I was so excited when I was asked to take part in a street interview by some YouTubers. It seemed like a great opportunity to have some fun and be featured on YouTube.

Little did I know that it would be the biggest mistake of my life.

Gave another girl a kiss during the interview

I had been in a relationship with my girlfriend, Emily (not her real name), for a few months and our relationship was going great. We were both so in love with each other and I was sure that I wanted to spend the rest of my life with her.

I was approached on the streets to take part in a street interview which would be on Youtube. I thought it would be a great way to gain some followers and maybe even get some recognition on YouTube.

I agreed to the shoot and I was feeling really nervous. I was really hoping that I wouldn’t mess up and make a fool of myself in front of the camera.

The interview however required me to do a forfeit which was to kiss another girl who was also at the street interview on her cheek.

After the interview was over, I thought that everything was going to be okay. Little did I know that my girlfriend had saw the video of the interview. She don’t really use Youtube and would not have seen it but I guess life plays us in another way.

She saw the whole process of me talking to another girl and saw me kiss her on the cheek.

She broke up with me

My heart sank when I got the call from Emily. She was obviously very upset and was crying on the phone. She told me that she had seen the video and asked me why I had done it.

I tried to explain to her that it was just a part of the interview and that I was only being friendly. But she didn’t want to hear it. She hung up the phone and I knew that our relationship was over.

I was so devastated. I had lost the love of my life and I knew that it was all my fault. I had been so stupid to take part in the interview without telling Emily. If I had just told her about it, she wouldn’t have had to find out about it the way she did.

I tried to call Emily again to apologize, but she wouldn’t answer my calls. I sent her text messages and emails, but she never responded. After a few weeks of trying to contact her, I finally gave up.

I had lost the girl I loved and I felt like my life was over. I had been so stupid to take part in that interview and now I was paying the price.

I had ruined the best relationship I had ever had and I was never going to get Emily back.

My friend and I had been best friends since our freshman year of Uni. We had gone through all the ups and downs of Uni life together, and we were always there for each other. We were always joking around and having a good time.

One day, we were hanging out in his dorm room and he asked if I wanted to take a shower with him. I was taken aback by the suggestion, but I agreed because I thought it would be a fun way to bond and hang out.

Drops his soap bar on purpose

We both got into the shower and I noticed that he had a bar of soap. He started to lather up with it and then he dropped it. He quickly picked it up again, but I couldn’t help but think that he had done it on purpose.

I looked over at him and he was looking back at me. He had a smirk on his face and it was almost as if he was trying to tell me something. I couldn’t help but think that he was hinting at something more than just a shower.

I was feeling a bit embarrassed and uncomfortable, so I decided to just ignore it and move on. We finished our shower and got out. We both got dressed and I thought the awkwardness was over.

But then he started to make suggestive comments about how I looked in my clothes and how he wished he could take them off. I was starting to get really uncomfortable and I decided to leave.

I told him that I had to get going and he said that he understood, but he also asked me if I wanted to stay the night. I said no and left, feeling a bit confused and a bit creeped out.

Confronted him about it the next day

The next day, I asked him what had happened in the shower and why he had dropped the soap. He said that he had done it on purpose, because he wanted to see if I was interested in ‘giving’ it to him.

I was shocked by his confession and I told him that I didn’t appreciate him doing that. He apologized and said that he was just trying to see if I was interested. I told him that I wasn’t and that it was inappropriate.

After that, things were a bit awkward between us. We never talked about it again and eventually we went back to being best friends.

I still wonder sometimes about what he was thinking when he dropped that soap in the shower.

Dear all,

I have something I would like to share and get over my mind. It will be great to see some constructive feedback.

I graduated from NUS 2-3 years ago and worked at my second job. Unfortunately, my company is going through retrenchment. I was lucky enough to be spared despite joining the team for less than a year. I realized that my managers are bias as they offer big projects to those that have lunch with them and teams them for small talk.

Although is only my second job, I am getting worried whether I am fit for corporate. Should I try to find a research kind of work?

Here are what netizens think

• Let them know who you are
• Its not what you know but who you know. IQ is impt, but EQ is equally impt too
• Be a little more thick-skinned. Go lunch or coffee breaks with them. Engage a little chit chat from time to time. It will help you professionally and socially too.
• Hang in there a bit longer just to confirm your feelings. Meanwhile explore the research option. When you are sure, then follow your heart.
• Yes you should. It’s a bigger world out there. Likely you working in SME, managers/bosses all kaylong mindset. Have to suck balls and maybe can climb up ladder.

Part-Timer Grocery Shopper

I’ve worked as a Part-Timer for couple of months now. The job is very interesting, all you have to to is to shop for the online shoppers. I do enjoyed it very much.

There’s a lot of youngsters, maybe to earn extra pocket money as expenses in Singapore keep on increasing. Same goes to me, I need to keep up with the rising expenses as a single mom.

Duty manager doesn’t treat us with respect

The sad this about this job is, we are treated kinda badly by the DM. He literally shouted and scream at a very small matter every single time infront of everyone without thinking how embarrassing it would be.

We Part-Timers are there to ease the workload and help to achieve the daily orders or target and why are we being treated like a piece of S***.

DM should come to us let us know our mistake and deal with us personally rather that screaming on top of their lung from across the room. Can you imagine our feelings?

I’m more concerned of the youngsters as they are not used to being treated that way. As for us adults with years of working experience, we can simply take in whatever behaviour just to earn some money. I thought Singapore is moving into a society where we respect and help each other in any ways.

I really hope all this work place torment and inappropriate behaviour by the DM to be stopped.

Please advise on how to look into this matter so as we Part-Timers can earn a decent living.

Pardon my English as well as I grew up in a mandarin speaking family.

Here are what netizens think

• Send an anonymous email to the company and complain about the DM’s behaviour. Some companies may have ethical policies which should include respecting coworkers.
• This kind of job is a dime a dozen. Don’t like this DM, just mass quit and jump ship. No need to stay and take his s***
• Look for another source of income. The only option to your problem

My early twenties. They were a time of great uncertainty and apprehension as I navigated the world as an adult.

From late nights out with friends, to a newfound sense of independence, I look back on those years with a fondness that can only be attributed to nostalgia.

Life was so much more carefree

I miss the days when I was in my early twenties, when I could stay out all night partying and not worry about having to be up for work in the morning.

I could make decisions on the spur of the moment and not think about the consequences. I could take risks and explore without worrying about the consequences.

I miss the days when I was in my early twenties and could go out and meet new people without worrying about having to make commitments. I could explore different hobbies, learn new things, and try new activities without worrying about fitting in or impressing anyone.

I miss the days when I was in my early twenties and could make friends easily. I could hang out with friends and just have a good time without worrying about whether or not our conversations would lead to a long-term relationship

I could put myself out there without worrying about making a fool of myself or being rejected.

I miss the days when I was in my early twenties and had the freedom to make mistakes without any repercussions.

I could learn from my mistakes without feeling guilty or ashamed. I could take risks without worrying about the results. I could make decisions without anyone questioning my judgement.

I miss the days when I was in my early twenties and could explore my body without worrying about being judged.

I could experiment and discover what I liked and what I didn’t like without fear of being shamed or ridiculed.

I miss the days when I was in my early twenties and could be carefree and open-minded. I could take risks, explore my options, and make decisions without worrying about being judged or criticized. I could do what I wanted, when I wanted, and not worry about anyone else’s opinion.

But, most of all, I miss the days when I was in my early twenties and could be carefree and enjoy life without any worries.

I could just be myself and not worry about what others thought. I could take chances and make decisions without worrying about the consequences. I could explore, learn, and experience without any fear or anxiety.

It’s funny how, as we get older, life becomes more complicated and our worries seem to increase. But, as I look back on my early twenties, I am reminded of how carefree and free I felt.

I can’t help but miss the days when I was in my early twenties, times were so much more carefree.

My (21F) boyfriend (27M) takes hours to message me back

I’ve just started a relationship with someone new It’s been about 2 months, Everything is going well apart from the fact he takes hours, sometimes even over 24 hours to message me back.

Hes told me he’s just not really on his phone, I’ve known this man for a few years now and he’s always been a trustworthy person, he says he’s not ignoring me and assures me that he’s simply not on his phone and this doesn’t reflect how he feels about me.

Although I appreciate him not being glued to his phone all the time, waiting hours for a response back has been causing me alot of anxiety and honestly just frustration.

I’ve told him this, yet I’m still waiting upwards of 6 hours for a reply from him each time I send him a message.

It has consistently been like this throughout the entire time we’ve been seeing each other.

Currently it’s been over 12 hours since he’s been online and he’s stuck at home with covid, so it’s not like he’s busy.

Whenever we are actually together in person, it’s perfect, but when I leave it’s like he falls off the face of the earth. I’m just unsure what to do at this point, any advice or thoughts on the way he’s acting?

M35 F30 1.5year. Am I too stingy or is she gold digging?

This is probably asked many times here but trying to get a perspective. My 1.5 year girlfriend asked for $10k for marriage.

I already invested 50k into her failed business, we both took the loss. Then I loaned another 2k which she promised to repay but never did even after I reminded her twice.

At her 30th birthday she bought with my money a luxury bag for 2-3k, after I suggested she should buy a secondhand one for half the price.

I also pay for all groceries and rent. Without counting in living expenses, I have spent close to 80k on gifts and helping her.

Something is off here? She has a job with mediocre income and she uses her money for her mortgage and savings.

Netizens’ comments

1. This is ridiculous. She’s terrible with money and spending yours like it’s hers. Why did her business fail? Why didn’t she pay you back? I absolutely wouldn’t proceed with a partner who behaved like this.
2. You’ve spent $80k in 18 months?? That’s over $4k a month! How much do you earn?? What possessed you to give that much money to someone you barely knew?
   What does 10k for marriage” mean? Is she for sale? Are you sure you aren’t dating a very pricey escort or sugar baby?
3. Absolutely not, you need to stop giving her money. The real question is do you wanna marry someone who’s financially irresponsible? If you do, you’ll be funding her lifestyle for the rest of your lives until your wallet runs dry finally and she has to find herself a new sugar daddy. It’d also maybe be a different story if you two had been together for a decade or longer. But only 1.5 yrs in and you’re 80k deep.
4. Golddigger. No normal woman in a loving relationship would buy a bag that much when she’s in debt. I can afford those bags but don’t buy it because i spend my money on my kids.

Need advice on trying to seduce xmm I met in club

Lao unker went clubbing the other day. Rarely I go but my clients jio me and I don’t wanna turn them down. We open a few bottles at markee (don’t know what’s the spelling) and a few freeloader xmm turn up to join us.

This one xmm still studying 1st year uni and body and face not bad 7/10, short but curvy with c cup and have nice luscious lips.

A bit cold, aloof but maybe trying not to flirt too much in front of her friends. Managed to have a short chat and turn out she some kind of cosplayer and I ask for her Instagram to check out her work. Her friends all cosplayers too, 1 or 2 quite cute.

Turns out she do some revealing outfit kinda cosplay which I think damn cringe but a lot of otaku they will simp for her. So she has no shortage of attention.

If I want to end up bonking her I will need to up my game a bit. Any ideas? First thing is I need her to notice my DM. Her inbox sure flooded with DM from simps so i need to change tactic.

She is selling some of her pic on Patreon or something similar. So I think she on the way to OF in the next few years.

I thinking of sending her a pic of my engorged 3 inch member but perhaps it’s too unsubtle.

Any ideas to get her attention?

have a great Sunday!

Netizens’ comments

• If you tell her your favorite anime is Army Daze (1996) confirm you’ll be kissing the little sister between her legs in no time
  • (OP) Army Daze is not anime. why leh? xmm like army Daze?
• Only 3 inch and you want to seduce her? Unker you stay with your wife better.
  • (OP) no wife. only right hand
• U know Leonardo DiCaprio is 48 so also an uncle. But he is dating hot models every time he change a model, the model’s date of manufacturing gets more and more recent heard his latest model is made in 2002?

So I think his usage scenario applies to you.

Multi millionaire Major move star Proven good boyfriend material Looks buff I suppose

If u close to him u have a very good chance with XMM.

Good luck just don’t turn into a cpf fuelled Simp.

Please avoid Chinese style Hang Flower joints please. The battle hardened or rather combat hard edged ladies trained in the latest psych indoctrination tactics will make short shrift of you.

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I(M20) last long in bed but my girl(F20) doesn’t like that?

I’ve been absolutely blessed with the ability to last essentially however long I want in bed. I am not sure how I can do this but I just can.

Of course, there are times when I finish pretty quickly, but most occasions I can last over an hour.

The other night, I (M20) was hooking up with a girl (F20) I’ve been seeing. After around an hour, and after she had finished, she stopped and asked me why I hadn’t finished yet.

I didn’t really know what to say other than that I can just last long in bed. I am wildly attracted to this girl. Me not finishing has nothing to do with her or her performance, and I told her that.

I asked her, “would you prefer I finish after like two minutes?”. She responded like every girl does and said that she’d take that as a compliment.

She thinks it had something to do with her performance and I don’t want her to think that. She is easily the best partner in bed I’ve ever had and I can’t see how it could get any better.

Regardless of how long I last I always enjoy it. But am I lasting too long and is that something girls don’t like?

I am aware that this is actually not a bad problem to have, but I am curious what advice you can give me.

Netizens’ comments

1. 5-10 minutes is enough for me. My husband is amazing at foreplay so I’m always more than satisfied before the PIV begins. An hour is far too long. I would imagine she would have dried up and got friction burns during that time.
2. An hour straight is just way too long for most people. It can start to be uncomfortable and painful at that point
3. Yeah, I mean no one really wants the actual act to last an hour. Maybe if there were a lot of breaks and stuff but if a guy doesn’t come within 10 to 15 minutes it’s kind of an insult.
4. You seem surprised your girl doesn’t like an hour of piv. Looks like you have a misguided notion that the longer the better for her. Well for most girls piv for too long can cause their natural lube to dry up and it can get painful. If not they are going to feel sore. So while you’re thinking you’re a god in bed, she’s suffering. Well, you learn new things everyday.