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71 Y.O WOMAN TOLD TO SIT ON LOWER DECK OF DOUBLE-DECKER BUS, REPLIES “NO ALL OLD ARE WEAK”

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Julia d’Silva, a 71-year-old retiree, has been sitting on the upper deck of a double-decker Tower Transit bus for the last three years, as she commutes daily from Clementi into the city centre.

However, on Friday, the bus driver told her to take a seat on the lower deck instead, to which she told him that she had been sitting upstairs for years before the driver relented, according to The Straits Times.

She added that she likes to sit on the upper deck and read during the bus ride.

The Company Directive: Ensuring Passenger Safety

In a Facebook post, Ms. d’Silva revealed that the bus driver cited a “company directive” as the reason for instructing her to sit on the lower deck.

This directive aims to encourage senior citizens, pregnant women, and passengers with mobility challenges to choose seats on the lower deck.

The rationale behind this is to minimize the risk of accidents on buses, particularly when passengers need to navigate the bus’s stairs.

While the incident may have been surprising to Ms. d’Silva, it highlights the commendable efforts by public transport operators to prioritize passenger safety.

Tower Transit, the operator of the bus in question, has always promoted the well-being of vulnerable passengers. As the population ages, their efforts have become even more concentrated, with additional reminders to ensure that senior passengers, in particular, take seats on the lower deck.

“Travel Safe” Campaign: A Collective Effort

Tower Transit is not alone in its commitment to passenger safety. SBS Transit, another prominent transport operator, has a “Travel Safe” campaign in place.

This campaign encourages elderly commuters to sit on the lower deck, and it was launched just before the Covid-19 pandemic.

In addition to this, the company organizes monthly roadshows at bus interchanges to reinforce the message of safe travel.

The emphasis on safety is not just about making public transport safer; it’s also about fostering good travel habits among passengers.

SBS Transit’s spokeswoman, Grace Wu, underscores that passenger safety is of the utmost importance. This commitment to safety extends to all passengers, particularly those who might require special attention.

Are All Senior Passengers Frail and Weak?

Julia d’Silva added that she was puzzled and amused by what happened on Friday, but accepts that the transport operators are trying to protect senior citizens.

However, she added that not all older folks are frail and weak, as she has been hitting the gym for over a decade, practicing weight training and pilates, which has kept her agile and feeling much younger than her 71 years.

Header image source: Damientan14 via Wikipedia Commons

WIFE UPSET HER HUSBAND LIE TO HER SO HE CAN WORK MORE

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Empathetic liar?

Few months back, found out that hubby had been lying about his whereabouts after work. Claimed that he’s on the way home (via public transport) but actually he grabbed home so that he could work longer in office. While giving me the impression he’s on the way home.

When I first found out, I was so hurt he lied to me and confronted him. He claimed he did not want to upset me when he had to work late almost every other day. I usually end work on time so I’m always the one waiting on him at home so to speak. He promised he wouldn’t do it again and he will do whatever he can to earn back my trust.

Fast forward, I caught him in the same lie again. This time I was angry and confronted him, asked him in detail why he felt he had to lie about work. He was apologetic, gave me the same reason that he hates to upset me he has to work late.

He claimed that he is sensitive to other people’s feelings and he feels stressed if he knows he has to upset people (he’s a people pleaser).

So to avoid upsetting me, he lies to me instead. Of course, I told him it was unacceptable and he was just taking the east way out. He said he understood if I would never trust him again but that also he would never do it again from now on.

The next day. He told me he was going for coffee with his best friend. This time yes, he informed me where he was going but lo and behold, God wanted to show me that it wasn’t his best friend he was out with but a colleague.

What the hell do I do with my hubby now? He promised me twice he will not lie to me again but he did it again THE VERY NEXT DAY. Now I’m angry and hurt.

COUPLE BEDTIME “ACTIVITY” BECOMES ARGUMENT FOR “CORRECT” POSITIONS

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A girl shared how she got scolded by her boyfriend while having “special time” with him over his positioning and her feeling pain, they even stopped midway just to argue.

Here is the story:

“Are there fellow females out there who was scolded by their boyfriends during intercourse?

Me and my bf were getting it on but he was hurting me (i thought it was due to the angle he was hitting it at) so I kept telling him to centralise his body, he shifted a few times but I was still feeling pain whenever he thrust so I kept telling him to move to the centre.

he then got angry at me and shouted “it’s already in the fucking centre la”.

there were also other times when we would argue mid-intercourse due to our rs problems (he would start shouting at me and we would stop intercourse halfway cos our mood was spoilt).

Traumatized

I feel like he has traumatized me and my perception of intercourse bc of the bad experiences I had w him, and I don’t know how I’m going to ever heal from this.

I can’t be the only one who was scolded and shouted at during intercourse right? (it wasn’t in a kinky way btw, but he was legit mad at me)”

Editor’s note: Just scold him back and stand up for yourself.

MAN’S WIFE GOT A GIFT FROM GUY FRIEND, WHO WINKED AT HER IN FRONT OF HIM

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My (37M) wife (28F) just received a bracelet from a friend (~30sM) in front of me.
This happened over a planned dinner with the guy friend. The guy friend knows the chef at the restaurant we were eating at and brought out some gifts for the chef. At the same instant he gave my wife the bracelet and kept it in her bag.

While chatting I caught the guy friend winking at my wife. But I just ignored it because we were laughing and stuff.

After dinner all three of us were walking in the mall, and the guy friend asked about the bracelet, my wife suddenly wears it.

After we dropped off the friend at his place, I teased my wife about how a lot of guys are attracted to her. And the conversation went this way:

Wife: (Seeming irritated) You know, I hate it when everyone assumes that something is up when guys talk to me back in college.

Me: That was in college, but I’m just teasing you right now. Why do you think he gave you a bracelet?

Wife: He also gave a bracelet to the chef and another one for the chef’s wife, it’s just his way of thanking the chef, for dropping by and getting us a discount.

Me: (Puzzled) But why did he give you one then?

I said to myself, what was he thanking you for then??

I’m super stressed about it. I can’t sleep.

Major edit: just to add some details, the friend works in a hotel. Over the month of April, my wife has asked to have her “me time” spent in that same hotel. She does get a big discount when the friend books for her.

While writing this I realized both overnights were on Thursday night.

WOMAN ALLEGEDLY THREATENED BY GYM INTRUDER’S WIFE, TOLD HER TO “WATCH OUT & BE CAREFUL”

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A recent incident at the Fitness First Ang Mo Kio Hub outlet on September 26th has shed light on a distressing encounter between two gym-goers.

The Incident

According to STOMP, it all started when a Fitness First member, Suan, found herself caught in a conflict involving another gym-goer’s husband.

The husband, who was not a gym member, entered the fitness facility at 4:25 PM, reportedly without permission, and took gym towels.

To make matters worse, he entered the main studio to reserve a spot in a 6:30 PM fitness class for his wife, who was also a member of the gym.

Confrontation at the Gym

Suan promptly reported the incident to the gym staff, who requested that the husband remove the towels he had taken without authorization.

However, the situation took a distressing turn as the husband responded with anger, hurling vulgarities at Suan and refusing to leave the gym until his wife’s return at at about 5.30pm later that evening.

Witnessed by Many

The escalating conflict did not go unnoticed. Gym staff and other members present at the scene witnessed the entire altercation.

Suan found herself at the center of a heated dispute, with both the husband and his wife involved. The wife, upon her arrival, screamed and cursed at Suan, accusing her of targeting her husband by not allowing him to reserve a spot for her fitness class.

Suan claims the wife even went so far as to threaten her, warning her to “watch out and better be careful.”

The police also confirmed that they have received a police report about the incident.

Petition created

Following the incident, a petition was created by a person named LS Ng, calling for the “notorious (gym) member” to be “expelled”.

What the petition said:

“Fitness First member *name redacted*‘s husband, who was a non-member, criminally trespassed Fitness First Ang Mo Kio on Tuesday 26 Sept 2023, 4.25pm, took the towels without permission, enter the main studio to reserve a spot for her for 6.30pm Fang BodyCombat class.

Upon discovery that he was not a member of Fitness First, member Suan reported to the front of house and the front of house requested him to remove the towels. *name redacted*‘s husband angrily hurled “Ch@0 J* B@!” at member Suan at Fitness First AMK main studio entrance. Shirley Wong’s husband refused to leave Fitness First AMK until Shirley Wong arrived at 5.30pm.

Subsequently, *name redacted* screamed and cursed member Suan and accused member Suan of bullying her husband by not letting him reserve. She threatened member Suan to watch out and better be careful. The scenes were witnessed by Fitness First staff and the members.

Member Suan made a police report against *name redacted* and her husband on 27 Sept 2023, 9.57am for Shirley Wong’s husband criminally trespassing Fitness First AMK.

To date, Fitness First has not replied on any action to take against *name redacted* and her husband, despite police report was made and submitted to Fitness First.

Member Suan was told that *name redacted* and her husband were seen in Paragon, ORQ, Bugis and Fushionopolis Fitness First.

All Fitness First members who disallowed *name redacted*’s non-member husband to enter the gym to reserve spot for her are “Ch@0 J* B@!” to them.

I advise other Fitness First members to provide their feedback in the petition to expel this notorious member out of Fitness First premises.”

83 Y.O ELDERLY MAN SLEEPING AT VOID DECK – RENTAL FLAT NOT READY YET & NOWHERE TO GO

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In the fast-paced and ever-changing landscape of Singapore, stories of resilience and community support often shine through the hustle and bustle of modern life.

One such heartwarming tale is that of an 83-year-old man who found himself in a challenging situation after the en bloc sale of his home. While waiting for his new rental flat to be ready, he had no choice but to seek refuge in a void deck.

A Life in Transition

The story begins with the sale of his old house. Due to an en bloc sale, he was compelled to vacate his long-time residence.

With his new rental flat not yet ready for occupancy, the 83-year-old had no place to call home. He found himself sleeping at the void deck, which became his temporary shelter.

What makes this situation even more poignant is the fact that he had no relatives to turn to for support.

The Helping Hand

This heartwarming story took a turn for the better when a social initiative group known as Project Awareness learned about the man’s situation. On a Sunday in late October, they shared his story on their Facebook page, shedding light on his plight.

Project Awareness shared the man’s story with the world, and in doing so, they made a heartfelt appeal for assistance.

Despite the challenges he was facing, the man still had outstanding household bills to settle. This appeal was a call to action for the public to come forward and help a fellow Singaporean in need.

The response from the community was swift and overwhelming. In a heartwarming display of compassion, people from all walks of life rallied to support the man in his time of need.

The social initiative was flooded with donations, showing that the Singaporean spirit of kampung (community) is still very much alive.

A Heartwarming Update

In an update posted shortly after the appeal, Project Awareness announced that the outpouring of support had been so significant that they were able to close the case the same day they appealed for donations. They expressed their gratitude to all the generous donors who had come forward to help.

Project Awareness continued to stand by their commitment to assist the elderly man. They promised to arrange a house visit within two weeks of him moving into his new rental flat.

Gratitude and Appreciation

In their closing remarks, Project Awareness extended their heartfelt thanks to the donors who had contributed, and the Facebook post has since been removed.

Images source: Project Awareness

UNCLE FOLLOWED MAN INTO TOILET AT CHANGI BEACH “WANT BE HIS FRIEND”

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A man who took videos of an elderly man and alleged that the man wanted to follow him into the toilet, even after he was out of the toilet the man approached him.

He tried to shoo the man away to no avail and decided to film the man. The netizen said that he has since reported the incident to the Police.

Here is what he said:

Hey not sure if this is allowed but I wanted to share it to raise awareness.

Was walking around Changi Beach when this guy approached me asking if I was swimming as I was going to the toilet. He then asked if he could follow me into the toilet but obviously I told him no and asked him to go away.

After I got out I walked around again and he somehow managed to find me. This time he asked for my name, where I stayed etc. but I just waved him off and continued walking.

Then about 10-15 minutes later he found me again and then decided to sit beside me. This time asking to be friends and if I was schooling etc. Initially I didn’t want to make a big deal of it but I got more and more annoyed. Then he went on to clarify that he ”liked young guys” and wanted to follow me into the toilet because he wouldn’t know if he could find me again.

I raised my voice then told him to just go away and not waste my time. Initially he refused to but then left when more people came about.

I wasn’t bothered by him, but I also noticed a lot of younger school kids around. So if you’re a parent or teacher bringing your kids or early teens here, do be wary and watch over them as at the beginning he seemed to be loitering around the toilet area.

**UPDATE**

Thanks for the suggestions everyone, I have just made a police report on the matter.

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ELDERLY WOMAN CROSSES ROAD TOO SLOW & STUCK IN TRAFFIC, KIND MAN GOES TO HELP HER

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In a fast-paced world, where everyone is in a hurry to reach their destinations, it’s easy to overlook those who need a helping hand. Crossing a road might seem like a simple task, but for the elderly, it can become a challenging and sometimes perilous endeavor.

In a heartwarming incident that happened last week, we will recount the story of a kind man who lent a hand to an elderly woman trying to cross a road in Jurong East.

The Struggles of the Elderly

The elderly woman in this story found herself in a situation that many seniors can relate to. With a trolley in tow and a walking stick for support, she was attempting to cross Toh Guan Road.

However, the green light for pedestrians is often too short for elderly individuals, and this lady had only covered a third of her journey when the signal began to change.

Amid the bustling traffic and impatient drivers, a good Samaritan, dressed in grey, saw the elderly woman’s predicament and rushed to her aid. He halted the traffic with a simple hand gesture and offered her a helping hand.

With compassion, he gently pulled the trolley, allowing the elderly lady to use her now free hand for balance and support. It was a simple yet profound act of kindness that shone brightly in the chaos of the road.

A Video Goes Viral

The heartwarming incident did not go unnoticed. ‘simaleilei,’ a TikTok user, captured this beautiful moment on camera. They posted the video online, and it quickly gained traction, touching the hearts of people across the internet.

@simaleilei Hard life#singapore ♬ 原声 – KiraKira

Netizens’ comments

  1. which cb honk siah?
  2. Where is her family members??????
  3. Kudos to that one gentleman that help, why are the rest not helping?
  4. Let’s say Thank you to the good guy. Learn from him n salute!
  5. the one who took the video only…why never go down n help?
  6. either they pretend never see or they think that is not their business , imagine that is their old folks … see how they feel

BF SEEKS PERMISSION TO GO OUT FROM GF, BUT GETS ANGRY AFTER HE GOES OUT

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A guy shared how he asked his girlfriend for permission to hang out with a friend and she said yes, so he went ahead but then she got angry because he went ahead with it.

He then asked whether women mean yes when they say no, and no when they say yes.

Here is the story:

“I asked my GF if she’ll get mad if I go hang out with a friend and she answered ‘No’, so I went ahead.

However, when I got back, she is mad at me.

I thought ladies always advocated for ‘No’ means ‘No’? So for my GF does ‘No’ mean ‘Yes’? Do I flip everything around?

So I feel like I am a dog now, ask me sit must sit ask me stand must stand. But no I worse than dog I told to sit I sit but i tio gan.

Editor’s note: I guess its true when they say men are from Mars and women are from Venus.

WOMAN WITH DEGREE “RESENTS” HUSBAND FOR EARNING LITTLE MONEY

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I resent my husband because he makes very little money.

Me(F37) and husband (38) have been married 10 years and have 3 kids. I have so much pent up resentment because he can’t and will never make enough money to meaningfully contribute to our home.

I’m the main bread winner and right now the only bread winner. We live modestly and we never go hungry but we live paycheck to paycheck.

With the cost of living skyrocketing and wages barely creeping up we have never been able to save much. Or we save and then some huge thing happens that depletes all our savings.

I have a degree and make ok money. Less than 80k a year and I’ll never make too much more. We live a simple life with few luxuries, second hand clothes, old car, no real vacations besides some camping trips or a drive to visit relatives.

When I met my husband I encouraged him to go back to school. He never believed in himself and didn’t feel he could do it. He’s worked crappy low paying jobs our whole marriage which is just enough to pay our daycare and maybe a few groceries.

Basically working so someone else can care for our kids. Also you can’t move up in these crap jobs if you don’t work yourself to the bone and put in 60 hours a week.

Which still left me supporting the whole family and doing all the work at home too since he was gone all the time. Then he had a health problem come up and his body could not handle it.

He’s not technically disabled but he can’t do those jobs anymore. There is nothing wrong with his brain. If he had a degree he could work in some professional field or other that doesn’t require wrecking your body.

But now he’s a stay at home dad until our youngest is in school full time because there’s no sense in him working to pay for daycare.

I love him and my kids but I did not want this. I did not want to basically support a whole family. I did not want to live paycheck to paycheck.

I don’t need fancy things or a lot of material things but I walk around with the stress of being the breadwinner all the time! I don’t even make that much to begin with.

Had he gotten SOME KIND of degree maybe he could actually make enough money to contribute to our home! Even just like a certification in something would give him more opportunities.

I get so jealous of my friends whose husband have professional jobs and make good money. I don’t want their material things or even their high income.

I just want their sense of security that their partner can contribute just as much as they can. Some cushion. Or even the ability to cut my hours a little or not have to pick up overtime.

Sometimes I regret marrying him. I’m angry that he didn’t listen to me when he had the opportunity to go to school and now look at the pickle we’re in.

I regret putting myself in this situation. I knew better but I did it anyway. Money doesn’t buy happiness but lack of money sure does lead to a lot of stress and unhappiness.