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GUY MADE GF PREGNANT SO SHE “CAN’T LEAVE HIM”, THEN DUMPS HER FOR ANOTHER WOMAN

A netizen shared how a guy had allegedly made his ex-girlfriend pregnant and she then suffered a miscarriage.

They then tried again and the ex-girlfriend then got pregnant again, allegedly telling her he got her pregnant so she can’t leave him.

He then allegedly dumped her and found another girl.

Here is what the netizen said (SIC)

“this guy here made his ex girlfriend pregnant. They had a miscarriage the first time but he made his ex girlfriend pregnant again by saying to her that he did that so that she can go to nobody .

while the girlfriend is pregnant , he left her and found a new girl shown on the picture above .

throughout the pregnancy people had been asking him for money to cover some charge at the hospital and for the baby but $0 had been given .

He kept on promising to pay the girl $200 every month but went missing .

People saw him going out for dates with his current girlfriend but went missing to his own child . He didn’t once met his newborn child and didnt pay for anything up till now .

Hopefully when he saw this post he can stop going missing and pay what he’s supposed to.”

MOTORCYCLIST FIGHTING, USE HELMET TO SMASH INTO WOMAN’S HEAD

A video emerged online showing a man and woman fighting under a void deck, on a side road beside a void deck.

The two were seen shouting at each other, as the man in black was seen using his helmet to smash into the woman’s head.

He was seen later in the video executing a flying kick at another man in maroon, knocking him onto the ground.

Potential penalties

According to Chapter 224 of the Penal Code, anyone who disturbs public peace by fighting in public is guilty of committing an affray.

Upon conviction, offenders could face a jail term of up to one year and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

According to Chapter 321 of the Penal Code, anyone who performs an act that causes hurt to a person is guilty of Voluntarily Causing Hurt.

Upon conviction, offenders could face a jail term of up to 3 years and/or a fine of up to $5,000.

FULL VIDEO LOADING…

GIRL ACCUSED OF BEING A STALKER FOR CHECKING SOMEONE ONLINE

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Hey, all. I’m a woman and as all of those things, I’ve definitely checked people out online before going on a date with them, or even agreeing to a date with them. My safety is a huge priority (priority #1 even!) and I care about that enough to take precautions. I also don’t want to waste time going on a date or multiple dates with someone only to find out that they don’t view me as a full human being deserving of rights.

Recently though, I got into a discussion with a man in a thread online. He insisted that you get to know people through dating; you don’t invade their privacy by looking them up beforehand. He also said it’s immature and insecure to “want to know what someone was doing 4 years ago or who that woman is in a photo their cousin posted of them.” That was when I doubled down, because I absolutely don’t care about shallow stuff like that. I care about knowing whether or not the person I’m considering for a date might cause me harm.

I explained that iit’s very easy to find public records on Google. You can see if someone has been arrested and on what charges it will be all over the news (potentially relevant) or if someone is a registered offender (again, potentially relevant). I also added that checking even ONE social media (which, if it’s public, is public info) can tell you a lot about someone. I know wokefishing is real. A lot of people don’t put everything out there on their Tinder profile, but if I saw that they liked tweets from or followed certain people I hate, I would know that we weren’t compatible and I literally would not waste another minute on them.

The dude online insisted that that’s super stalking behavior, acted like there was something wrong with me for wanting to “invade someone else’s privacy” before letting them into my life, and was altogether very gaslighty. I stopped arguing with him, but I’m still wondering about the concept of looking someone up before you date them.

This is something I and all my female friends did. “I wanna make sure they are who they say they are!” or “I don’t wanna be getting involved with someone who’s already got a bunch of drama going on!”), but ultimately I don’t think we’re being petty or insecure.

It’s a way to stay safe.

So question for all of y’all out there: do you check people online before you date them?

RESIDENT SETS PAPER ON FIRE, THEN THROWS IT DOWN HIS BLOCK

A video emerged online showing a man standing by his window at a HDB building at an unspecified location.

He was seen holding onto a piece of paper and lighting it up, before throwing it down after setting it on fire.

The burning piece of paper was seen swaying down, before resting on a small ledge above his neighbour’s window.

Potential penalties

The offence of mischief by fire, carries a possible life sentence or a jail term of up to 10 years, as well as a fine.

For high rise littering, it is a serious offence with first time offenders facing a fine of up to $2,000, and repeat offenders facing a find of up to $10,000.

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ELDERLY WOMAN KILLED, RUN OVER BY TIPPER TRUCK @ UPPER BOON KENG

A 75-year-old woman was run over by a tipper truck in Upper Boon Keng Road, and was later pronounced dead at the scene.

The incident happened yesterday (9 June), and the police said they were alerted to the incident at about 3.45pm.

There were more than 10 police officers at the scene near Block 11, and a blue police tent was seen at the scene covering up the dead body.

According to the Straits Times, a taxi driver living nearby, Abdul Salim, told them that he was going back to his car after buying coffee from a coffeeshop nearby.

He added that the accident happened as the truck was driving out., and another driver who witness the accident, was honking repeatedly.

The 46-year-old driver of the tipper truck has also been arrested by the police for careless driving causing death, following the incident.

At the time of writing, the police are investigating the case.

39 Y.O MAN WHO RAN OVER GROUP OF CYCLISTS & SENT 1 TO ICU, ARRESTED

The Singapore Police Force said on 9 June that a 39-year-old man was arrested for drink driving, following an accident that saw three cyclists allegedly being run over.

One of the injured cyclists allegedly ended up in the Intensive Care Unit (ICU), according to a cyclist from the other cycling group.

The incident happened along Nicoll Highway, heading towards Guillemard Road; and the police said that they were alerted to the accident on 4 June at about 2.05am.

The injured cyclists were conveyed to Tan Tock Seng Hospital, according to the Singapore Civil Defence Force (SCDF).

The three cyclists, a 47-year-old woman and two men aged 47 and 48, were conveyed to the hospital conscious.

The 39-year-old man who was driving the car, was arrested for drink driving and at the time of writing, investigations are ongoing.

Recap

GUY FINALLY EXITS THE CLOSET AND BE A FULL FLEDGED LADYBOY

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Long story short I’m a MTF trans woman.

I’ve spent my whole life trying to make everyone happy and being miserable for it.

I’m a very quiet person at heart. Whenever I voice my opinion I usually do so once. As concisely and quickly and coherently as possible and if someone talks over me they usually can run over me pretty quickly in conversation.

I have decades of lost ability to stand up for myself and I just remembered last night these continual recursive thoughts that would play in the back of my mind when I was a child and into my late teen years before depression really fully started consuming me: “I hope I can live soon… I’m sure everyone appreciates me putting off living. Don’t want to inconvenience anyone. I’m sure eventually people will let me if I just make them happy enough.”

Who were these thoughts directed at in particular? Society. I had learned at a young age to follow all the rules of society as well as I could. I didn’t want to hurt anyone and even though they made me uncomfortable and unhappy I learned well how to put on a smile and cheer everyone up in spite of a crushing feeling of emptiness inside.

I had never learned or had been taught consent. I never had been taught to say “NO” when I was not okay. I knew I could say no to very specific things but at the same time if it made someone upset by me saying no, I knew that really I should change the answer to fit whatever the situation called for me responding in turn.

I had absolutely no ability to tell people what I wanted. Just reflect their needs.

I started transitioning in March of 2021. That was when it all finally clicked in my mind. That was when I started finally realizing I could tell society ‘no’. That I could express myself. It was such a relief. It took a while though, even after that to actually realize and learn, I still hadn’t actually learned how to apply saying no at work, or in a lot of my personal life. I had to actively remind myself that I matter and that my decisions are important. It isn’t just about everyone else. I’m part of humanity.

A year later I can say that I have finally learned to say no to people. That I know how to consent to things and not just blindly accept anything put in front of me. Finally. I’m figuring this out.

I feel awfully behind in life though… almost three decades of saying yes to anything. Not having any ability to consent really. It’s really easy to invalidate myself still, to tell myself negative things just because someone rude said something mean to me. I wish I had a lot more years of actually being myself.

I wouldn’t wish anyone the inability to say no or not be able to choose consent.
It’s an absolute nightmare.
Thanks for listening to my story.

GIRL GETS UPSET OVER BROKEN SMALL PROMISES, LIKE CANCELLED OUTINGS ETC

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Am I toxic if I know that my close friends and friends are lying to me and I don’t call them out about it? While I act all clueless about them lying.

I realize that the people who I hold dear, the friends which I considered super close friends that I would even suffer for them willingly.

They all do not consider me the same. While they do say stuff like ” Thanks, I owe you, if you ever need something, I will be there for you” but slowly I realize these are all empty words and promises. 

Yet at times, I feel as though they and I are indeed close friends. But at this point, I can’t really remember how it felt anymore.

Also, do I need some sort of mental help if I get upset when someone breaks a promise to me however small it is? (I don’t say it to anyone of them but it just hurts me)

Like it can be a meal together that was canceled for no reason, could be just something they promised to do or get.  Or it could even be something like a work submission.

Am I mentally screwed or something?

FIGHTER JET CRASHED INTO HOMES IN CHINA, 1 DEAD AND 2 INJURED

A fighter jet in China, an Air Force J-7, crashed in Central China on 9 June, killing one person and injuring two more.

Chinese state broadcaster CCTV announced the accident, saying that the plane “had an accident during training, and crashed near the airport, damaging the homes of residents.”

The pilot of the aircraft had parachuted to safety, and was sent to the hospital along with the other injured people.

The crash occurred in Xiangyang, Hubei; and at the time of writing is still being investigated by the authorities.

A few buildings were seen in footage taken by witnesses, appearing to be completely flattened by the crash, as black smoke emerged from the flames in the wreckage.

Image source: South China Morning Post

GUY IN LATE 20S, RELATIVES START ASKING WHEN HE GETTING MARRIED

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For context I’m 26M, single and have only ever had one serious relationship. Ended amicably, reason being LDR

This started during CNY, where the relatives all reciprocated my Happy Chinese New Year with ‘I hope you meet a nice girl this year’s.

This was the first year where my marital status came up as a subject, and I finally realized that being closer to 30 rather than 20, I’d have to field this question in years to come.

I’ve also come to realize that I have kind of lost the ability to develop feelings for people. To preface, I don’t go around meeting people with the sole intention to date.

Friends have tried to set me up, but i would either say no (for fear of disappointing their friend) or it would be very cordial.

I just don’t feel the excitement and curiosity of meeting and getting to know someone new.

I was just wondering if any comrade has gone through the same phase. And what got you back into the dating scene

Ps, please don’t suggest dating apps, I feel bad for ghosting the people I do match with. Sorry for the rant