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GUY GOT CATFISHED, DUMPS GIRL ON FIRST DATE BECAUSE SHE LOOKS DIFFERENT

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A girl shared how she met a guy on a dating app and after they went on a date, he then blocked her because he found her “short, ugly, fat and disgusting”.

Here is the story:

“I matched with a guy on Coffee Meets Bagel and I am wondering if he is even interested in me or is just meeting me to satisfy his loneliness. I made the initiative to match with him and say hi to him, and we exchanged our contacts on telegram.

We have loads of fun chatting with each other and I made the initiative of asking him out to watch a movie and had dinner together, and we met up for the first time yesterday and I could somehow sense that he was disappointed that I wasn’t up to his expectations?

I have posted unedited photos of myself and didn’t lie about my height, and from photos, I think that he should know that I am definitely not someone who is tall, skinny nor looked like an influencer type, so I was disappointed when I happened to peep at his phone during our dinner, and he was texting to his friend that he wanted to leave the dinner with me as he was disappointed at me being short, ugly, fat and disgusting.

I pretended that nothing had happened and we chatted like close friends as we got to knew each other more. I told myself that maybe he is just joking only and would delete the message after that.

The day after the date, he had blocked me on telegram, and he left me with a message which stated that he had enjoyed the movie and dinner, but he was upset at himself for being so judgmental as he could not stand being with someone who is like a dinobu, and he admitted that he was being polite throughout the dinner and just treated me as a friend, and just leave me hanging like that. I was so angry and shocked at his reaction that I spent the rest of the day in my room, trying not to cry but I just can’t believe that a decent man like him could treat woman like trash.

I am now having doubts if I could get serious and decent men on dating apps, and looking back, maybe I should called him out directly on the dinner itself if he truly feel that I am short, ugly, fat and disgusting instead of texting to his friend and wanted ‘help’ to escape from me.”

Editor’s note: You deserve much better than him, there are better guys out there.

NO MORE PHYSICAL BIRTH/DEATH CERTS, ICA ISSUING DIGITAL COPIES FROM 29 MAY

The Immigrations and Checkpoints Authority (ICA) said in a statement released yesterday (8 May) that from 29 May onwards, there will be no more physical copies of birth and death certificates issued.

Instead, digital copies will be issued in place of the physical ones.

Here is what they said

Streamlining Birth and Death Registration Processes; Digital Certificates to Replace Physical Certificates from 29 May 2022

            From 29 May 2022, the birth and death registration processes will be made simpler, and digital birth and death certificates will be issued in place of physical certificates. This is part of the Government’s ongoing effort to streamline and digitalise services to serve citizens better.

Registration of births

2.          The LifeSG application (previously known as “Moments of Life”) was launched in June 2018 as a one-stop, integrated platform for parents to register their child’s birth and apply for the relevant Government programmes and schemes (e.g. Baby Bonus). Since then, 80% of all eligible births in Singapore have been registered digitally and LifeSG has been downloaded more than 400,000 times. Parents shared feedback that the LifeSG application has simplified the birth registration process, which has given them more time to care for and bond with their newborns.

3.          With the introduction of digital birth certificates from 29 May 2022 onwards, parents will no longer need to make a trip to the hospital or the Immigration & Checkpoints Authority (ICA) Building to collect a physical birth certificate. Parents will have to register the birth of their newborns via LifeSG. Following the registration on LifeSG, parents will be notified to download the digital birth certificate of their child via an ICA e-Service known as the “electronic Retrieval of Certificates and Instant Verification”, which can be accessed on the ICA website (www.ica.gov.sg) or via MyICA Mobile. With this, in-person registration services for birth will cease at the hospitals and the ICA Building.

Registration of deaths

4.          The Government is also streamlining the death registration process to ease the administrative burden of post-death matters on bereaved family members.

5.          Currently, a medical practitioner will issue a Certificate of the Cause of Death (CCOD) bearing the death particulars of the deceased to the next-of-kin (NOK). The NOK will have to register the death of the deceased at either the public hospitals, Neighbourhood Police Posts/Centres (NPPs/NPCs) or the ICA Building by producing the CCOD and the deceased’s identity documents. A physical death certificate will then be issued upon completion of the registration, which the NOK can use to proceed with post-death matters.

6.          From 29 May 2022, there will no longer be a need for the deceased’s NOK to register the death. After the death is certified by a registered medical practitioner, an NOK will be able to receive a digital death certificate from the My Legacy portal (https://mylegacy.life.gov.sg/). We hope this will give the bereaved family more time to focus on other matters in their moment of grief.

Going digital to serve citizens better

7.          The digitalisation of the birth and death registration processes is part of the Government’s continuous efforts to integrate and improve the delivery of services. Parents of newborns and NOK of the deceased will be able to conveniently download and store the digital certificates on their personal mobile devices and laptops.

8.          Parents who are unsure how to register their child’s birth through LifeSG may approach hospital staff. If further assistance is required, they may contact ICA. NOK may approach staff at hospitals (if their loved one passed on in the hospital), general practitioners, nursing homes and hospices for assistance on how to download the digital death certificate.

9.          We understand that there will be citizens who are unable to go online and may not have someone to assist them with the new processes. These citizens can call a 24-hour hotline at 6589 8707, which is a temporary dedicated hotline to assist citizens with their queries relating to the new birth and death registration processes. They may also visit the ICA Building and the network of ServiceSG Centres located across Singapore for assistance.

Ensuring digital authenticity and preventing fraud

10.         The digital certificates are official and legal documents issued by ICA. Data protection and privacy measures are also in place to prevent data loss or theft, unauthorised access, as well as undue disclosure. For example, parents who are Singpass users and who wish to retrieve their child’s digital birth certificate will be required to log in using Singpass, which requires two-factor authentication (2FA). All information on LifeSG, My Legacy and ICA’s systems will be stored and secured in the government database.

11.         Digitising the certificates also allows ICA to incorporate an additional means to verify their authenticity. Government agencies and private entities, such as industry associations and financial institutions, can use QR codes included on all digital certificates to verify their authenticity. The QR code will be linked to an ICA system, where details on the digital certificate can be verified against ICA’s database. Any person caught giving false information can be investigated and charged under the Registration of Births and Deaths Act or the Penal Code.

12.         ICA’s Deputy Commissioner (Policy and Transformation), Cora Chen, said: “The digitalisation of the birth and death registration processes, and issuance of digital certificates will provide greater convenience for parents of newborns, and reduce administrative hassle for NOK of the deceased so that they may focus on other immediate tasks on hand, such as funeral arrangements. These parents and NOK can transact with us on-the-go and save a trip to ICA or the registration centre. This initiative will bring us another step closer to ICA’s vision of Services Centre Next Generation (SCNG), where online transactions and digital documents will become the norm. In anticipation of the growing number of digital documents, there are also plans to launch a secure one-stop digital document repository for our citizens to access their official documents with ease.”

13.         With the digitalisation of the registration processes, ICA will no longer issue physical birth and death certificates from 29 May 2022. Brochures, posters, and videos in four official languages will be put up at key touchpoints including hospitals, nursing homes and hospices to familiarise the public with the new processes.

IMMIGRATION & CHECKPOINTS AUTHORITY
SMART NATION AND DIGITAL GOVERNMENT GROUP
PUBLIC SERVICE DIVISION
MINISTRY OF HEALTH
8 MAY 2022


GF DUMPS BF CAUSE HE HAS A “CHILDISH” ANIME FIGURINE COLLECTION

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A netizen shared a lengthy letter to his ex-girlfriend, sharing his thoughts about why and how they broke up, and how he still thinks of her.

Here is the story:

“I know its been a few months since we broke up. Sometimes when I see you reshare stuff like TikTok videos such as “You deserve so much better”, “Don’t settle for anything less” types of emotional videos, I get so sad.

I felt like I really gave you my everything. I clear your shopping lists, I plan dates, I occasionally fetch you to & from school, I always bring gifts to your parents and try to impress them. And yet I don’t expect anything from you except emotional love.

I don’t get why you broke up with me because you think I’m childish for buying anime figurines instead of spending money on you.

I keep this hobby/interest private. Only the closest of my friends know about it. I don’t see the problem with it? It doesn’t spill over to my public image/persona.

Heck, if you want to compare dollar to dollar value, I can assure you that I spend way more on you. Maybe, you’re just trying to find a convenient reason to leave me.

But then why repost all those stuff, insinuating to your followers and friends that I didn’t treat you well in the relationship? or am I looking too much into it?

If you’re reading this, I hope you can find your ideal knight swooping in to treat you like the queen you are. I’ll be removing you and moving on with life.”

Editor’s note: Be glad you got rid of her, she’s not worth it.

NETIZEN CHANGES JOBS THEN GETS DISMISSED TWICE, SCARE TO CHANGE JOB AGAIN

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A netizen shared how he/she left a stable job in December 2019 and hasn’t been able to stay in a company for longer than 6 months.

Here is the story:

“After leaving a stable job for 3 years since 2019 December to make a career switch to a completely new field (technical based), I have not been able to stay in 1 company for long, not beyond 6 months between beginning 2020 till now end of 2021.

One of the companies I was employed in dismissed me before 2 months and the other dismissed me shortly after 2 months (I had 3 years of experience in that field).

In between my employment gaps, I have been applying for many jobs (at least 30?) both technical and non-technical, but I seldom get any response or interview invitation, even for non-technical roles in which I have experience.

I feel so demoralized.

I have even resorted to lowering my salary expectations to accept a pay cut from my salary before 2020.

Despite the pay cuts, I still could not pass probation beyond 2 months. My manager was unsatisfied with my performance even though I felt that they should be more forgiving since I was new and the mistakes I made were not really serious.

She even degraded me by saying that I wasn’t putting any effort at all when I had worked hard and even overtime.

I was dismissed on that day without any notice given.

After a few months of continued job searching, I finally got a new job offer which has a blend of both non-technical and technical job scopes and will be starting my first day of work next week. However, I am full of worry and uncertainty about whether I will manage to pass the probation period successfully as I have already been dismissed twice before.

I try to think positively, but my confidence level has dropped so drastically despite my motivation to do well in my next job.

As a result, I have been losing sleep over the last couple of weeks.

How can I get over this, put the past behind me and put my focus on excelling in my next job?”

Editor’s note: Take one day at a time and only focus on getting the tasks for the day done well, then reset the next day. One step at a time and you will get there.

GUY KICKED GF OUT OF HOME BECAUSE SHE DISRESPECTED HIS DEAD DOG

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just had my gf leave cuz she disrespected my dead dog

We got into an argument cuz I wanted a password on my old phone (I recently found it), I forgot it so I asked her and she said ” you probably still have pictures of your ex so no”

we got into argument and she ended up saying it’s just a dog.

I had nothing but him; no friends, family, nothing, but he was always by my side. I’d wake up and he’d somehow gotten between my arms at night to cuddle, he was more than my best friend.

She kept saying I’m your girlfriend, that’s just a dog, a dead dog. I’ve always hated humans and people wonder why I’ll always choose an animal before them.

Netizens’ comments

  • I’m stone cold sober and I don’t even know how OP went from asking for a forgotten password for an old phone to “you probably still have pictures of your ex” to dead dog?? Like, what…
  • After I had gotten a rescue dog that had a sad past, we had agreed this would be the dog’s last home. About 5 years into having this wonderful dog, my partner asked “what would you do if I said you had to get rid of the dog?” I replied, “I’d miss you a lot”.
    I’m now with a wonderful partner who sees animals as family.

DELIVERYMAN CASUALLY EXTINGUISHES FIRE, THEN RESUMES DELIVERY

A delivery man was seen casually putting out fire after delivering a parcel, and he then continued on with his delivery route like it was just another day.

A netizen shared how she ordered a package from Shopee and it was delivered to her home by the delivery man on 5 May.

He left the parcel at her flat at Ang Mo Kio Avenue 5, before leaving to continue on his delivery route.

The netizen’s sister then told her that there was a fire at the blue recycling bin behind their block, near the carpark area.

But nobody was reacting to the fire despite passers-by passing by a funeral at a void deck in the vicinity.

The netizen then called 995 to report the fire, just as her mother told her that the fire was being put out by a kind samaritan.

She then looked out and saw that it was the delivery man who had just sent her her parcel just moments ago.

He was seen trying to extinguish the fire with a water hose that he managed to get his hands on, and the fire was put out and he then left, before the arrival of the police and SCDF.

SIBLINGS DRINKING TOGETHER, MUM ACCUSES THEM OF GETTING INTIMATE

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Basically me and my brother were supposed to have movie night in his room bc he has the big tv and a huge bed. He came late at 1 am but since he promised me we went ahead and finished the episode of the show.

We had like 2 shots max not black out drunk. We do this like maybe every 3-5 months.

My mom went to my room and saw i wasnt there and asked if i was in my brothers room and i said yes. Then she asked what we were doing and i said we are watching a movie.

The end credits were rolling and my brother was sleeping so i left. My mom then told me she hopes we arent opening the gates of hell by drinking together. I was so confused.

She then went on to say that drinking leads to stuff and she finds it sus that we stopped watching the movie right after she came in the room.

I was so shocked, my mom has paranoid disorder so she has these beliefs abt stuff that are just not true. I try my best to be understanding but literally this is disgusting, she told me to not do stuff that willl make her believe we are doing stuff.

Im sorry?? My brother is basically my twin sometimes when i went to his house we would drink have our own mini party and then watch movies. Idk wtf is so wrong with that.

She literally thinks we do this everyday and that its a lifestyle and if smth happens bc we were drunk then its gonna be her fault.

Maybe im wrong but drinking will not make u do stuff like fucking your sibling, maybe a friend u were already attracted to sure. But this is going too far.

Ik its mostly her disorder but im so tired and exhausted of being accused of fucked shit.

YET ANOTHER HERO ROLLER-BLADING ON THE EXPRESSWAY, BLOCKING ROAD

A netizen shared a video of a man seen roller blading on the expressway on 8 May at about 3.11pm, along the Benjamin Sheares Bridge heading towards the MCE.

Here is what they said

Just trying to enjoy some Mamamoo on the way home but I have you ROLLERBLADING on the expressway heading into the KPE and videoing his escapade in the process. I’m so done.

Potential penalties

It is an offence to ride bicycles and electronic bikes on the expressways, persons caught riding bicycles on the expressways face a fine of $150.

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PERFECT GF TOLD NO TO PROPOSAL, SAYS DON’T NEED A RING TO PROOF LOVE

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Today I proposed to my girlfriend. We have been together for over 5 years and her parents have been pressuring us to get married (yeah, yeah, some parents are like that). I am not into marriage at all, but I love my girlfriend and if it is important for her, it is important for me too. I was nervous about the whole thing to be honest, do I want to get married? Am I doing it for the right reasons? Don’t get me wrong, I love my girlfriend more than anything, but marriage is a big step in someone’s life.

I bought her a ring, and I decided I would wait until her birthday to pop the question. I wanted that moment to be strictly her and I, it was our moment, our next step in our relationship. Man I was shaking so much when I put a knee on the floor and asked her. She laughed at me and said ”what are you even doing dude?”. She said no, but not because she doesn’t love me, far from that.

She said no because she knew all along marriage was not something I was comfortable in. She said she did not need a ring on her finger to know she loves me and want to spend the rest of her life with me. She said that the only thing that mattered was her and me, not what our families think.

We’ve returned the ring and we used the money to spoil ourselves, like the perfect immature adults we are.

Man is it even possible to love someone so much?

I prove my love to my girlfriend every single day, and she’s a very tough cookie, if she was unhappy, she would be long gone. She is not the type to ”stay in a unhealthy relationship because she loves him”. No, fuck that (forgive my language) she’d dump my ass real fast and make fun of me with her girlfriends. Never cheated on her, never disrespected her, always tell her how beautiful she is, how perfect she is, every single day. The belief that men who think like me are not committed and are going to jump the fence at some point is very outdated.

Women are not inherently into marriage and men are not inherently against it. There are other ways to show your love and appreciation for a person than getting married. For the few rotten apples in the back, yes her birthday is today, yes she is working today, I proposed this morning, she works from 4pm to 10pm, more than enough time to return a ring and spoil ourselves/spend quality time together. This is something that never changed on Reddit I see, there’s always some Negative Nancy who just. can’t. be. happy. for. other. people.

GF IS JEALOUS THAT HER MAN IS OGLING OVER KPOP GIRL GROUPS

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A girl shared how her boyfriend is obsessed with K-pop girl groups and that she is jealous and thinks that they are only good-looking and not good at singing or dancing.

Here is the story:

“My boyfriend is sort of obsessed with K-pop. He likes the popular girl groups and is low-key obsessed over a few of the members.

Although I dont like k-pop, I respect his music preference.

However, recently I saw him watching dozens of videos on youtube zooming in and validating the beauty/popularity of his bias.

Also saw him liking and saving photos with those captions e.g most beautiful women in the world.

When I found his ‘secret stash’ of k-pop, he kinda freaked out and tried explaining how those just “likes” and don’t mean anything.

I tried asking why he liked those idols to the point of saving their photos and posts and he mentioned that the main reason is that they are pretty.

I also realize that the visuals of the group aren’t exactly strong in dancing/singing so it just feels very superficial to be so obsessed over idols just for their appearance.

The fact that some of them don’t exactly have a good rep for their personality/talent, yet he chooses to ignore and defend against those claims blindly.

Now I’m starting to wonder what his true feelings are towards me and if they are just as superficial as his obsession with these idols.

Also, isn’t it weird to constantly watch idols online and admire/save photos of them while you are currently attached?”

Editor’s note: Kpop only, not like he’s doing anything wrong, what are you overreacting for?

Images source: Screengrab from Blackpink YouTube, Unsplash