I was with my girlfriend for almost a year and suddenly, out of the blue, she tells me that she wants me to tell her to shave her unibrow or else I won’t sleep with her. I had never even noticed her unibrow before, but now it was all I could think about.

At first, I was completely taken aback. I had always thought that we had a great relationship, but now I was being asked to do something that felt wrong to me. My girlfriend was beautiful, and I had never thought to tell her to change the way she looked in order to please me.

After a few days of thinking it over, I decided to talk to her about it. I was nervous and hesitant, but I had to tell her how I felt. I started off by telling her that I loved her, but I couldn’t bring myself to tell her to shave her unibrow. I told her that I thought her unibrow was beautiful and that I wouldn’t judge her for it.

My girlfriend was so relieved that I hadn’t asked her to change the way she looked. She told me that she had been feeling insecure about her unibrow and that she thought it was a turn-off for me. I was so glad that we had talked about it and that we could move on from the issue.

The thing is, I still couldn’t bring myself to sleep with her. As much as I loved her, I couldn’t shake the feeling that something was wrong. I felt like I was sleeping with a person who wasn’t completely comfortable in their own skin.

The next day, I talked to my girlfriend again and I told her that I was still uncomfortable with the idea of sleeping with her while she had an unibrow. I told her that I wanted to make sure that she felt comfortable and beautiful in her own skin and that I didn’t want her to change who she was for me.

My girlfriend was so touched by my words and she told me that she had been wanting to shave her unibrow for a while, but she had been too scared to do it. She said that she wanted to feel confident and beautiful in her own skin and that she felt like I was giving her the courage to do it.

So, after a few days of discussing it, my girlfriend finally decided to shave her unibrow. She was so excited and relieved when she saw the results. She said that she felt like a new person and that she was so thankful that I had been understanding and supportive throughout the process.

Now, I’m so happy that we had the conversation about her unibrow. It was a difficult conversation to have, but it was worth it in the end. I was able to show my girlfriend that I loved and accepted her for who she was, and that I wanted her to feel beautiful and confident in her own skin. That’s something that I will always cherish.

Me and my wife have been together for just over 10 years, we got together in school at age 15. We have two children and life has always been great, until this year.

We got into minor financial problems like most people do. We struggled for a few years and eventually we were offered money from her boss to pay off credit card debt.

Over the next year we would pay it back to him as we could but apparently it wasn’t good enough. That brings us to today..

Now I’ve always known her boss had feelings for her, she is very beautiful and attractive. I’ve just learned after having a strong feeling and looking at her phone that she has sent pictures (meant for my eyes only) and performed intimate favors (oral) because she felt she needed to make up for the owed money.

I’m shattered and I don’t know how to process this. She was my first serious girlfriend and the only one I’ve ever been with. I feel so betrayed but I still love her with everything I’ve got.

I’m not sure anyone will read this but if you do, what’s your opinion?

Netizens’ comments

1. that little voice in your head that’s telling you to end it and move on DO NOT PUSH IT away. what happened happened and there’s no changing it, yes there’s more to the story but do not block out what you know is right and do not suck up (pun intended) to your wife, she knew what she was doing and she’s using the fact she owed money as an excuse to do what she wanted to do.
2. Your wife’s boss knew what he was doing and she fell right into the palm of his hand. I would confront her and discuss how she basically prostituted herself to pay off the credit card debt.
3. First girlfriends aren’t gonna be your last. At least your debt is paid off now. Leave it to be her problem to pay him back!

My boyfriend doesn’t arouse me anymore

The title says it. My boyfriend doesn’t make me turned anymore. I have an ok libido though, I get very obscene dreams as well and wake up wanting to F. So that means I’m still being able to get turned on lol.

The f-ing with my boyfriend is fine, but most of the time I’m not that in the mood during it. He can make me come and such. But… the turned on feeling just isn’t there ;(

I love my boyfriend a lot and intent to stay with him. He gets really aroused by me, but is very polite and not really dominant and assertive.

I get aroused by dominance and assertiveness, and men that act more ‘beastly’ I guess. I’ve told my boyfriend these preferences many times, but (obviously) he can’t change his personality in bed like that…. So now I’m feeling nearly zero attraction towards him in bed.

I don’t want to break up with him since he’s the love of my life, but I’m really clueless what to do!!

Netizens’ comments

1. You’ve communicated your desire and intentions, that’s a first step but there are many more after that. What gets his rocks off?
2. I saw a comment just before you deleted it where you mention that he is really dependent on you since you moved together. Here is the comment I was writing in response:
   Are you doing most of housework or any other adult responsabilities? Maybe you assumed a “mom role” and now you see him as a child that you are taking care of instead of your equal partner.
3. I just wonder how you could be initially aroused if he never was assertive nor dominant. If he has always been like that, what else changed?
4. I have a few questions actually. So does he stimulate your mind or mentally arouse you ? When you share what you feel with him or want to feel with him how does he respond ?

I have a Malaysian friend who is a Singaporean permanent resident. He recently got himself a Singaporean girlfriend who is from a wealthy family. He was so proud that he bragged about it to everyone he knew, and he assumed he was one class above local Singaporeans.

I was really confused when I heard this because my friend is not wealthy himself. He works as a delivery man and lives in a small rented flat. I couldn’t understand why he would think he was better than local Singaporeans just because he had a rich girlfriend.

I eventually confronted him about it and he told me that he was just proud of himself for being able to get a Singaporean girlfriend staying in a bungalow. He said that he was proud that he could prove himself to be worthy of her despite his financial situation.

At first, I understood what he was saying but then I started to think about it more deeply. I realized that my friend was actually insulting local Singaporeans by assuming that they were all less worthy of his girlfriend because they weren’t as wealthy as her.

It made me really angry because I’m a Singaporean myself and I know that there are so many amazing people in this country, regardless of their financial situation. It really bothered me that my friend was making such an assumption and belittling our local Singaporeans.

I EFF him and said that it was wrong to assume that someone was better than another just because of their financial situation. I also explained to him that Singaporeans come from all kinds of backgrounds and have different levels of wealth.

I also told him that it was wrong to assume that someone was better than him just because they had more money. I told him that it was about the person, not the money. I explained to him that it was wrong to judge someone based on their financial situation and that everyone has something unique to offer in a relationship.

For context: I’m 25, F and currently in a marketing job. This is my first job and have been working for a year since I graduated.

Feel like I’m in a job that’s been rly bad for my mental health. My boss has pretty bad mood swings so the entire team is scared of him. Like everyone else, I’m terrified of talking to him and submitting my work to him.

My entire team and boss is very overworked. My boss has to check all our work individually before we can send to client.

I hold smaller client accounts and he doesn’t put me as a priority. So I’m constantly just waiting for him to approve my work before I can continue and execute stuff. I also work outside of working hours (maybe 10pm-1am/2am) so that I can deliver work to him by 8.30am because I know he’s the most free at the start of the day.

This is my first job so there’s obviously a lot of things I’m not good at but my boss is quite impatient with me. He doesn’t rly take the time to teach me but he expects me to understand.

I’m doing my due diligence and asking my colleagues to mentor me, doing my own research and all that too. But I can’t read his mind so I constantly don’t hit his standards.

The pay and benefits is good for a marketing job. But I feel like my mental health has suffered a lot because of this job.

Colleagues are great too. But everyone is too busy to actually help and properly guide me.

Should I quit my job? Is everywhere else like this?

Edit: just wna add that, while I think he’s honestly quite a shit manager. He’s rly rly rly rly good at his job. There’s a lot to learn from him. He just doesn’t have the time to properly teach lol.

Thought he stood me up on our date, turns out he died…

Literally what the title says, I’m in shock right now i don’t even know what to say really. We’ve been on 4 dates and instantly clicked and had so much in common and constantly talked and he was just awesome, slept together on our third date and it was amazing as well.

I really thought I had found a good one. And then right before our 5th date he went radio silent and promptly stood me up at the restaurant. Or so I thought.

I thought “oh well he probably got something better to do thank god it’s only been like 3 weeks and I didn’t get too invested” but I also really liked him and was hella mad.

4 whole days of me delving into every insecurity I ever had trying to find a reason he would ghost me like this and embarrass me by standing me up.

And then I met my friend (his coworker) who introduced him to me. I didn’t want to seem unpleasant or anything so I just told him to tell the guy I’m not mad that he stood me up, to then be met with the saddest look.

Friend: D..did you not know?

Me: Know what?

Friend: __ died. He got into a car crash on the 6th and died. How did you not know that?

I was speechless. For days I thought this wonderful guy ghosted me for no reason and was terribly pissed with him. Turns out he got clipped by a reckless driver and died on his way to our date. I don’t even know how to react. I’m just so flabbergasted right now. I’ve known him for less than a month, how does one even deal with something like this?

I spent over $50,000 on only fans after my girlfriend broke up with me

All the conversations we had, all the small quirky messages we would send each other throughout the day, I missed them so much. I felt so lonely as I don’t have anyone else to talk to.

I subbed to an only fans and.. I know there’s no genuine connection.. but my god it felt surreal. I really enjoyed the company she gave me. I didn’t keep track of how much money I spent until now and it totaled over 50k. I don’t regret it though

Edit: I’ve been getting a lot of messages on why my girlfriend broke up with me. And it was simply that I’ve been working too much and having not enough time to spend with her. I was in the office everyday of the week and would work 8-12 hours and I remember clearly of the conversations we would have of it. But at that time, I wanted to pursue my career, my business, and would often brush it off. I know I messed up, I really thought she was the one.

It was a thing I took granted and when she finally ended things, I felt shattered. I’m not gonna tell the “I will change, I will try this, blah blah” story. Everything just felt.. slow or pause still? I don’t know how to explain it, but when I would try to do something, I just couldn’t. I def felt a combination of loneliness and sadness, but also this feeling of can’t do anything? Like a feeling of helpless.

New video games, new TV shows, watches, jewelry, fancy restaurants, I was so disinterested in everything.

This went on for a month, and then I decided to do this only fans thing. All these comments / messages saying to a hooker, I didn’t care for f-ing. I just wanted attention.. intimacy.. someone that I can talk to and help me fill this “void”. And it worked out for me at the end.

I’m doing way better right now, my mental health is good and I’m enjoying things that I wasn’t enjoying and working less hours and enjoying life. I made this post to let out what I’ve been reflecting on, and I’ve been a long time lurker on this sub. To all the people that gave me comforting answers, thank you <3. To those not so friendly, thanks for making me laugh.