time. Take for example a lower-income 55 year-old who plans to retire at 65. Over 10 years, her Earn and Save bonus adds up to $12,000 in extra CPF savings if you include the CPF interest, which is not bad.

Second, a Retirement Savings Bonus (RSB). If your CPF balances have not reached the CPF Basic Retirement Sum, you will receive a one-time CPF bonus of up to $1,500. Those who are not working will get this bonus too. This includes homemakers, who have given up their careers and laboured to raise their families, and thus have very low CPF balances.

Third, a MediSave Bonus. Most Young Seniors have enough MediSave balances. Nevertheless, many still worry about healthcare costs, because you will soon be Not-So-Young Seniors. So the Majulah Package will include a modest one-time MediSave Bonus of up to $1,000. It will give you some extra buffer, to help pay your medical expenses and insurance premiums.

58th national day present

The Majulah Package will help Young Seniors, in their 50s and early 60s, to meet your retirement needs. But besides Young Seniors, we also want to encourage older seniors to continue working for as long as you can. Hence the Majulah Package also covers the Pioneer and Merdeka Generations.

I think quite a few here belong to the Pioneer and Merdeka Generation. Let me say to you, if you are PG and MG: If you are still working and meet the income criteria, you too will receive the Earn and Save Bonus as long as you are working. If you are not working, you can still get something from the one-time Retirement Savings Bonus and MediSave Bonus. This will be in addition to the PG or MG benefits that you are already receiving and will continue to receive. Think of this as a 58th National Day present!

The Majulah Package will cost the Government about $7 billion. MOF will create a new Fund to meet the full lifetime costs of the Package, using resources from this term of Government. We will honour this commitment without burdening future generations.

The Majulah Package will benefit some 1.4 million older people across several generations. We will also be enhancing existing schemes, like Silver Support, Workfare, and the Matched Retirement Savings Scheme and the details will be announced next year. Taken together, these improvements will help seniors to meet basic retirement needs, especially for lower- and middle-income Singaporeans so that you can have greater peace of mind in your golden years.

PM LEE – LEE KUAN YEW REMINDED MPs THAT S’PORE MUST BE INCORRUPTIBLE, OR WE ARE FINISHED

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Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong delivered his National Day Rally last night (20 August) at the ITE headquarters, and among the topics her spoke about was the 100th birth anniversary of his father and Singapore founding Prime Minister Lee Kuan Yew.

Snippet of PM Lee’s speech

Lee Kuan Yew’s 100th birth anniversary

In a few weeks’ time, we will be marking the 100th birth anniversary of Mr Lee Kuan Yew. It is timely to reflect upon the values and ideals championed by Mr Lee and the founding fathers., and for us to renew our commitment to these enduring values and ideals.

I spoke in my Malay speech earlier about an exhibition now on at the National Museum: Semangat yang Baru: Forging a New Singapore Spirit. The exhibition tells the story of the birth of our nation. It transports us back to our early years of nation-building. It honours the indomitable spirit of the Pioneer Generation. They dared; they fought ferociously for Singapore; they never gave up. And thus they turned mudflats into a metropolis, and took us from Third World to First.

But our forefathers built more than a nation of bricks and mortar, skyscrapers and a thriving economy. They created a nation founded on ideals: justice and equality; religious freedom and racial harmony; a commitment to excellence; a fair system of meritocracy; and an uncompromising insistence on honest, clean government.

“I will do my utmost to keep the system clean”

Integrity and incorruptibility are fundamental to Singapore. They are the foundation on which we run a clean and effective Government, and deliver results for Singaporeans. Mr Lee Kuan Yew considered these the most crucial ideals of all. On his 90th birthday, he came to Parliament to attend the sitting. We celebrated his birthday in the Members’ Room.

We were all there – PAP MPs and Ministers, Opposition MPs led by Mr Low Thia Khiang, as well as NMPs. Frail and ill, Mr Lee said just a few words. He spoke only about one thing – he reminded us Singapore must always remain clean and incorruptible, and Ministers and MPs have to set the example. Otherwise, he said, we are finished.

I will never forget those brief words. For the sake of the country, I will do all I can to keep faith with Mr Lee’s hope. No matter the price; no matter the embarrassment or political cost – I will do my utmost to keep the system clean. Every generation of PAP leaders must also stand by this – this is what Singapore depends upon.

The ideals I spoke about are not just abstract aspirations. They are our compass; they guide every decision we make. They give purpose and meaning to our nation building. They make Singapore stand tall amongst the nations of the world.

Covid seems like a bad dream

By upholding these ideals, we have over decades built a high trust society. One where people trust one another – “regardless of race, language or religion”. Where the people and the Government trust each other too, in big ways and small. This is what saw us through the ups and downs over the past 58 years, and this is how we weathered COVID-19.

COVID now seems like a bad dream. Confused, receding, getting forgotten. But the pandemic could well have been a real nightmare. Things could easily have gone horribly wrong, as they did in many other countries. Thankfully, we avoided disastrous outcomes, and averted the loss of many, many lives. Our people came through safe and sound; our economy revived in good shape; and our society has grown more united, not less. We owe this to our collective efforts, and our strong mutual trust, which we must strengthen and deepen to secure a bright future for our people.

WIFE JEALOUS THAT HUSBAND MAKES 2.5X MORE SALARY THAN HER

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Both my partner and I are in the same field of work. We both make great money and have good careers. I left my last job a year ago to refocus and decompress. A friend of mine offered me a job with the company he is joining. This job has stupid high pay. Last year while I wasn’t working she was making a lot. She recently just took a pay cut to reduce her workload.

If I take this job I’ll basically be making 2.5x her salary. She flat out told me she was angry and jealous, but not in the funny ha-ha way. She was very angry, almost crying. She’s always been slightly competitive, but I try not to be. I expected a celebration, or at least a congrats.

I have ideas of what’s upsetting her, but I don’t want to jump to conclusions. Is this common with couples? I’m just giving her space for now, but I was hoping for her to be happy about it.

I really did not expect her to respond this way and I thought that she will be delighted as we can eventually buy a better car or some gift or even a holiday for her to actually relax and be happy.

Oh well seems like money is not important, she has more pride than a man.

We’ve been together 10ish years. This was new for me.

I seek advice from a female friend and she said:

“From a women’s perspective. Her reaction was over the top and completely unacceptable. Yet let’s treat her and praise her for it. If GF doesn’t apologize and express regret for her reaction, he really needs to reevaluate his relationship not reward her. Give her a few days and see how she behaves after she calms down. Her reaction even with stress is not understandable. There are some people out there who are only happy if they feel you are below them or are doing better than you. “