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MUM BIASED AGAINST ELDEST DAUGHTER, TALKS BEHIND HER BACK

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Since young, my mum is SUPER DUPER bias towards my younger sis (my only sibling). Every time my mum will ALWAYS give in to my sis and will listen to her. What my sis wanted, my mum always says ok.

For my case, I was treated differently after my sis was born. I’ve asked my mum for simple stuff like “Can I stay over at my bf place over the week?”and her reply is “NO!”.

But my sis asked her the same question and she replied “Sure, my dear”.

There’s once, when I was showering, I overheard their conversation. They are talking behind my back. My mum: “Why is your sister behaving like that?”.

My mum’s mindset is too traditional. Recently, I’m getting married. My plan was to just sign the ROM paper and that’s it. Just keep it simple.

She insisted that she wanted to have those “traditional Chinese wedding” ritual. This time I gave in to her and I told her just a simple one will do.

She just kept quiet. The next day, she wanted to do all the “required” stuff (eg. Set date according to calendar, tea ceremony) for my wedding that I find that there serve no purpose. I told her there’s no need for all these.

Over the years, I was wondering if she is my blood related mum. I have my own thoughts and cannot keep following her instructions. This is not even fair to me.

How to persuade my mum to listen to me just once? Should I move out from her house? Please give some advice. TYIA

BEACH RD SLASHING VICTIM DISCHARGED FROM HOSPITAL, RECOVERING

The Beach Road slashing victim, Han Hongli, who was attacked by her estranged husband Cheng Guoyuan in the now-infamous chopper attack that took place back in April, has been discharged from the hospital.

She went through 4 surgeries for injuries suffered to her head, eyes and hands during the vicious slashing attack on 14 April.

The 42-year-old woman is now recovering in the community with volunteers sending her food every day, and will be needing two more eye surgeries to regain her eyesight.

A fundraising campaign was also launched by crowd-funding website Ray of Hope on 10 May to help the victim with her medical and living expenses during her recovery.

The campaign exceeded the target of $105,343.86, raising $105,395.87 at the time of writing, with about $1,800 already being disbursed to Han earlier this month.

The target amount will also be adjusted accordingly should her medical fees continue to increase, and Han will be receiving the money monthly for 12 months for her loss of income.

Ray of Hope is also working with Han’s employer, Edmund Tan of Chong Qing (Origin) Steamboat, to settle her final medical bills, and are waiting for the insurance paperwork to be finalised.

22 Y.O GIRL PREGNANT WITH 34 Y.O MARRIED BOSS’ BABY, WANTS TO KEEP THE BABY

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22f pregnant with my 34m boss baby and its very messy. Before you judge, i am quite shy I’ve only ever been in 1 relationship and slept with 2 people.

When i started this job he was very nice to me he was quite flirty and i flirted back. I guess i was so depraved for attention i let this develop.

The thing is he is a really nice guy very gentlemanly and gentle. He does have a girlfriend but no kids.

When i found i was scared (still am) i told him he doesn’t have to have anything to do with me or the baby but he wants to be part of his child life and said that he has feelings for me.

None of us know how this is going to work at all. It’s all very complicated and messy and i feel we’re both going to pay for this

FYI: i am not having an abortion no matter the outcome

Netizens’ comments

  • This makes me sad. So many kids brought into this world under wonky situations like this.
  • Girl you are so young and malleable. He’s 34 dating someone 12 years younger. If you don’t like the situation you are not a tree, you can move and change it. I bet you $1 million dollars he did it on purpose.

TELEGRAM LAUNCHING PAID SUBSCRIPTIONS IN JUNE 2022

The founder of Telegram, Pavel Durov, said in a statement that the messaging app will be launching a paid subscription plan in June 2022.

Under the new subscription plan, the messaging app’s users will get higher chat limits, media uploads, along with addition features.

Durov also emphasized that despite the paid subscription plan, the existing features of the app will continue to remain free to use, with more free features to be added as well.

Here is Telegram’s statement

Durov’s Channel

Since the day Telegram was launched almost 9 years ago, we’ve been giving our users more features and resources than any other messaging app. A free app as powerful as Telegram was revolutionary in 2013 and is still unprecedented in 2022. To this day, our limits on chats, media and file uploads are unrivaled.

And yet, many have been asking us to raise the current limits even further, so we looked into ways to let you go beyond what is already crazy. The problem here is that if we were to remove all limits for everyone, our server and traffic costs would have become unmanageable, so the party would be unfortunately over for everyone.

After giving it some thought, we realized that the only way to let our most demanding fans get more while keeping our existing features free is to make those raised limits a paid option. That’s why this month we will introduce Telegram Premium, a subscription plan that allows anyone to acquire additional features, speed and resources. It will also allow users to support Telegram and join the club that receives new features first.

Not to worry though: all existing features remain free, and there are plenty of new free features coming. Moreover, even users who don’t subscribe to Telegram Premium will be able to enjoy some of its benefits: for example, they will be able to view extra-large documents, media and stickers sent by Premium users, or tap to add Premium reactions already pinned to a message to react in the same way.

While our experiments with privacy-focused ads in public one-to-many channels have been more successful than we expected, I believe that Telegram should be funded primarily by its users, not advertisers. This way our users will always remain our main priority.

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WIFE OPENS HUSBAND’S INTERNET HISTORY, SAW THE “VIDEOS” HE WATCHES

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We have been married for 5 years and my libido has lessened over the years due to kids + work stress.

Hubby makes me feel good and he seems to be the same – wanted to go at it every other night but I feel tired most of the time so I turn him down mostly..end up making love only on the weekends.

Recently, I saw his laptop’s history by accident (was looking for an item he was buying) and I saw the type of videos he was watching.

He was looking at oral-themed videos which I really dislike because I hate the taste of it and told him my dislike for it.

He has stopped asking for it for a few years now. I haven’t talked to him about this but I feel a little less special now.

Should I talk to him about it or just let it be? He is very sweet to me all these years and never made me feel unwanted. Should I be worried girls?

Married/attached men, do you still watch these videos after marriage?

LAWRENCE WONG IS ACTING PM WHILE PM LEE GOES ON LEAVE UNTIL 19 JUNE

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Deputy Prime Minister and Minister of Finance Lawrence Wong, will be the Acting Prime Minister of Singapore with effect from today (13 June) until 19 June, while PM Lee goes on local leave during the period.

The Prime Minister’s Office shared the announcement via a press statement yesterday (12 June).

Here is the PMO’s announcement

Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong will be on local leave from 13 to 19 June 2022.

Prime Minister Lee Hsien Loong will be on leave from 13 to 19 June 2022. Deputy Prime Minister and Minister for Finance, Mr Lawrence Wong will be Acting Prime Minister throughout this period.

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PRIME MINISTER’S OFFICE
12 JUNE 2022

Time to read & jalan jalan

PM Lee said that he plans to catch up on his reading and go for his occasional (now famous) “jalan jalan”, and that he will update his social media should he come across anything interesting.

He also wishes everyone to stay safe and healthy, while he goes on local leave from 13 June to 19 June.

EXPAT COUPLE WITH $20K INCOME: “DON’T COMPARE YOUR LIFE WITH OTHERS”

Of late, I’ve seen a lot of posts talking about financial issues, difficulty with housing, relationship/ intimacy problems, etc. faced my people & couples in their late 20s, early 30s.

I’m writing my own experience with no intent to offend anyone, or show off. Just share that these are normal and can be dealt with.

We are a couple in our early 30s, expat & living in Singapore for about 5 years with a toddler. 

Pay & finance: When we first moved, one of us was earning 7k & the other 5k. At the moment, we earn12.5k & 8k.

Both of us put away at least 50% of our salary towards savings & investment. Till date, just have about 100k in cash & 150k in investment. Own no property, vehicles, etc. We plan with the goal of retiring from full time employment maintaining the same lifestyle when we hit 45.

Living: We upgraded from renting a 1 bedder to a 2 bedder to currently a 3 bedder. We live at a fairly mature condo outside the city centre to have access to a larger than average house and all the condo facilities. Our rent is 2.9k.

We toyed with the idea of renting a newer property closer to the city, but couldn’t rationalize the rent.

Lifestyle: We do not spend on luxuries like Starbucks, or regularly eating at fancy cafes & restaurants. Neither do we spent on electronic, home appliances, jewellery & trinkets.

We usually do 1 date night and 1 family outing every 2 weeks that costs about $200 in total.

The only major enjoyment spend on is travel – we generally do 4-5 holidays per year, but plan for it way in advance – make our bookings & reservation months before, try to stay with friends & family whenever possible. Each trip usually cost us 2k to 15k (depending on where we go). Generally do just one high end trip.

Relationship/ intimacy: we are in a overall good & stable relationship. Like all things, there are ups & downs but we do agree that at the end of the day we talk about it with each other, share our views and accept each others differences & the challenges we face.

Our bedroom activities life took a hig hit after the baby. From going at it 2-3 times a week even during our pregnancy, we went to doing it maybe once every few months. It was very frustrating – YES! But we talked about it, understood each other and are in a much better place today.

We are still picking up the pieces of this aspect of life, acknowledge that it’s not going back to how it was, but we will make it work.

For those who may be wondering about our careers growth – we are both uni graduates, and Singapore wasn’t where we started our careers. Neither did we focus on taking up additional full time or part time education. What we did do was to always be open to every opportunity at work that’s presented itself to learn from & do more, not necessarily immediately having any short term financial gain.

Neither of us were star students while at school & uni, and we don’t put that pressure on our child too. We value hard work, working smartly and the can do attitude more important than paper credentials.

Advice to those that are struggling: don’t compare your life with others, everyone has their own story to write and do it at your own pace. Dont succumb to parental & peer pressure, or the general trend of the right thing to do.

Work hard and more importantly work smart at your job.

You do YOU!

AUNTIE SCOLDING RANDOM STRANGER IN MRT – “YOU GOT PROBLEM WITH ME AH!”

A video emerged online showing a woman going on a tirade and unleashing her rage on allegedly random strangers on the MRT.

The netizen who recorded the woman in the MRT, captioned his video: “She’s scolding some random person that doesn’t know her and for not reason, wait for it…”

The woman was seen with her face mask pulled down, as she shouted at another man:

“eh why you so kaypoh ah? Your business ah? You got problem ah? you got problem you come outside with me ah!

You f—–g bloody b—–d, you cannot take care of your f—–g business you want to f— around with me ah, every day ah?”

Potential penalties

For not wearing a mask or not wearing a mask properly, they can be charged under the Covid-19 (Temporary Measures) (Control Order) Regulations 2020.

Penalties include a fine of up to SGD$10,000 and jail for up to six months.

FULL VIDEO LOADING…

CAR BEATS RED LIGHT, BLOCKS BUS AT JUNCTION THEN KENA BANG

A netizen shared a video showing a Honda beating the red light and stopping right in front of a bus, before being hit by another car.

The incident happened on 10 June at about 6.29pm, along Sengkang East Way heading towards Punggol Way.

it was captured by a passenger on board the bus that was being blocked by the red light-beating Honda City.

The Honda was seen stopping right in front of the bus after beating the red light, causing the bus to be unable to move forward.

The Honda then drove forward and within a split second, was hit by another car, a Toyota Voxy, which was unable to stop in time.

Here is what the netizen said

entered yellow box when doing a right turn but traffic light turned red in his direction, ended up blocking the bus (green light in bus direction now).

Honda tried to move off but oncoming Toyota Voxy couldn’t stop in time.

Potential penalties

It is an offence to beat a red light in Singapore.

Drivers found guilty of failing to conform to traffic light signals face a composition fine of $400 for light vehicles and $500 for heavy vehicles.

They also face 12 demerit points and if a driver accumulates 24 or more demerit points within 24 months, their license will be suspended.

GUY TELLS GIRL HE WILL SETTLE FOOD FOR PICNIC DATE, THEN BRINGS DURIANS

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Recently, i went on a date w this guy from a dating app.

We decided to have a small picnic at the beach, he told me not to bring anything except for myself as he will settle the food and i thought, “aw how sweet”.

and you know i was expecting picnics food like sandwiches, snacks, drinks?

i was also expecting a cute picnic first date but i got a shock when he appeared, he brought only 4 full boxes of durians and 2 bottles of water.

We managed to finish the durians, (the durians were so good) And I’m no longer single.

I guess you could say, I’m a durian lover. What an interesting first date i ever had in my entire life.

Netizen’s comments

  1. Durians now expensive. If he can afford 4 full boxes he’s a keeper 
  2. Wow he took a gamble and it paid off – you could have been a durian hater and that’s it.
  3. Yes. 4 boxes of durian have won your heart over..sound good.
  4. You know how expensive are durians. What a man Sia.