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MAN THINKS EVERY WOMAN WHO INTERACTS WITH HIM, WANTS TO SLEEP WITH HIM

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I (25F) told my husband (27M) that not every girl wants to sleep with him

I feel bad about this. He doesn’t seem hurt but I don’t want it to fester in his head so I wanted to ask opinions. Basically, my husband has a history of always thinking girls want to sleep with him.

Girl says hi at the cashier, she wants to sleep with him. Older coworker asks how his weekend was, she wants to sleep with him. Girl compliments his work, she wants to sleep with him, etc.

Some of the time I do think he’s justified but a lot of them I think he’s majorly reading into it. I never mentioned anything about it and just let it go to give him the confidence boost.

My coworkers met him for the first time last week. One of them is usually cold to me, but after she met him, she ran into me at work and told me that my husband is so nice and that she hopes I bring him around more often. It felt very sweet and platonic and I’m pretty sure she is a lesbian.

Anyway, I mentioned this to him and he had a way over the top reaction, saying “she definitely wants to sleep with me, why else would she randomly be nice to you, no one would do that unless they want to sleep with their coworker’s spouse.”

For some reason, it set me off this time, and I told him incredulously “dude what? Where did you get that from? That’s such an overreaction. She was just being nice. She doesn’t want to sleep with you and I think she’s a lesbian.”

He responded asking me if I thought he was ugly, I.e. why would she not want to sleep with me? I told him no, he is not ugly, but that jumping to that conclusion was just weird. He accepted it and that was that.

I can’t help but feel like I’m going to give him confidence issues now or make him feel like he’s not attractive. I’m wondering if I’m justified in not wanting him to constantly be thinking girls want to screw him but I feel like I was harsh.

What do you all think about this and should I do anything about it? Did I screw up? I feel like an evil person. I want him to always be confident in himself so I don’t want him to think I was trying to hit his self-esteem. It’s just annoying when he always thinks every girl wants to sleep with him.

Thanks all.

CRAZY DRUNK MAN SCOLDS NEIGHBOUR & PRESSES LIFT BUTTON TO STOP HIM GOING DOWN

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How do you deal with drunk people in your block?

Context: a drunk man abt in his 60s keeps hurling vulgarity at me when he sees me with my dog in the lift. I live on 13 floor but he lives on the 9th floor.

So the thing is I would take down his usual timing that he cone out and walk my dog like 1h earlier or later than the timing noted down.

However, despite this, I tend to encounter him and he does his nonsense to me.

Last week, he was frustrated hurled vulgarities at me both in English and his own language n keep pressing the lift button to prevent me from going down.

Luckily, one of his family member came out and stop him.I would just tend to keep quiet and mind my own businessas i believe there is not point in wasting my energy to quarrel with someone who cant think straight but however i do tend to feel annoyed and sian on dealing with these wierd ppl.

Anyone has story to share n end this type of problem?,

Netizens’ comments

  1. How do you even encounter one person so often lmao. Is he camping in the lift waiting for you?
    • (OP) I really have no idea man. I exhausted my alternate methods to avoid him le. Is like I take an empty lift down, so coincidental stops at lvl 9
  2. If he is hurling vulgarities, he is committing a criminal offence.
    Call the police next time you see him and they’ll happily take care of it. Don’t give any more chances.
    Such unruly behaviour has no place in our tranquil and peaceful society.
  3. Consider recording the incidents for evidence.
  4. Tell him to stfu or you will call the polis, and next time take video and record as evidence.

M’SIAN ASKS WHY S’POREANS IDOLISE ANG MOHS SO MUCH, ASKS WHERE IS OUR PRIDE

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Why are Ang Moh so idolized in Singapore ?

Please feel free to correct me on this. But why are white expat so idolized and revered by middle class and upper class Singaporean? I’m from Penang, so seeing white people everywhere isn’t something new to me.

But I grew up seeing these white expat assimilate into the Penang culture and environment. I would have expected that Singaporean would have national pride to encourage these Ang Moh to embrace the Singaporean culture and not the other way around.

Granted this observation is mainly regarding the upper class and upper middle class Singaporean.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Remnants of colonial mentality although also due to the country’s economic dependency on international trade with western countries at the start.
  2. They are idolised in Asia, not just SG. Yup, I don’t agree with it either…it’s frankly ridiculous
  3. They will not be idolized soon, the West is a mess.
  4. Usually by those service staff tbh, those pinoys see ang moh, yes sir yes sir, still trapped in the colonial past. See chinese, their tone change
  5. Whiter person here. Asian people treated me normal for the several years I lived in SG, only strange thing is women crotch gazing and a food stall vendor gave me a fake bill.
    Also an angry factory worker spilt sauce on my pants because he probably thought I was taking a local’s job. Got called an ang moh a couple times. Indian women hit on me but never Asian.
    I might have been protected by people at work a bit because I come from a different culture. The pressure to do good at work was greater than for locals because it seemed like they expected me to have super powers because I got head hunted to work in SG. Asians were mostly jealous of my salary if anything and resented me being in sg but friendly to my face.
  6. Throughout SEA, there’s definitely some sort of White Privilege going on – I have encountered this when travelling with my Malay wife (been dating since 2015, so go away with accusations of sexpat, pls). I personally have done nothing to deserve it. Am not more atas, I live in an HDB, but I do think it still holds a novelty value for some.
  7. I don’t think it’s being idolized, if anything, it just goes to show that Singaporeans in general are more open minded to new cultures I guess.

MAN SAYS IT’S ONLY CHEATING IF YOU DO IT MORE THAN ONCE, IF ONLY ONCE IT’S CALLED A “MISTAKE”

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I called my bf a cheater and he got really offended

I’m 20f and he’s 24m we only been together a short time of six months. He works a lot of the time I don’t get to see until the weekends most times. I only work part time and live at home so it’s really up to him when we see each other.

Last weekend we saw each other a short time and we hooked up. Something happened and we had a fight( he called me the wrong name) so things ended early I had to go home.

I found out later he went out with friends to drink at a bar. It made me mad but I don’t control him. Later that night early morning I got a text and it woke me up. It was from an unknown number and it’s basically said “I just f-ed (my bf’s name) after we drank. I hope you know he likes me better then you” I replied asking who is this and why are you lying? But I guess I was blocked and got no reply.

I spammed my bfs phone for hours but never heard back. Finally on Sunday he picked up after I called him one more time. I asked what happened what was that text what did he do. He said nothing he just drank with friends then passed out all night. He called me crazy for believing the text ( I screenshot it and sent it to him). I didn’t believe and called him a cheater! He got really mad I called him that.

He then said you’re only a cheater if it’s more than once, once is just a mistake. He said how dare you call me cheater I’m not like that! I asked him exactly what mistake he made but he wouldn’t tell me. I was so angry and hurt almost going to cry I was going to end it right there. But he told me he can’t be with some so naive about relationships with no trust in their partners who let a little drunken mistake affect it. He said if I calmed down and became more mature he might think about taking me back. I just hung up on him.

This guy who I really liked how could he be like that? Why’s he think I’m so naive. I just wish he never did that I saw a future together. In moment of weakness I considered us getting back. Maybe he’s changed and learnt something over all this. But I doubt it.

ICA FOILS SMUGGLING ATTEMPT OF UNDECLARED ALCOHOL & FAKE WATCHES @ S’PORE PORTS

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The discovery of 192 bottles of undeclared alcoholic beverages inside a cargo container at the scanning station in Pasir Panjang was recently made by the Immigration and Checkpoints Authority (ICA).

The ICA shared on their Facebook page that these bottles were cleverly concealed among personal belongings. On May 10, during the scanning process, these bottles were identified as irregularities in the images of the inbound cargo container.

The ICA emphasized that this incident was one of three similar cases involving undeclared alcoholic beverages and suspected counterfeit watches found in inbound cargo containers. In a separate occurrence on May 1, a cargo container at Tuas Port was found to contain 18 bottles of alcohol and 132 watches that were seized. These items were cleverly hidden amidst various other cargo and were discovered during inspection.

On May 16, a third incident took place at Tanjong Pagar Scanning Station, where ICA officers uncovered 990 sets of undeclared smart watches hidden among assorted cargo during inspection. Similar to the previous cases, these items were detected as anomalies during the scanning process.

Following the discovery of these cases, Singapore Customs was subsequently notified and will be conducting further investigations.

It is important to note that under the Customs Act, individuals who knowingly evade or attempt to evade customs duty or excise duty can face severe penalties. This includes fines of up to 20 times the amount of duty and GST evaded or imprisonment for a maximum of two years.

ICA’s statement on Facebook

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ICA officers from Ports Command foiled three attempts at smuggling in undeclared duty-unpaid 𝐖ine, suspected counterfeit 𝐖atches, and undeclared smart 𝐖atches via inbound cargo containers, within three weeks at different port facilities.

On 1 May, ICA officers at Tuas Port detected anomalies in the scanned images of a cargo container. During checks, a total of 18 bottles of undeclared alcoholic beverages and 132 suspected counterfeit watches were uncovered hidden amongst other assorted cargo.

On 10 May, ICA officers at Pasir Panjang Scanning Station detected anomalies in the scanned images of another cargo container. A total of 192 bottles of undeclared alcoholic beverages was uncovered hidden amongst personal effects during checks.

On 16 May, ICA officers at Tanjong Pagar Scanning Station detected anomalies in the scanned images of another cargo container. A total of 990 sets of undeclared smart watches was uncovered hidden amongst other assorted cargo during checks.

The cases were referred to Singapore Customs for further investigation.

ICA conducts checks to detect and deter the non-declaration of dutiable and taxable goods brought into Singapore.

As Guardians of Our Borders, ICA is committed to facilitating trade & safe travels while keeping Singapore’s borders safe & secure.

CUSTOMER NOT HAPPY EATERY STAFF CALLED HIM “UNCLE”, THROW CHAIR & THROW FOOD AT THEM

A man in Petaling Jaya, Malaysia, became offended when the staff at a an eatery referred to him as ‘uncle’.

The man became agitated and in his frustration, he threw his takeaway food, accidentally hitting a four-year-old boy who was present at the restaurant. The local authorities in Subang Jaya are currently conducting an investigation into the incident.

The incident, as reported by Sin Chew Daily, took place on 4 June and was the result of a misunderstanding between the restaurant staff and the male customer.

Allegedly, a staff member had used the term ‘pakcik’ to address the customer, which translates to ‘uncle’ in Malay. However, the customer objected to this term and requested to be referred to as either ‘abang’, meaning ‘older brother’ in Malay, or ‘baby’.

Unfortunately, the staff did not take the customer’s request seriously and continued to use the term ‘pakcik’ to address him.

This angered the customer, who became increasingly agitated while receiving his takeaway food. He started yelling, insulting the staff, and threatening to cause damage to the restaurant’s property.

Before leaving, he threw his takeaway bag forcefully towards a woman who appeared to be a restaurant employee.

The impact of the thrown bag caused its contents, including food and a hot drink, to spill out and hit the four-year-old son of the restaurant owner.

It remains unclear whether the hit was intentional or accidental. The incident left other customers in the restaurant feeling frightened and uneasy.

CCTV footage captured the suspect returning to the restaurant shortly after the incident. He proceeded to throw chairs, gesticulate wildly, and shout before eventually leaving again.

According to Sin Chew Daily, the Subang Jaya district police chief, ACP Wan Azlan, confirmed in a statement on 6 June that the young boy was unharmed.

The police have received a report regarding the incident and are currently searching for the suspect. The matter is being investigated under Malaysia’s Penal Code for criminal intimidation and assault.

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GRAB DRIVER NO TAXI LICENSE BUT PICKED UP STREET-HAIL PASSENGERS, FINED $2.3K

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A woman, who was licensed solely as a private-hire driver and not as a taxi driver, accepted two passengers who hailed her vehicle. Subsequently, an accident occurred involving her car, leading to a court case where the judge imposed a fine of S$2,300 (US$1,706) and a 12-month driving ban.

The conviction resulted from two charges that the Grab driver initially denied but was found guilty of: using a chauffeured private-hire car without a valid license permitting taxi usage and operating a private-hire car for profit or reward as a taxi public service vehicle without the appropriate insurance policy.

Background

According to a recently published judgment on June 7, 2023, Nandha Sharm Nair drove her private-hire car on the evening of January 27, 2022. At MacPherson Road, two individuals attempted to hail a taxi, and Nair, aged 45, halted her car in front of them. Although neither of the men had made a reservation, Nair agreed to transport them to Beatty Lane, a journey of approximately 15 minutes.

Upon arrival at Beatty Lane, one of the passengers handed Nair a S$50 note and requested change. After negotiating, Nair accepted S$25 from him. While Nair was discussing the fare with one passenger, the other passenger alighted first and accidentally struck Nair’s car with his own vehicle.

The court documents did not disclose how Nair’s offenses came to light, but they did mention that the passenger responsible for the accident was investigated by the traffic police shortly after. Despite Nair’s claim that both passengers might have been intoxicated, the passenger who caused the accident was not ultimately convicted of any drink driving offense.

Under the Road Traffic Act, a vehicle cannot be used as a public service vehicle unless a valid license authorizing such use is held. The key distinction between a private-hire car and a taxi lies in the fact that a taxi can actively seek passengers, while a private-hire car cannot, as stated in the judgment.

Referring to previous legal cases, District Judge Soh Tze Bian clarified that a vehicle driving along the roads in search of fares and stopping when hailed is clearly considered plying for hire. He added that an important consideration in this case was whether a prior booking had been made before the driver interacted with the potential passenger, either through a ride-hailing app or a similar platform. If such a booking had been made, the vehicle would not be deemed to be plying for hire.

Nair, in her defense, claimed that she had a booking that was ultimately canceled at the location where the two men were waiting by the roadside. She stated that she agreed to transport them solely out of compassion, as they had allegedly been waiting for nearly an hour without finding a ride. Nair insisted that there was no discussion of fees or financial gain when the passengers entered her vehicle or during the journey, thus asserting that she did not employ her car as a public service vehicle.

Judge Soh, however, concurred with the prosecutors from the Land Transport Authority who argued that Nair lacked credibility as a witness. He considered her testimony to be self-serving and an attempt to absolve herself of any liability for the offenses.

Judge Soh found that Nair did not transport the two men out of compassion. He determined that Nair initially stopped her vehicle to check on her canceled booking, implying that she was likely seeking passengers. He stated that it was evident Nair used her vehicle to ply for hire without possessing a valid taxi public service vehicle license.

The judge highlighted that taxis are subject to stricter regulations compared to private-hire cars, including more frequent inspections and more rigorous driver training. He emphasized that private-hire cars should not perform street-hailing functions reserved for taxis, as this is crucial for the safety of both drivers and passengers.

The judge noted that Nair’s lack of prior convictions was her only mitigating factor.

For using a private-hire vehicle as a taxi without a valid license, Nair could have faced a maximum penalty of six months in jail, a fine of up to S$3,000, or both. Additionally, for operating a private-hire car for profit or reward as a taxi public service vehicle, she could have received a prison term of up to three months, a fine of up to S$1,000, and a 12-month driving ban.

31 Y.O MAN ARRESTED FOR DRIVING WITH NO LICENSE, CAR CRASHED INTO LAMP-POST @ YISHUN

A 31-year-old man has been apprehended by the authorities for driving without a valid license and causing a collision in Yishun on the evening of Monday, June 5.

Furthermore, the individual operated the vehicle without the permission of the owner.

The impact of the accident resulted in the car colliding with a lamp post, as depicted in photographs shared on Facebook by Beh Chia Lor – Singapore Road. The images reveal a white car severely damaged against a lamp post, with its rear boot open.

Several law enforcement officers can be observed in close proximity to the vehicle in the images.

According to the information obtained by Mothership in response to their inquiries, the police were notified of a collision involving a car and a van at approximately 7:30 PM on June 5, 2023. The incident occurred on Yishun Avenue 6, heading towards Yishun Avenue 1.

The 31-year-old male driver was apprehended for operating a vehicle without a license and without the consent of the owner. The authorities have also reported that a 32-year-old male van driver is cooperating with the ongoing investigation.

The investigation into the matter is currently underway.

Beh Chia Lor’s Facebook post

A car was seen smashed into a lamp post along Yishun Ave 6 last night 05-06-2023. A damaged van was also seen being towed away, and Police told a man (presumably the driver of the car or van) to put his hands on the police car and stand still while they questioned him.

Netizens’ comments

  1. Yishun the sway area, keep happening not good but only bad.
  2. Oh god..Yishun again.
  3. No skill still die die want to act cute.
  4. Why always Yishun?
  5. Ahhh once again, Yishun, the home of the weird happenings and all the siao langs, no skill don’t know how to drive still die die want to implicate other people to die with him.

ANGKONG SIAO XMM GETS ASKED WHY SHE “RUINED” HER BODY, EX-BF’S PARENTS CAN’T ACCEPT

A young woman from Singapore recently posted a TikTok video sharing some encounters she had with people commenting on her tattoos in public. Although the comments were not particularly mean, many strangers expressed surprise and shock at her half sleeve tattoo. Despite the attention she receives, she mentioned that she has learned to cope with it.

The TikTok user, known as Jeynelle, recounted her first experience at a camera store. While buying her camera, an older man asked her in Chinese if she, as a young person, was not afraid of the pain associated with getting a tattoo. When she confirmed that it was indeed painful, he questioned why she still chose to get inked.

Jeynelle did not disclose her response to the man’s inquiry but proceeded to share another encounter she had while taking a private-hire car. At the time, she was wearing a spaghetti strap top, which fully exposed her tattoos.

The driver asked her if she needed to cover them up, leaving her confused as to why that would be necessary. Instead of providing an explanation, the driver glanced at her tattoos and diverted the conversation by talking about the possibility of the weather getting cold.

In addition to these incidents, Jeynelle revealed that she has also faced more hurtful comments in the past. People have made derogatory remarks, questioning why she chose to “ruin” her body with tattoos.

She also shared about a guy that she was dating in the past, whose parents couldn’t accept her for her tatttoos.

Jeynelle acknowledged that having tattoos is still considered taboo in Singapore, especially since she grew up in a conservative family that held similar beliefs. She admitted that when she was younger, she associated tattoos with “bad people.”

However, as she matured, she came to view tattoos as a form of expression and a way for individuals to establish their identity. In a difficult period of her life, she turned to tattoos as a source of comfort and decided to get one.

Although her parents were initially shocked when they discovered her tattoo, they have gradually accepted it as part of her identity, despite their continued disapproval.

While Jeynelle has faced some negative reactions, she has also received positive feedback on her tattoos. She recalled an incident in which a girl complimented her tattoos in a public restroom, describing them as really cool.

Despite the varied reactions and perceptions she has encountered, Jeynelle has grown accustomed to the stigma and has learned to live with it. She hopes that Singaporeans will move beyond the taboo surrounding tattoos and not make assumptions about a person’s character based on their body art. Instead, she believes it is important to take the time to understand and get to know individuals before passing judgment.

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WOMEN FIGHTING OVER A MAN @ ORCHARD, FIGHT UNTIL WRESTLE ON FLOOR & PULL HAIR

Two women were seen fighting it out over a man on Sunday (4 June) outside Tangs Orchard, as passers-by tried to step in and break up the fight.

A video capturing the incident was recently shared on the Singapore Incidents Facebook page. In the footage, two women, wearing heels, can be seen aggressively tugging at each other’s hair, attempting kicks, and even targeting each other’s faces.

As the situation escalated, onlookers maintained a safe distance while filming the altercation and verbally urging the women to cease their actions. Eventually, a concerned passer-by stepped in, endeavoring to separate the combatants. Two additional women quickly joined the efforts, but their collective attempts proved futile.

With the assistance of the bystanders, the women were eventually pulled apart and temporarily separated. However, this brief respite was short-lived. Soon after, one of the women angrily threw an object resembling a cellphone to the ground, reigniting the conflict. The other woman retaliated by picking up the object and approaching her adversary.

Mall security personnel promptly intervened once more, managing to separate the women while signaling for the crowd to disperse. They also mediated the situation while the women adjusted their disheveled appearances.

Regrettably, the peace did not endure. After a brief intermission, the situation quickly escalated again, prompting the intervention of mall security personnel. Meanwhile, bystanders captured the entire incident on video.

According to Singapore Incidents’ caption accompanying the video, the altercation stemmed from a relationship-related conflict over a man. Lianhe Zaobao reported that the police have received a report regarding the incident and are currently conducting investigations.

Law enforcement authorities have arrested a 43-year-old woman on charges of affray, while a 42-year-old woman is cooperating with the police in their investigation.