I had already clocked out, but was still in uniform and decided to use the bathroom before I went home . So I go to the ladies room and it’s absolutely disgusting. The cleaning crew MC or something.

Anyways, I do my business and am washing my hands at the sink, when this older woman (maybe in her late forties) comes out of the stall complaining and sees me washing my hands. Our conversation went roughly like this :

Her: um, excuse me ? Can you clean the bathroom so I can use it or are you just going to stand there ??

Me: unfortunately, I have just clocked out, but I would be happy to go inform my manager so she can find someone to clean it

Her: well can’t you just clean it, you’re already here and I really need to go lao sai

Me: no. But again, I don’t mind going to tell someone about it.

Keep in mind I work here full time and had just finished a nine-hour shift of work in a hot kicthen all day. I can’t really remember everything that was said but it basically ended with me saying something along the lines of “I don’t work for free” because she kept telling me to do it and I ignored her.

She called me a lazy woman said going to complain and went to find my manager, and I’m now dreading going into work tomorrow on the off chance, that I’m going to get scolded out for not cleaning the bathroom when I was already clocked out.

Here are what netizens think:

They legally can’t force you to work off the clock, nor punish you for refusing to do so. Once you’re clocked out, you’re free, don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.

Yup, this happened to me when I was younger. People would ask me questions and I’d tell them I’m off the clock. Got reported once or twice, with a manager saying that I’m not allowed to say things like to a customer. I kindly stated that I don’t work for free and would be happy to talk to someone from the MOM instead. They left me alone after that.

I f/33 live in a rental apartment with my unemployed husband m/30 of 2 years. I work retail jobs (fancy i know) and I obviously barely can afford bills.

My Mom passed away 2 months ago, All I inherited from her was a gold bracelet. I keep this bracelet in my closet that no one – and I mean no one comes near except for me and my husband.

Days ago it went missing, It just disappeared out of the blue. I looked for it, I cried, I gave up looking and moved on. The other day I came home and found out that my husband bought two cartons of beer. I wasn’t expecting that I asked where he got the money and he said he borrowed it from a friend. but as far as I know, he only has 2 friends and both of them swore won’t lend him a dime since he never pays them back.

When I reminded him of that he just gave me a look and asked if I was hinting that he took my bracelet, pawned it, then bought the beer. I shrugged and said “well…don’t you think it’s strange that the bracelet just disappeared into the air? then 2 days later you bought so much beer?” he got mad and said that I was such a delusional b&$#@ to even hint that he might have stolen the bracelet.

He shamed me for it and said I’m just upset he’s “managing” his current financial situation and is still able to buy himself nice stuff, unlike me. We kept arguing till he took the beer and left the apartment with it. Said he was going to try it at a friend’s house and that I’d better prepare an apology for when he gets back.

I didn’t but I still think that it’s all just so suspicious to be a coincidence.

How am I in the wrong?

My f21 boyfriend M22 has recently become interested in my glasses, either by trying them on or hiding them from to time as a ‘prank’. I need my glasses all the time to do basically everything.

With my level of myopia, I am practically blind.

Days ago he wanted to try what it was like to shower while wearing glasses and took them while I was asleep. he, unfortunately, dropped them and caused them to break by stepping on them in the tub. I found out after I woke and freaked out. He tried to calm me down but I started arguing with him about touching my glasses but he said he was just doing an “experiment” and didn’t mean for them to break.

I told him to pay me for new ones but he thought that was ridiculous. we started yelling at each other and he said he had to go to school and the argument continued later. He keeps avoiding to pay and is saying it was just an accident, and that I had no right to ask him to pay me for new ones and I should stop pushing.

Here are what netizens think:

• Are u sure ur bf is 22? He sounds like 5

• I still don’t understand the “experiment”. What problem was he trying to solve? If it was solely about “What is it like to wear glasses in the shower?”

• He sounds like a child.

• I think a lot of people don’t fully appreciate that glasses are a disability aid. You are unable to see without them. And they are expensive AF. He should have never been handling your glasses to begin with, but choosing to do so meant that he was accepting responsibility for their care. He should 100% pay for them to be replaced, and then I would seriously reconsider your relationship.