A man recently shared on social media stating that his girlfriend who is a university student and one that is top of her class has a weird habit of smelling him.

Here is the story:

I know this is going to sound weird but this is getting out of hand. My girlfriend is like the hottest I ever have, can cook can clean. Allow me to drink and I can do everything I want.

But she got a weird habit, when we are at home every few minutes she would come to me and sniff my armpit.

she is like a dog sniffing the backside of other dogs.

I ignored it but I get the request every single day several times as if my armpit is a vending machine for her to buy coca-cola.

I tried smelling it but there was nothing special about it. She said that the smell makes her feels she is “having peace”. Whatever that means…

I was not really bothered about it, but one time she did it in front of my friends. We were out having dinner and she asked me to go to the toilet with her. She said she needed a quick whiff and we stopped outside the toilet to let her do it.

But one of my friends happens to exit the toilet and witness the whole thing.

He looked at me and smiled, now the whole group of friends thinks that I have body odour and she is checking if I am really smelly.

Wth… How should I tell her how to stop her doggy habit?

I have really enjoyed hanging out with this girl who I have known since the start of poly. She is gorgeous and sweet but she had a boyfriend that had very unfortunately passed away.

Early last semester. I talked to her at the bar and she gave me her number. We had texted over break and I saw her the night she arrived back in town.

We have hung out twice since then and we have hooked up one night at the bars. But when I was in her house she had 10 pictures of her previous boyfriend on the walls in her room that I could not help but stare at when she was not looking.

She also had a scrapbook on her nightstand. She did bring up his death once to explain a story but to be honest, it made me a tad uneasy to hear and I kept the conversation moving. Her friend told me she was doing better and I had nothing to have any big worries about, she seemed motivated and has a clear direction.

She said she smoked and drink a lot to help cope but has since stopped. I was hoping to maybe get some insight from you guys about what she is thinking and how I can be the best to help her if this does turn into a meaningful relationship of mine.

Here are what netizens think:

• My first decent boyfriend died when we were 20. One of the hardest things about it was that people are really uncomfortable discussing death. Try to listen. Don’t feel like you’re in competition with this guy, or that her grief lessens her feelings for you. A few weeks after he died I was back to work and basically functioning but it took at least a year before I was back to normal. Expect that certain days might be hard like his birthday and death day.

• Don’t bother too much your competing with a dead person, you will never lose

I’m dating a widow. In short I let her take things at the pace she wants to do them and don’t pretend that her late husband doesn’t exist.

Just be respectful. If she needs a moment to mourn about it let her.

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I am a uni student. I have been in a few relationships since beginning to date in JC. My last relationship was the most serious and my longest. It is honestly another story within itself, but basically we ended things because it was not a healthy relationship and long-distance wasn’t working for us. I honestly thought she was the one so I was very upset after breaking up, especially because we had broken up before but I knew that this time was official. I haven’t spoken to her since last March, and I’m glad to say I’ve long since gotten over her. I also feel like I gained a lot of maturity in terms of relationships after that.

Around the same time, I met another girl. I’m pretty involved on campus so I ended up joining a school group. She is very good friends with my friends.

To cope with my breakup I started to spend a lot of time with them and got very close to them and another of his friends. After a couple months, I realized I had caught feelings for this girl. Let’s say her name is Anna. I realized I was catching feelings and told me that they think we would be good for each other and that I should make a move. At this point, I was cautious since I was still recently out of a relationship, so I decided to keep getting to know her.

We began to hang out a lot more and eventually went on a dinner “date” even though we didn’t call it that and it was awkward since it was our first time hanging out by ourselves. But we still kept hanging out with our friends after that and agreed to hang out together again, just us two. So now it’s the beginning of last summer and we both go home for break. Thankfully we live pretty close to each other so about two weeks after going home, we hang out again. We get ice cream and talk for hours on a bench. At this point I know I really like her but don’t make a move yet because I’m not ready for a relationship. After hanging out we don’t talk much for the rest of the summer because we had very different plans and she’s not the best texter. I basically lose hope at this point.

Fast forward to august and we are back at school. We get in contact again and basically start hanging out again before school really picks up. We hangout alone several more times and I am still trying to pick up her vibe, but she is hard to read. Eventually, her friends tell me that Anna is not sure what she wants to do even though she does like me too. She had never been in a relationship before so she didn’t know what to expect. At this point, I plan on talking to her about my feelings for her for the first time actually telling her how I feel. She agrees to talk. We never end up talking because she kept pushing it back saying she was too busy with school. We stop talking but we see each other at social events but something feels different now. We stop talking for about a month. She ends up getting to know some of my friends in my organization and I eventually find out one of my younger friends likes her and I guess they start dating (this is now December of this past year). They only date for a bit before breaking things off (I’m not sure if it was bad or not) she stops coming around for a couple weeks.

Now recently she’s been around again and we’ve been texting too. I think I’m realizing I’m still into her. I’m unsure whether to pursue things since she dated my friend (that I’m not very close to) and that’s like bro-code, and also cause I’m not sure if she’s interested in me or not. For all I know, she could just see me as a friend. I know I’m young and there are many girls out there, but I think I still do like her. Any advice?

I’ve spoken before about strange goings on in my house. This one happened just two days ago.

My son came to me with something in his hand. It was a small, slim pencil that was chewed at one end. It has an upside down cross carved on it and it clearly looked old.

I asked him where he found it and he said it was in his room. I was too excited about the find to really ask him anything else.

Later that night I asked my son to show we where he found the pencil, as it dawned on me that when we moved in we’d completely cleared the unit and re-decorated.

I expected him to say he’d found it under a cupboard or something, but he said it was sitting in the middle of his room.

I’d never seen that pencil before, and can’t understand what it would be doing in the centre of the room, just a day after I’d vacuumed upstairs. No one can explain it.

Has anyone else had objects appear in the house that you can’t account for? This isn’t particularly scary, but coupled with other strange goings-on it certainly seems odd.

Netizens comments

Has this repeatedly happen?

I know my friend shared a story about how he moved into an apartment with his girlfriend at the time who has a deadly reaction to nuts.

He told me on numerous occasions how when the girl would come back from work, there’d be random walnuts randomly found around the place. One in the fridge, one time in the bed…in the bathroom, he told me she said “like are you trying to kill me?”

Very very suspicious ..

Last night we were going about our regular programming of hanging on the couch, eating snacks and watching some tv before bed.

I reached over to hold his hand and it was incredibly clammy. I thought nothing of it really.

Then he pauses the show, gets up, throws his hand out and says “come on, it’s time” slightly confused, I get up and let him lead me. He takes me to another spot and say to “take a seat” I do and then he kneels down in front of me and says

“On this night that will never happen again (22/02/2022)

At this time that will happen again (22:22pm)

Will you spend this life that will never happen again

Sharing with me this love that will never happen again”

Pulled out a ring and asked me to marry him

In my chocked up, tears steaming state, I said “yes!”

We shared so many salty kisses. It was the most beautifully intimate and thoughtful proposal I could’ve ever asked for. Σε αγαπώ πολύ Π!

For those upset by my title: the title was ambiguous for a reason. Crying doesn’t always imply sadness and if you’re upset that I tricked you or something because you wanted a sad story, you need to get over yourselves.

A netizen shared how he is planning to divorce his wife on the 5th birthday of their son.

Here is the story:

Tomorrow is my son’s fifth birthday and i am going to give divorce papers to my wife.

This pandemic has destroyed my relationship. Her company fired her senior and she was promoted. From then on, my sweet and caring wife became a demanding and volatile freak.

She became a perfectionist and would yell at every little thing which isn’t done according to her. She started spending most of her time at her office.

When i tried to communicate with her about our relationship, she involved both of our family in this mess and i was labled as being jealous of my wife’s growth and wants to sabotage her.

Only thing which have kept me sane is my little one. And by my knowing of her, she wouldn’t let me have any custody of child.

Now when my son will turn 5, I will finally file for divorce and custody. But honestly, I am still in love with my wife and maybe it can open her eyes and save our relationship.

Netizen comments

My mother gave me a letter to give my dad on the day of my high school graduation asking for a divorce. I didn’t realize how messed up that was until I became a parent.

Instead of celebrating my own accomplishment… I was worried about stuff between my parents… that was my normal.

Don’t let this day be about you.

I tried to terminate my pregnancy the entire 9 months

I never wanted kids ever, at the beginning of my relationship I specifically told my boyfriend I don’t want kids. Soon after I ended up pregnant at first I was happy but over time I started to panic and think awful things.

I scheduled an appointment to get an abortion but I was too far along and it couldn’t be done. I planned everything out I bought a small jewelry box as a casket for my baby, I wrote and rehearsed a lie about having a miscarriage.

I looked up ways to terminate a pregnancy at home, pills I could take, throwing myself down stairs. Yes I did, I even purposely fell on my stomach, laid flat on my back, starved myself.

After everything, he was still alive and perfect, after a while I stopped and went into a downward spiral and I still am. I was hoping something went wrong and he would be stillborn.

Now 4 months later I still have these thoughts I miss my old life, I miss sleeping all night, going out with friends, staying out all night I miss my old life.

I feel trapped, and I can never escape this life but I do love my son so much. When I look at his cute smile and the way he looks at me I think about all the things I did and it makes me cry, I look at him and I apologize all the time.

He is healthy and a happy baby but apart of me still wishes I went to the clinic sooner. I know what I did was wrong and I hate myself for it now. I’m sorry if this is to triggering to read but this is my confession.

My son is 19 and he’s married. He and his wife got married without telling anyone because they both feared that nobody would ” understand their love” and somehow they felt doing it like that would be extra romantic.

After my son was fired from his job in November, he and his wife begged me to let them lived with me while they ” figured everything out”.

His wife wasn’t working because she assumed they could both make it on whatever he made.

We’re now on Month 4 of this and I’m stuck with 2 teenagers who sleep until noon or 1pm, what little job hunting that does get done is done by my son, its just a lot of lying around in bed it seems like.

Any time I try and motivate them a little, I’m met by my son’s wife who brings the not-so-great argument that because he’s my son, I have to support us otherwise I’m a bad father and of course when I try and converse with her, she goes and whines to my son that I’m being mean to her.

As much as I want them out, I don’t think I can do that since neither of them have incomes.

Netizen’s comments

If my son’s wife told me I was a “bad father” and I’m required to support them, They would have thirty days notice to leave and I would enforce it by changing the locks.

This is dependency and the longer they have it on you – the harder to get rid of them and more negative impact it will have on you in general.

And my middle finger went right in his mouth

A couple of years back I was trying on a long sleeve shirt at a clothes shop.

As I was pushing my arm through one of the sleeves, and my hand popped out of the end, I suddenly realized my finger was in something warm and wet.

I looked over, and saw that I had perfectly timed my hand/sleeve exit maneuver with the passing of a staff member, and my middle finger went right in his mouth.

I apologized profusely, and we both ran off, totally embarrassed. That is all.

Netizens’ comments

• Ah yes, the critically acclaimed “BrokeBass Mountain”

• Noodling, but for humans.

• This reminds me of a cursed tiktok i had the displeasure to see…of a girl who edits pictures with her and jesus…finger licking and more….

• omg u need professional help LOL