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GF JUSTIFIES BAD BEHAVIOUR CAUSE SHE IS ON PERIOD

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Have i made a mistake by hanging up on my GF who’s on her period?

We were gaming while in call together. She kept being unnecessarily harsh and rude, telling me to stfu and just generally being really toxic towards me and the team. I kept walking on eggshells trying not to piss her off. Literally, everything I did/didn’t do pissed her off.

She then demanded I come over to pop pimples she can’t reach. I said no bc I hate popping pimples + you can’t just order people around like that. She scoffed and called me a crybaby. She knows that’s a sensitive insult bc my absent dad used to call me that whenever I told him my feelings. I hung up.

She’s on her period but I don’t know how forgiving I should be of this behaviour since it’s genuinely insulting and hurtful.

The hormones make it difficult to be calm, controlled and rational. You won’t understand unless you go through it yourself.

Nothing justifies bad behavior. With that in mind think about how much more difficult it is to be pleasant and civil when you are hungry, sick, or even just having a bad day.

So in another word she is weak minded?

MAN FOUND FRIEND’S WIFE ON TINDER AND EXPOSED HIM

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While scrolling through Tinder I found that my friend’s wife had made a profile which said she was looking for new friends. The photos were from her Facebook so nothing too provocative. What concerned me was the lack of any mention of her being married or having kids.

I screenshotted her profile, swiped left, and spent the next hour stressing out about whether I should tell my friend or not. In the end, I described what happened to him but in a hypothetical scenario involving another couple where I asked my friend if I should tell the husband about finding the wife’s dating profile.

My friend said yeah, I should tell the guy so I handed him my phone and showed him the screenshots of his own wife’s Tinder account. Predictably he was upset that even if she was just looking for friends that she hadn’t told him about the profile. So he leaves to go home and talk to her and I message his wife (who is also my friend) to let her know that her husband is going to be in a bad mood.

She asks why and I tell her about the Tinder account. That made her very upset with me as she explains that her friend made the account so the two of them could find other moms in the bigger city an hour away to hang out with and do group kid activities like going to the water park. She then informed me that the Tinder account was only an hour old when I found it and she hadn’t had a chance to tell her husband about it and implied that I might have ruined their marriage because I had made her husband irrationally angry and now she had to deal with that which would also make her late for work.

I felt like a huge AH as I’d apparently just ruined my best friend’s 10 yr marriage. So I apologized profusely to his wife for not talking to her first. A while later I called my friend and he sounded more sad than angry by this point. Apparently his wife was angry at him as well as me, though he said he didn’t understand why she was upset at him. (He didn’t elaborate so I don’t know how that conversation went.)

Now I’m wondering if I did the right thing, should have spoken with the wife first, or minded my own damn business. If her profile had said she was married and was looking for other moms to hang out with I’d have totally ignored it but it said “looking for new friends in.” And its hard to be comfortable with my friend’s wife saying that her friend made the account when that friend has been caught using social media to cheat on her husband more than once.

Though my friend’s wife has never cheated on him to either of our knowledge we both kinda feel like crap considering how upset she is over the whole thing. Am I the one at fault here?

16 WOMEN ARRESTED IN ANTI-VICE OPERATION AT MASSAGE, RESIDENTIAL & COMMERCIAL UNITS

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According to the Police media release, a total of 35 men and women, aged 25 to 82, for various offences following a series of enforcement operations conducted across five days between 25 to 29 May 2022.

The operation was conducted by Tanglin Police Division gainst massage establishment outlets and vice activities.

Illegal Gambling and Vice at Balestier

In the operation against illegal gambling along Balestier Road and Toa Payoh Lorong 4, 16 men and three women were investigated for offences under the Common Gaming Houses Act 1961 and Betting Act 1960.

More than $6,000 in cash and gambling-related paraphernalia were seized.

The arrest of eight female subjects for offences under the Women’s Charter 1961 in an unlicensed massage establishment along Balestier Road.

Massage – Upp Thomson and Mackenzie Road

Seven commercial units and two private residential units were raided, resulting in the detection of five unlicensed massage establishments. A total of 16 women were arrested for offences under the Women’s Charter 1961.

Arrests made under the Women’s Charter 1961 in an unlicensed massage establishment along Upper Thomson Road

Arrests made under the Women’s Charter 1961 in an unlicensed massage establishment along Upper Thomson Road

The arrest of two females for offences under the Women’s Charter 1961 along Mackenzie Road

Public Entertainment, Foreign Manpower Act, Customs and Fire Safety

In another operation against public entertainment outlets, two outlets along Koek Road and Cuscaden Road were found to have committed breaches under the Public Entertainment Act 1958, while one outlet along Koek Road was found to have committed an offence under the COVID-19 (Temporary Measures) Act 2020.

A joint enforcement operation with the Ministry of Manpower, Urban Redevelopment Authority, Singapore Customs and the Singapore Civil Defence Force, was also carried out at a unit along Grange Road, where 26 occupants were found to be residing in the unit.

The respective agencies have commenced investigations into breaches under the Employment of Foreign Manpower Act 1990, the Planning Act 1998, the Fire Safety Act 1993, as well as the Customs Act 1960.

MAN THINKS HIS EX-GF RETURNED FROM THE GRAVE TO HAUNT HIM

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A man shared a story online on how his ex-girlfriend who he broke up came back to haunt him.

He said that back then, after breaking up with his ex who later jump off from his block.

Here is the story:

It happened about a month ago and it was at night when I was going home and walking in my HDB estate the lights started to blink, I thought that because my estate was old so the power got some problems.

However, when I was working near my block I saw a patch of blood on the floor. It was scary but after looking again it’s just light reflecting from the red paint of the HDB. The image of the wet floor of blood reminds me of how my ex jumped off. (Yes, from my block)

It’s been many years and I still can’t forget it, after she jump I was at the void deck and I saw her body. (She waited for me to return home from work and wanted me to see it).

So back to the story, After I reached my block, I press the 9th floor where I stayed. But the lift went straight to the 12th floor (where she jumped from).

I tried pressing 9th floor but the lift opened and close its door twice.

So I started to get scared and I wanted to leave the lift in case I got stuck and quickly ran out and took the stairs.

It was really getting creepy and I quickly wanted to open the house gate but my key was missing!

I ran back to the staircase and found my keys on the 12th floor. As I was climbing up, I happened to look at the corridor of the lift lobby and I saw something drop from the building.

I immediately panic, ran back home open the gate, On all the lights and sleep with the lights on under the blanket. I don’t even dare to shower.

The next day I told my mom what happened and she immediately contacted a property agent to sell the house.

I have been staying at a rental flat for the past month.

I don’t know if it was my ex coming back to haunt me for breaking her heart, Honestly speaking, I did not cheat on her. I broke up with her as she was overcontrolling and got a new girlfriend several months later.

She could not take it and end it all.

MAN SLEEPING WITH FRIEND’S MOTHER GOT CAUGHT BY FRIEND AT BOAT QUAY

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A man shared a story of how he was caught by his friend at Boat Quay after drinking at a pub.

The man then told his friend he had a “sacred relationship” with his mother.

Here is the story:

My friend of 5 years just blocked me on all social media accounts after he caught me with his mother.

My friend was a “teen baby”, his mother was only 16 when she gave birth to my friend, meaning she is 36 this year. But she still looks so delicious.

I often go over to his house to play games and his mother often called me “handsome boy”, that was one time I went over and saw his mother was sleeping on the couch without wearing anything on the inside and it was simply irresistible.

She suddenly woke up and caught me staring, she then asked “What I want”, I said Im just waiting for her son to shower finish.

She then went into her room and asked me to come, I followed and she showed ME MORE. She took my number and tell me to come back tomorrow at 8 AM.

So I went back the next day and my friend was not around we kind of did it

It started from here to a weekly thing and there was one time we went to Boat Quay for a drink.

As we were heading out of the pub to wait for the taxi at the coffee shop, she kissed me on the cheek before boarding the taxi.

My friend happened to be eating noodles at the coffee shop and shouted. His mother quickly got into the taxi and left and I was left getting questioned by his friend.

After getting interrogated by him, I finally broke and admit that I had a special relationship with his mother.

This was just last week and he had blocked me from all social media. But his mother still tells me to come over when my friend is not around.

She told me that she has been alone for a long time and his son will eventually get used to it and tell me not to mind so much.

My brain is telling me is wrong, but my little brother is telling me that it is right. There is no turning back

INSURANCE AGENT “I SOLD MILLION DOLLAR POLICIES FROM DRINKING BEER”

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An insurance agent recently shared a story about how he was able to retire young after selling multiple insurance policies to high net worth individuals.

He also shared how he did it.

Here is his story:

When I first started insurance, I was a bit sceptical. I was contemplating between being an insurance agent and being a property agent.

However, I passed my insurance exams first and got my license earlier.

I was a bit lost as most of my friends were people who drink day and night without any consideration to their futures.

I had to start somewhere, I joined my friends for a drink and did not expect much. Until one of my friends shared the medical bills his mother was facing as she was not insured and unfortunately lost her job after cancer strikes her.

So they started to talk about insurance policies and I happened to be selling. I managed to close several deals with my friends, including investments and medical. The best part I did not even have to push them.

So just a week after getting the policies, my friends asked me for a drink again but with a different clique.

It was a bunch of older guys that I had not met and most of them appear to be uncles who dress casually.

One of the uncles ask me what I was doing, I said: “I just started insurance recently and trying to work my way to afford a home in the near future.”

The uncle probed further and asked me about investment policies as he’s retired and do not want to waste so much time monitoring his investments.

I told him he can always start small and slowly work his way up.

I did not expect him to buy after a few beers and he told me to follow him after the drinking session ended.

He was wearing shorts, flip flops and an old T-shirt. But when we exit the pub, a Bentley was waiting for us outside and his chauffeur was there.

His driver took us to his house in Orchard and said that he felt that I was sincere and felt an affinity with me.

We continued drinking beer and he decided that he will buy a policy from me, I was thinking “It must be the beer talking”.

He contacted me the next day and he really did buy a policy from me that was in the 6 figure range.

We became friends and I started to mix with his friends who were of the same rich standing and it goes on and on.

Each of his friends bought multiple investment policies from me which range from 5 figures to 6 figures and all the policies from him and his friends totalled several millions.

The moral of the story is not just “don’t judge people by their covers” and also don’t ditch any activity just because it’s unhealthy.

From a glass of beer to riches. All the best to the people who are working out there.

CABINETS BOUGHT FROM SHOPEE FALLS APART 2 HOURS AFTER ASSEMBLING IT

A woman who recently bought a cabinet from a seller listed on Shopee ends up with disappointment.

The buy stated that the cabinet subpar in quality and fell apart shortly after assembly.

She then leaves a negative review on the seller and she claims that her negative review was not published.

When she contacted the seller for support, the seller accused that the customer did not assemble it properly and stated the following:

“Dear customer, the wardrobe will not fall apart like this if you have completed the whole installation. Logically speaking, after you installed the backboard, there is no way it will fall apart. We believe that you installed it half way and left it hanging which caused the damage. We truly apologise for your “unpleasant” experience. Nonetheless, we thank you for your support.”

The customer then warns other customers to not buy from the seller.

Photo of cabinet:

Here are what netizens think:

  • You assemble yourself??? Then hard to claimShould buy from shoppee that provides their workers installation
  • These cheap wardrobe use recycled wood and are very soft. You will need to follow installation instructions carefully and correctly. Skip any part and the result will be like this
  • we had similar experience like this before seller don’t bother, review remove and calling us stupid ! We talk to Shopee show them the conversation and we got refund and seller got black remark

SENG KANG HOSPITAL NURSE ALLEGEDLY GAVE RUDE REMARKS TO PATIENT

Going to the hospital is finding peace of mind or getting serious illnesses treated and we always hope to find the best service staff.

However, Facebook user Vicky Xiaoshuang said that her husband who nearly lost his arm was delayed at Seng Kang Hospital and a nurse even allegedly gave a rude remark:

Here is the what she said:

UPDATE: My husband went to TTSH today (03 Jun 2022) at 1200am and after short 6hrs he already in the ward. Doctor there have done all the necessary testing within that 6hr and had arranged emergency surgery. If we had continue stay at Sengkang, I think my husband arm gone case alr. No ward nvm, at least let the test/scan running, not leave patient hanging for so long..

*If can give 0 star i cfm will, service and management was so much worst right now than back in year 2019 when I was warded. What happen to this newly built hospital? Just 3years and the difference is HUMONGOUS. *

On the 1st June 2022 1030pm, I brought my husband to Sengkang General Hospital A&E due to suspected ligament tear on his shoulder which has been causing sharp pain for few days as well as high fever out of no where for days already.

Everything was smooth sailing at the start, ART test then waited roughly 2.5hr before a doctor attend to us (Nurse and doctor at that particular time were all very efficient, asking very detailed questions about what happen to my husband arm). An Xray and blood test was arranged and then after that it was a waiting game. Doctor mentioned need to be warded as blood infection rate is very high and they still dk the cause of all these however admission staff say all wards are FULL at roughly 4am – 5am and we had to wait till 11am where patients starts to discharge and maybe then my husband can get warded. We had no choice but to rest at the observation room.

We went for breakfast at 7am, came back the observation ward and my husband was instructed to start fasting (probably cause they are gonna run some scan/test). After nearly 13hrs of painful wait, the specialist finally came and check my husband. After checking (at about 1130am, 13hrs after we step foot at the A&E), we still have to wait again for the ward to be avail. At about 130pm – 2pm, a nurse shifted my husband to a bed at the observation room. I left at 4pm.

5pm my husband ask for pain killers, 2.5 hrs later still not given.

6pm, took my husband blood for test again, poked so many times (same for the other patient opp my husband, also had to poked all his four limbs before they managed to draw blood from him)

730pm, patient who arrived at A&E much later than my husband managed to be moved up to the ward first?? What nonsense.

At this point of time my husband have been fasting for 12hrs, he was feeling hungry already so asked the nurse to check what time is his scan/test so he can eat after that. SURPRISELY, there are not a single test/scan booked for him and yet they asked my husband to fast for nth for freaking 12hrs.

After that he also asked the nurse how come a patient who reached much later than my husband can managed to be warded first. Then this other nurse cut in the convo and told my husband rudely “if you cannot wait, just take out yr tag and you can go”. Dear missy, we are not here waiting to buy food for you to easily say (cant wait just go), we are here in pain waiting for freaking straight 21hrs and yet ppl who reach so much later can go up the ward first and even made my husband fast for nth. We can wait in the observation ward, at least bring him to run some test/scan that doctor mentioned he need. Why asked him fast only to check there’s not scan/test booked??

Sengkang General Hospital is this how u train yr nurses and this is how the management work?? Cock up hospital management. Nurse also need proper training, I don’t think it’s a right way to talk to a patient/paying customer in this manner. I hope karma comes for that nurse, hope she or yr family gets that kind of nurse with her own attitude and she will have a taste of her own medicine. Saw alot of bad reviews on Google for Sengkang hospital. They management really big problem. Make ppl fast for 12hr only for NOTHING!! Do avoid and go other hospital. Just sharing to share awareness of their bad management.

MAN COMPLAINS ABOUT ROAD WORKS NOISE AT NIGHT NEAR POTONG PASIR MRT

A resident who resides in Potong Pasir said that road works is operating even in the middle of the night.

He then uploaded a 11-second video (April 18), where noises can be heard every few seconds. Typically a handphone is unable to record noises from such a distance. Meaning the actual volume of the noise that is generated from the construction is even louder than that.

Here is what the netizen said:

Road works with noisy drilling throughout the night along Upper Serangoon Rd near Potong Pasir MRT. Is this allowed? Our sleep is greatly disturbed.

Called NEA but seems they cannot resolve. Really frustrating.

The law

According to NEA noise Control here are the timings and noise level permissible for late at night

55 dBA is equivalent to the noise of a maker.

No-work rule on Sundays and public holidays

In addition to establishing permissible noise limits, NEA has also implemented rules which prohibit work on Sundays and public holidays for construction sites located within 150m of residential premises and noise-sensitive premises.

Here are what netizens think:

  • Come to Bishan and stay. Nearer to Marymount Road. The on-going construction of North-South Corridor works are 24 hours round the clock. Then you will likely appreciate what currently happening is just a tiny salt as compared.
  • Most probably already given permit to do night works by LTA because its a busy road with alot of traffic during the day. The TPE outside my house had road works done also into the night yesterday
  • Likely its urgent works that cant be done during the day due to the road traffic being heavy.
  • It’s a common thing. Instead of taking concerned of global warming they should also think of “NOISE WARMING” especially with the daily noises from the non-stopped continuous road repairs, house renovation, carbage trucks and drilling in between blocks of flats and most flats. From 8.30 am right to 6.30pm. Everyday the noise pollution is endless. Today dig, tomorrow patch-up, the next dig and patch-up another dig (the same spot where it was patch up). All complaints fall into deaf years that goes for the HDB too. So don’t complaint but live with it. This is called “The forever young red dot is progressing in development” perpetually, the so called without due consideration of residents. So be it !

PLUMBER QUOTES LESS THAN $100 FOR REPAIR, ROTI PRATA TO $265

Ordered a service from GOfix under HDB minor repairs listings, to repair my toilet bowl flushing system. GOfix assigned this PJC Builders PTE LTD to handle my case.

Their technician came on 4/6/2022, asking for $265 for replacement of the toilet flushing system in the toilet bowl upon onsite survey, which is not the reasonable price for this service and before he reached my house I did ask him on phone regarding will the cost exceeds $100 he replied no.

As I’ve checked with 6 toilet bowl fixing companies, the full set of toilet bowl syphon pump system(including the valve) replacement usually will only costs between $150~$180 only. If you’re charging within this prices range, I’m totally fine.

Technicians from other fixing companies told be that $250 above will be charged only in the case if the toilet bowl needed to be dismantled for repair.But most replacements of the flushing system do not need to dismantled the toilet bowl.

This technician from PJC Builders overquote the price to $265 just for replacement of toilet bowl syphon pump control valve and demand me to pay $25 for survey fee if I don’t accept his demand for the $265 service fees.

And this $265 service fees wasn’t disclosured to me before coming despite I have called the technician to describe the issue and asked him for the quotation before he approach.

If every workman doing in this way, they also can anyhow quote for any overcharged price they wanted, and if the customers disagree with their sudden quotation on site, they can still earn $25 without doing anything.

In this case, customers are only left with 2 options. Either pay them the overcharged service fees they demanded which was not told before they approach for on site survey, or forced to pay them the survey fee for doing nothing if the customers rejected that unreasonable overcharged service fees damand.

Make me feel like falling into a trap of scam!

All other fixing companies and home renovations companies that I have engaged with, provide free quotation first, only after the customer signed/agreed with their quotations, then they proceed with the arrangement of work.In this scenario, if they want the customers to pay for the survey fee or even confiscated the deposit if the customers changed their mind after signing the agreement of the quotation, then this is totally acceptable.

I have the same service done by another contractor, get my flushing system done at only $150, no hidden cost, no survey fee.

Now what I am encountering with this PJC Builders assigned by GOfix was like, I wanted to order a food delivery thinking that it is just an economic priced dinner within normal ranges of budget, but there wasn’t any menu or prices shown upon placing the order, so I can’t choose the food and the costs were unknown upon placing the order. The cost remains unknown even if I asked. Nvm, I think of the positive side and assumed that the price will still be within the normal ranges. Then when the meal was delivered to my doorstep, the delivery man demanded me to pay for $1,000 for single pax chicken rice which usually only cost about $5~$12 from all other restaurants(If I know they will demand this kind of charges for this kind of food, I will not even think about ordering it at all). Then when I rejected the order, the delivery man demanded me to pay for their transportation fee for $25 without any food delivered(which is also very unreasonable for the transportation fee if you transport within Singapore even from end to end). Paying $25 for nothing!!!

How do you think? This is how bad I’m feeling right now after dealing with this company.

They make it mandatory for paying $25 on site survey fee even if you don’t accept their quotation at the end.

Quotation is not disclosed before they come on site for survey, and will only revealed upon approach.

They will be quoting a lot higher than most/all

market rates for the same services provided elsewhere.

By then you’re only left with 2 options, you can choose either one :

1. Accept their overpriced service.

2. Reject their overpriced service, but still have to pay for the mandatory survey fee $25 for doing nothing.

***Please do not engage in any service or business which their prices are NOT disclosed upon ordering. Because they might extort overpriced service than any elsewhere later on!

Updated : Gofix explained that the materials alone are very expensive and cost $180-$200(shown on picture 2, their email). I go and check with DIY store online site, materials all add up don’t even need $100(pic 3 & 4).

Updated : Pic 5 This screenshot of WhatsApp was how a good contactor company should do, they disclose all the possible costs clearly before any payment is needed from the customers.

I got my problem fixed only at $150 without any hidden cost.

Unlike GOfix and his cooperative contractor PJC Builders, they refused to reveal any possible costs before coming, and quote the customers very much higher beyond the market rates after the on-site survey. if you rejected their overpriced quotation, you still have to pay them their survey fee $25.

Updated Pic 6 : The screenshot picture from an email quotation invoice of another good contractor. Although I didn’t engage with them because I have chosen another one with a even lower cost $150, but they are still good contactor who provided free on-site survey and free transparent quotation first before any payment is needed from the customers.