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KIND S’PORE LECTURER GAVE UP HIS $150K LIFE SAVINGS TO FUND STUDIES OF 6 POOR STUDENTS

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Frankie Yee, a 56-year-old freelance lecturer in Singapore, made a life-changing decision that has captured the hearts of many. He chose to forgo his life savings, intended for a comfortable retirement, to fund the university education of six boys who were not even related to him, according to MustShareNews.

The Decision to Sacrifice Retirement Savings

As a lecturer with 27 years of experience at various private educational institutions, Frankie Yee had dedicated his life to education. When the six boys from a financially challenged background arrived in Singapore from a Central Asian country, struggling to make ends meet while studying, fate brought them together.

The boys shared their aspirations and dreams with Mr. Yee, revealing their desire for a better life that seemed beyond their reach in their home country. Witnessing their determination and potential, Mr. Yee was moved to help them achieve their goals.

Frankie Yee’s decision to raise funds for the boys was met with resistance and skepticism. Friends and family were hesitant to support his cause, questioning his motives for helping strangers.

Despite the hurtful comments and constant rejection, Mr. Yee refused to give up. He believed in the boys’ potential and knew that without his support, they might not get a chance at higher education.

The Bold Sacrifice

Undeterred by the challenges, Frankie Yee made a bold sacrifice—he decided to forgo his retirement home in Genting, for which he had already put down a down payment, in order to fund the boys’ first year of university education.

This decision meant taking out loans to support the boys’ education, but he was willing to do whatever it took to give them a chance at a brighter future.

Nurturing Dreams

Over the years, Frankie Yee had shown remarkable kindness to his students. He had helped pay part of their school fees, ensured they had enough to eat, and even provided transportation to work so they could get adequate rest.

His commitment to his students and their well-being extended beyond the classroom, making him a beloved figure in their lives.

The Impact of Selfless Giving

Frankie Yee’s selfless act of sacrificing his retirement savings to fund the education of these six boys has had a profound impact on their lives.

Two of the boys were admitted to the prestigious University of Sydney, and the remaining four are eagerly awaiting their visas to commence their studies in Australia.

Beyond the direct impact on the boys, this story has touched the hearts of people who have come to know about Mr. Yee’s extraordinary act of kindness.

It serves as a powerful reminder of the transformative power of generosity and the potential ripple effects of one person’s selfless actions.

Header images sources: Frankie Yee on LinkedIn and screengrab from Aventis Graduate School on YouTube.

TAN CHENG BOCK RETURNING FOR NEXT GENERAL ELECTION, SAYS SCANDALS TAINTED S’PORE IMAGE

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Tan Cheng Bock, the chairman of the Progress Singapore Party (PSP), announced his decision to contest in the upcoming General Election (GE).

Tan was speaking to Lianhe Zaobao during his walkabout at the West Coast Market on 22 July, sharing that he will likely be contesting in the West Coast GRC like his previous running during the GE2020.

At 83 years old, Tan remains as determined as ever to contribute to the political discourse and represent his constituents.

Tan Cheng Bock

In 2020, he led the PSP team in the West Coast Group Representation Constituency (GRC) during the General Election and secured an impressive 48.31 per cent of the vote share against the PAP’s team that was led by Transport Minister S. Iswaran, who has recently been arrested by the Corrupt Practices and Investigation Bureau (CPIB) and is assisting them with investigations.

Despite narrowly losing out and not clinching an elected seat, the party’s secretary-general, Leong Mun Wai, and vice-chairman, Hazel Poa, became Non-Constituency Members of Parliament (NCMPs), a significant achievement for the PSP.

Emphasizing the significance of the General Election, Tan Cheng Bock asserted that it is the ultimate goal for politicians. He expressed his party’s readiness, irrespective of when the next GE is held.

He also announced that he will personally screen potential new candidates for the PSP., saying that he wants to know their attitude and determination before recruiting.

Recent scandals

Beyond discussing his party’s strategies, Tan Cheng Bock addressed recent high-profile incidents involving members of the People’s Action Party (PAP) and the Workers’ Party (WP).

He expressed concern over the impact of these scandals on public trust in the political system. Incidents such as transport minister S Iswaran’s involvement with the Corruptive Practices Investigation Bureau (CPIB) and the extramarital affair of several high profile politicians, including now-former speaker of parliament Tan Chuan Jin’s affair with fellow PAP MP Cheng Li Hui, and the WP’s Leon Perera’s affair with senior member Nicole Seah.

He said that he felt sad about the scandals which he says has tarnished the Singapore political system and image and that it could result in the public losing trust.

36 Y.O MAN THOUGHT HE’S GHOST RIDER, STOLE MOTORCYLE @ GEYLANG & ARRESTED

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MAN ARRESTED FOR THEFT OF MOTORCYCLE

The Police has arrested a 36-year-old man for his suspected involvement in a case of theft of motorcycle.

On 12 July 2023 at about 5.10am, the Police were alerted to a case of a motorcycle being stolen along Lorong 21 Geylang. Through follow-up investigations and with the aid of images from Police cameras, officers from Bedok Police Division established the identity of the man and arrested him on 21 July 2023. The stolen motorcycle was also recovered.

The man will be charged in court on 22 July 2023 with theft of a motor vehicle under Section 379A of the Penal Code 1871. The offence carries an imprisonment term of up to seven years and a fine.

The Police would like to advise all motorcycle owners to adopt the following crime prevention measures:

  1. Park your motorcycle in well-lit areas;
  2. Install an anti-theft alarm for your motorcycle;
  3. Use a motorcycle canvas to cover the motorcycle, securing both ends;
  4. Use additional locking devices such as disc brake locks or install a suspension guard;
  5. Remove the ignition key and lock the motorcycle, whenever it is left unattended; and
  6. Do not leave spare keys inside the motorcycle storage box.

PUBLIC AFFAIRS DEPARTMENT
SINGAPORE POLICE FORCE
21 July 2023 @ 3:05 PM

Other wannabe ghostriders

The Police have arrested a 45-year-old man for his suspected involvement in a case of theft of motor vehicles.

On 15 June 2023, the Police were alerted to a case of motor vehicles being stolen from a carpark in the vicinity of Hougang Avenue 6. The owner allegedly left the keys at the front tyre of the two vehicles that belonged to a rental company.

Through follow-up investigations and with the aid of images from CCTV, officers from Ang Mo Kio Police Division established the identity of the man and arrested him on 29 June 2023. The two stolen cars were subsequently recovered.

14 Y.O S’PORE TEEN WHO TRIED TO RAPE 8 Y.O SISTER, SENTENCED TO REFORMATIVE TRAINING

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In a shocking case that came to light in 2022, a then-14-year-old Singapore teenager who attempted to rape his then-8-year-old younger sister in 2020, was sentenced on Monday (24 July) to undergo reformative training for at least a year, according to The Straits Times.

The boy, who is now 17, will be detained in a center where he will be made to undergo a regiment which includes counselling.

A informative training order is a comparatively more severe punishment than probation for young offenders, with the primary goal being the rehabilitation of the offender and preventing them from reoffending.

The Offender’s Guilty Plea

In May, the teenager pleaded guilty to one count each of attempted rape and attempted penetration. Due to a gag order to protect the victim’s identity, he cannot be named publicly.

The offenses took place in the flat where the siblings lived with their parents, older brother, and paternal grandmother; where the boy attacked his sister on two occasions.

The Incidents

In June 2020, the then-14-year-old attempted to rape his younger sister in her bedroom, where she did not resist, and he also took explicit photos of her after the incident.

He then told a friend about 2 months later about the explicit photos that he had taken (which had been deleted), and that he wanted to have intercourse with his younger sister.

Then sometime between 5 February and 27 July in 2022, the boy once again tried to rape his sister, who was then between 9 to 10 years old, but failed.

Their mother also walked in on them on one occasion and he lied to her about helping to check the victim’s private parts because she was in pain, and the mother believed him but told him not to do it again.

The offender’s crimes remained hidden until 2022 when his friend, to whom he had confessed his intentions and actions two years earlier, informed their school teachers about it.

The school principal then met with the teenager and his parents, and the boy’s father then lodged a police report the next month.

The Court’s Decision for Reformative Training

The court, after considering the severity of the offenses and the offender’s need for rehabilitation, decided to impose reformative training.

This form of detention aims to provide the young offender with a structured environment for reform and counseling, with the ultimate goal of transforming their behavior and ensuring they do not reoffend in the future.

SHANMUGAM VISITS FUNERAL OF DECEASED POLICE OFFICER TO BRING “CLOSURE” TO FAMILY

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On Friday, 21st July, a heartbreaking incident occurred at an HDB block in Yishun, Singapore, where a police officer was found motionless at the foot of the building. Tragically, the officer succumbed to his injuries, sending shockwaves throughout the nation.

However, what made this incident even more significant were the allegations of racial discrimination and toxic workplace practices by the deceased, who penned a lengthy facebook post exposing his alleged tormentors before his death.

Amidst the grief and sorrow surrounding the officer’s passing, Law and Home Affairs Minister K. Shanmugam took it upon himself to visit the wake of the deceased officer to address the concerns and provide support to the grieving family.

The Minister’s Visit: A Gesture of Support

On Sunday, 23rd July, Minister K. Shanmugam was seen at Block 393 Yishun Avenue 6, where the funeral of the deceased police officer, Sergeant Uvaraja S/O Gopal, was held.

Mr. Shanmugam’s presence at the wake was not only in his capacity as a Member of Parliament for Nee Soon Group Representation Constituency (GRC) but also to support the family during this difficult time. He was accompanied by Mr. Derrick Goh, who represents Sgt. Uvaraja’s constituency.

It is a customary practice for Members of Parliament to attend the wakes of residents within their respective constituencies as a way of showing their empathy and concern for the people they represent.

Providing Closure and Clarity

During his visit to the wake, Mr. Shanmugam expressed his desire to bring closure to the family members of Sgt. Uvaraja. He acknowledged that the family was unaware of certain aspects of the late officer’s situation, which led to the minister taking the time to explain these matters to them.

By doing so, he hoped to provide the family with a better understanding of the circumstances surrounding their Sgt Uvaraja’s passing.

Mr. Shanmugam assured the family that after the funeral, the authorities would provide them with support and further explanations regarding the issues they would have to face, but declined to reveal to the media what he spoke about with the family out of respect.

Thorough Investigation of Allegations

Addressing the serious allegations made by Sgt. Uvaraja, Mr. Shanmugam reiterated that the claims would be subjected to a thorough investigation. As the minister responsible for the SPF under his Home Affairs portfolio, he emphasized the importance of taking such matters seriously.

He pointed out that approximately 40% of police officers in Singapore are from minority races and the the police acknowledges that failure to investigate allegations like these meticulously could lead to a loss of public trust in the police force, and that they will get to the bottom of the matter.

Recap

EX-POLICEWOMAN STEPS FORWARD & SAYS SHE WAS ALSO TRAUMATISED AT WORK

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In recent social media revelations, a henna tattoo artist and former Singapore Police Force (SPF) officer, Fauzella Sahabdin, has come forward to share her harrowing experiences during her time in the force.

The news of police officer Uvaraja S/O Gopal’s death triggered painful memories of the alleged torment she endured, as she took to Facebook to recount her experiences, according to MustShareNews.

Scars of trauma

The former SPF officer recollects that while there were some supportive superiors, others subjected her to a difficult and distressing environment, particularly during her initial six months on the job.

She was informed that hazing was allegedly ingrained as a culture at the workplace. These circumstances pushed her to the brink of resignation.

However, she decided to stay when she found understanding and encouragement from a senior officer. Despite persevering for another seven years, the scars of her traumatic experiences still linger.

Ms. Fauzella expressed her grievances on Facebook, stating that she was allegedly often belittled and made to feel inadequate during her time in the force.

Eager to make a positive impact on society, she entered the SPF with high aspirations but was met with a reality far from her expectations. She described her first six months as a hellish ordeal, where insults were allegedly hurled at her incessantly.

The former officer recounted alleged instances of degrading name-calling and even being allegedly labelled a derogatory term by a senior male colleague, who never offered an apology.

The toxic work environment further manifested when she expressed a desire to rest after a night duty rather than joining her team for breakfast, which her team leader allegedly responded by calling her arrogant.

Ms. Fauzella found herself at the receiving end of continuous insults and mockery, becoming a subject of jokes among her colleagues.

A Ray of Hope

Thankfully, a turning point emerged with the arrival of a young inspector named Jason Lim. He took charge as the team leader and promptly acknowledged the existing issues.

He intervened whenever he noticed unfair treatment, effectively challenging the toxic culture. Ms. Fauzella expressed her gratitude to him for providing much-needed support during the most difficult phase of her life.

Sadly, Mr. Lim was transferred to the Criminal Investigation Department (CID) after a year, and soon after, Ms. Fauzella decided to tender her resignation.

However, she was persuaded to stay by her Deputy Commander, offering a transfer to the training branch. With a promise to accept her resignation if she still felt the same after three months, he managed to convince her to continue for another seven years.

Despite her extended tenure, the trauma from those distressing experiences still haunts Ms. Fauzella to this day. She tearfully admits that the hurt remains, and she remains fearful whenever her sons are out without her, dreading the possibility of them facing similar mistreatment.

A Plea for Respect and Dignity

Reflecting on her past, Ms. Fauzella emphasizes the importance of treating subordinates with respect and dignity. She advocates for an environment where people are not driven to madness merely to feed the ego of their superiors.

Her message rings loud and clear – everyone deserves respect, regardless of their position or experience. Empathy and understanding are crucial, as everyone’s emotional strength varies, and personal growth takes different paths.

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MDRT INSURANCE AGENTS SHARES SECRET TO HIS SUCCESS

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I am an insurance agent. So many negative and hilarious posts about my job. Thought I’ll offer another perspective to some people who are considering joining.

My credentials: I am under 30, in this line for years, quarter-million annual taxable income, MDRT and all the other awards, blah blah blah….

1. Do not underestimate the privilege of having no liabilities & responsibilities.

I joined this line at 21, and only needed to take care of myself financially. This means I could afford to earn only $12k a year back then while building my career slowly and organically. Treating every day working as a learning opportunity rather than being super despo to close the sale. Those desperate to close the sale usually fail because consumers are not idiots. Then it becomes a vicious cycle, no sale = no money = more despo. Trust me, you will earn like nuts the first few years. That’s normal. Those “successful”, “young” agents that earn money “fast” are liars. There are so many dirty tricks in this industry to con the consumers. If you know you know.

2. Literally get good at money.

So many agents only call themselves “investment specialists” but can only sell their companies’ ILP. That’s bull. I know so many junior agents that do not even have a brokerage account and whatever issues the client has, ILP will always be the answer. While you are earning like peanuts, you should invest your own money and be legit good. Attend courses like CFA, CFP, ChFC, Certified Private Banking etc and APPLY the knowledge learnt. Do your own investments, talk to doctors to be aware of medical trends, be extremely familiar with all the different hospitals processes. Personally, I have certain qualifications and run my own investment holdings company, hence clients trust my advice more than some XMM in a LV bag talking about why her ILP is the best.

3. Network like f.

Consumers can buy insurance online and this trend will increase in the future. So what is the agent’s value proposition? I am the problem solver. Need some free legal advice? I can set up an informal dinner with my lawyer clients. Need a medical appt soon, I can bypass the long waiting time and set one for you within 3 days. Need to divorce your spouse? I know many private investigators and dirty tricks to increase your chances of winning. Need car mechanics and workshops? I get kickbacks from the shops and pass it to you as a form of savings. Need renovators and interior designers? I know people. Wanna get a job in IB (JP, UBS, Morgan Stanley etc), I know people, lemme set up a lunch. This network is exclusive to paying customers only, not even my extended family or friends have access to it, unless they are paying customers. The more the customers pay, the more priority you get in my network. So, it becomes a bidding war among customers and it makes good business sense.

That’s all. You can earn a lot in this career, but it is all blood sweat and tears. Young naive people also quite dumb ah, you think can just suka suka earn $100K fresh out of school, with no qualifications meh? There is always a price to pay, hope this enlightens people out there.

Maybe I shall do a confession exposing how agents appear successful? and churning practices? hahahahaha

COUPLE MARRIED FOR 25 YEARS, GREW TO RESENT EACH OTHER OVER THE YEARS

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A netizen shared how he has been married to his wife for 25 years and as the years passed, they started growing to resent each other and now it feels like they are just roommates.

Here is the story:

“Married 25 years, feels like we are nothing more than roommates now.

As the title says. About four years ago, she decided that she would rather I sleep in the spare room because she needs her sleep, and can’t tolerate any noise, movement or touch.

Why should I sleep in the spare room you ask? Well of course, because the master bedroom has the bathroom attached, and that’s where her clothes and makeup are, so it’s ”easier” if I go to the spare room.

As the years go by, so does the intimacy. Resentment builds – this is not what a marriage is supposed to be.

We have several talks last year about lack of intimacy, and general avoidance of each other. She says we really need to start working on “us”. I couldn’t agree more, and say, let’s start by sharing the marital bed. She says, “I don’t see that happening “. End of discussion.

The last 6 months, she’s been extremely judgmental of our children. She’s constantly criticizing what they wear, what they eat, their friends, you name it. It’s a total turnoff for me. I tell her she’s being too judgmental, and so do the kids. Her response is “it’s my job to make sure you look good, etc…”. Your job I say? She doesn’t respond.

I’ve pretty much lost interest in her. Now she says, “you should go get a checkup, something’s off. It’s been a couple months since we’ve fooled around?”

Me get a check up? Are you kidding me? Now I’m even less interested.

What has happened????? Has anyone else gone through this twilight zone?”

GUY TERRIFIED OF DYING, SCARED THAT ONE DAY HE WILL JUST “CEASE TO EXIST”

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A netizen shared how he is afraid of dying and suddenly “cease to exist”.

Here is the story:

“I live a normal life, go to school, hang with friends and family, have a girlfriend, etc. im not religious and don’t necessarily believe in god, but i used to go to church every once a while.

In all, my life is pretty good. But sometimes all i can ever think about is how any day i could die and i would just cease to exist.

i can’t comprehend what happens after death.

Thinking about myself dying is bad enough but then i think about my parents and brother and my mind starts to spiral and the fact that everyone i know and love will die fills my head as the only thought.

every time this happens it’s a different feeling than i have never felt. is that what anxiety is? i don’t understand it. Is this normal? do i have a phobia of death or something of the sort? i wish there was a way for me not to be so scared.

I don’t know if this has anything to do with it but mental health problems are common in my family. my brother with bad anxiety, my mother with that as well as my grandmother who was also bipolar.

Is this the cause for these thoughts?

Sorry if this sounds like such a trivial and stupid fear, i don’t know if it’s the best explanation of my feelings but i just know that it looms in my head and often keeps me from being as happy as i could be.

Looking for some clarity.”

Editor’s notes: Everybody dies one day, someday. It’s part and parcel of life and there’s nothing to be afraid of.

BROTHER MOVES IN WITH HALF SISTER, MOTHER GOT FURIOUS

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When I was 14 I found out my dad stepped out on my mom and got another woman pregnant when I was a baby, so I have a half-sister I’d never met. My mom found out when she realized he was making child support payments, and she kicked him out for a few weeks but she eventually forgave him on the condition that he never contacts the “affair baby” (her words) and she never has to hear about or see her.

I’d grown up the youngest of the family with 4 older brothers so little 14yo me was just excited to have a) a sister and b) a younger sister at that. I begged my dad to get me in contact with her and eventually he gave me her name so I could look her up on social media. Turns out she knew already she had half-siblings, her mom was pretty open with her about the situation, and she had always been pretty curious to know us, so she was happy to be in contact with me.

I gave my mom a heads up that I was talking to my half-sister and she was obviously very unhappy about it and said she just didn’t want to know about it. My half-sister and I became really close, I didn’t tell my mom about it, it was weird but we made it work. Fast forward 6 years and both me and my half-sister were starting to think about moving out of the home. We both felt like the most obvious thing to do was get a place together, since we both needed a housemate at the same time in the same area, and we were so close, but with my mom’s issues with her, we weren’t sure.

Eventually, I just bit the bullet and asked my mom how she’d feel if I moved in with my half sister. Again she was obviously not thrilled about it but said she’d be fine with it as long as she doesn’t have to see or hear anything about my sister. I took that to mean if I wanted to spend time with my mom I’d just go visit home or we’d go out somewhere together. After we moved in, I found out my mom meant she wanted to come visit me sometimes and she wanted me to either have my sister leave or hide in her room for that time.

She’s acting like I should have known that without her telling me, and she’s upset with me that I refuse to kick my sister out of her own flat or make her hide like Harry Potter, “I’ll be in my room, making no noise, and pretending I don’t exist”. It turns out she’s also mad at me for moving in with her in the first place, apparently, I was supposed to know that when she insisted she’d be fine with it, she actually wanted me to not do it.

Here is what netizens think:

  • Think your mom needs marriage counseling and therapy. She “forgave” your father but faulted his child when it wasn’t her fault. Guess she thought that by pretending the child didn’t exist, her marriage isn’t broken and her family remains whole.
  • My grandmother did this and my grandfather didn’t even cheat. He was married before he met her and had kids together. When he got with my grandma, she banned him from seeing the kids or contacting them. I didn’t even know I had other aunts and uncles until he passed away. My mom’s two half brothers wanted nothing to do with him after he cut them off like that, but my mom’s half sister was devastated because before that, she was a daddy’s girl. Neither of my grandparents were good people, but I never understood how she could punish literal children for her own jealousy.
  • My husband cheated on me and got a young woman, 10 years younger than our sons, pregnant. Our marriage ended despite his protests because it was not his first time to cheat. He ended up marrying the young female. We have a grandchild that was born two months after this child was born and they are the best of friends. I see her at birthday parties, I hear about her through the other grandchildren, etc