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WOMAN VS RUDE FATHER-IN-LAW, “DONT WANT TO LET HIM SEE KIDS”

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WOMAN VS RUDE FATHER-IN-LAW, “DONT WANT TO LET HIM SEE KIDS”

Hi, I really hope you can post this because I need help thanks…

I don’t like my bf’s father. I’ve been together with my bf for 5 years and recently started spending more time at his place as I started running my own business and don’t have to go office anymore.

His father is entitled, rude to people including me. My bf agrees but he is a more go-with-the-flow type of person and the times he speaks up, things do not end well so I think he does not want to speak up so often but let it slide.

My main concern is what is going to happen when I have a kid. I don’t want my kid to be exposed to someone like that.

I am stuck in a moral dilemma.

I know it may sound ridiculous but I’ve been stress everytime something happens till I feel like crying because I feel very worried for the future as I really don’t want a case where I have to be forced into doing something I don’t like, for example, needing to leave my kids for a night with him for sleep over or something.. I wouldn’t know what happens.

Does any of you out there face similar issue? Can anyone advise me? Thank you very much.

What netizens say:

  • I’ve a father who is egoistic, rude and thinks he is always right. Solution? Don’t live under the same household as him. Know that you have the ability to set boundaries and how much time you spend with him.If you are going to marry your bf, you can’t avoid meeting his father. Just know that you can choose how long you want to spend with him and that includes your children too.Also, I’ve found that the “nod and agree everything that he said” method helps so much. Cuz once you agree to everything he says, after awhile, he will have nothing much to say cuz everyone agrees with what he said and there’s no avenue for any arguments to arise.As for your kids, don’t worry lah, unless they spend a copious amount of time with him, they are more likely to be influenced by you and your bf than him.You can’t change the person, but you can change how you deal with the person.All the best!
  • If you have always been having a lovely and cordial relationship with your bf I don’t really see what’s the issue here especially the ask here is pretty futuristic in my opinion.What I do recommend here is to evaluate the options especially like moving when both your are married etc. unless some circumstances that doesn’t allow both your bf and you to. However I believe you need to position strategically if there is a want for this.Overall, don’t need to stress yourself unnecessary and manage this accordingly. Do talk and work it out with your bf especially if both of you have the intentions to move to the next stage of life.
  • Is your bf close to his father? Cos my fil also cannot make it one. But lucky my Hb not close with him. So even though we stay under one roof, I have two kids btw, my kids never feel attach to my fil. In fact my son don’t really like my fil as well. So all his bad habits never really influence my son. So I think you don’t have to worry so much. Once you married and you move out, you won’t really gather with your in laws unless special occasions.

DATING AGENCY MATCHED WOMAN WITH CHRONICALLY ILL MAN, ASK HER TAKE CARE OF HIM

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DATING AGENCY MATCHED WOMAN WITH CHRONICALLY ILL MAN, ASK HER TAKE CARE OF HIM

A woman shared how she joined a dating agency, who matched her with a man in his 50s with a chronic disease and asked her if she minds taking care of him.

Here is the story:

“I’m 42F and a couple of months ago I went for profiling session via zoom from a dating agency my friend recommended.

The lady from that dating agency said it’s near impossible to match me to men around my age.

She said she has a client in his 50s with chronic diseases, and she can match me to him. She even asked me if I mind taking care of him as he has chronic diseases.

For a moment, I wondered it’s a dating agency or a maid/nurse hiring agency.

Anyway, it is true men in 40s won’t choose women around their age?”

Editor’s note: Which dating agency did you join?

MOTORCYCLIST HOGGING LANE AND PLAYING “BRAKING GAME” IN FRONT OF CAR

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MOTORCYCLIST HOGGING LANE AND PLAYING “BRAKING GAME” IN FRONT OF CAR

A netizen shared how a motorcyclist was hogging a whole lane, riding very slowly and deliberately braking in front of his car.

The incident happened on 5 January at about 2pm, at Jalan Membina.

Here is the story:

“Encountered a rider #FBK6173M who was brake checking in the middle of the road. Even coming to a complete stop at one point.

He saw us turn on the right signal and went to Turn Right before us. Wonder how long his brake checks would have lasted if we had turned right as well.

Before this incident, we were going to change lanes but he honked from behind alerting us and we stopped and gave way.

After which he stopped beside our window and we apologized.

But after the junction, he goes on to do his stunts of brake checking causing a nuisance to the whole row of cars behind, thinking that he is taking “revenge” but ending up wasting his own time for food delivery.”

MAN MARRIES LAZY WIFE FROM HANOI, EVERY DAY AT HOME SLEEP

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MAN MARRIES LAZY WIFE FROM HANOI, EVERY DAY AT HOME SLEEP

I have just been married to my wife for 7 months now. Previously we were LDR (I was in Singapore and she was in Hanoi) and we finally managed to get her to Singapore and successfully obtain her long term pass.

However, I find her extremely lazy and does not want to work while I am doing shift work busting my … for 12h and coming back home only to find she’s just sitting about watching TV and playing with her phone which I am paying the phone bill for.

She does foot some. of the bills but she does not seem to be bothered about finding a job here or settling down here and seems to be on a “hibernate” mode. We quarrel almost every week and it’s mentally tiring for me as I have nowhere to turn to as well.

Has anyone of you experienced something like this or knows someone who had faced the same thing and what should I do about this. Pls help.

Here are some response from the internet:

  • actually most viet ladies tot that they can enjoy better life in SG and assume that SG men are rich whereas SG men think that these ladies have lesser expectations, gentle & simple which is easier to manage as compared to SG ladies.No matter which country the lady is from, she is still a human being who still has her own expectations.Why not ask her what is she expecting from you?
  • Before marriage, open two eyes wide. After marriage, just close one eyes. Since you have chosen her, take care of her lor. If not, refund meh. Dont expect a person to change overnight. You need to change your mindset first. If cannot tahan, then divorce lor. Anyway, u married her for her pretty looks iziz? Then bobian la.
  • There is probably a very big gap in your expectations of her. Secondly, it is not easy for LTP holders to get a job too and they will need to get approval etc. You should probably ask her about her areas of interest and then, you can evaluate whether it is easy for her to meet the requirements of the role.

GANGSTER LIED TO POLICE ABOUT FRIEND USING WEAPON, JAILED

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GANGSTER LIED TO POLICE ABOUT FRIEND USING WEAPON, JAILED

Edmund Kam Wei Liang, 23-years-old, pleaded guilty to 4 charges including rioting and lying to the authorities and was sentenced on 7 January to 17 months and 5 weeks imprisonment, as well as a fine of $4,000.

He was a gang member and saw his friend using a knife to attack another man but lied to the police about it when he was brought to the police station for questioning.

Five more charges were considered for his sentencing, including breaching of Covid-19 rules.

What happened?

Kam was part of a gang in Singapore from 2014 to 2020 and on 10 May 2020, he was with Teo Shou Ren,29-years-old, at a garden in Jurong West when the latter attacked the victim, Teo Jia Wei, 27-years-old.

Kam didn’t join in the assault but he saw his friend using the knife to attack the victim, Kam was then arrested the following day but did not tell the police the truth.

Kam later admitted to the police that he saw Shou Ren carrying the knife behind his back at the time of the attack, and the latter was then charged with voluntarily causing hurt with a dangerous weapon.

Not the only incident

In a separate incident on 18 November 2018, Kam took part in a fight at a Thai disco, Club V5 at Ming Arcade, where he was drinking with his gang members.

One of the gang members, Tan Hong Sheng, got angry after another man bumped into him, and he challenged the man to a fight.

The friend of the man, Chionh Teck Soon, 26-years-old, stepped in to intervene and was attacked by the other gang members, who kicked and punched him in the face and body.

Tan and another gangster, Dino Teo Wei Chiang, 26-years-old, both picked up a glass bottle and hit Chionh in the head.

The fight lasted about 3 minutes and the assailants then fled the scene when they realised that the police were notified about the fight.

Chionh was sent to hospital with injuries to his head and a cut on his arm.

Some of the gangsters have already been dealt with including Tan, who was jailed for 32 months and 4 strokes of the cane.

MAN KILLED AFTER BEING TRAPPED INSIDE BURNING CAR AFTER COLLISION

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MAN KILLED AFTER BEING TRAPPED INSIDE BURNING CAR AFTER COLLISION

A male driver died after being trapped in a rental car that burst into flames following a collision with another vehicle in an open carpark.

The incident happened yesterday (7 January) at Block 42, Cassia Crescent, beside the Geylang Police Post.

The police said that they were alerted to the incident at about 3pm.

Man trapped inside rental car

According to The Straits Times, the white-coloured Mazda 3 was a rental car listed on Carousell by a rental company @i_rent_you2.

A female witness spoke to Straits Times and said that she noticed the accident via the smoke coming out of the vehicle and that the car did not catch fire at first.

The cabin of the vehicle was filled with smoke and the witness and her husband then went to check if there was anyone inside the car.

And that was when she heard movement and realised that there was someone in the car.

Tried to pull man out of burning car

The witness then asked her husband to call the police while she rushed to get help from her neighbours, and it was then that she heard an explosion and the car burst into flames.

The woman said that a police officer tried to pull the trapped man out of the burning car but was unsuccessful, and the fire lasted for about 15 to 20 minutes before the SCDF arrived and put it out at 3.40pm.

The man was pronounced dead at the scene by SCDF paramedics.

The operations manager of the car rental company then rushed to the scene after being informed of the incident by the police and he told the Straits Times that the car was rented to a man in his 30s.

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CITIGROUP GETTING RID OF ALL UNVACCINATED STAFF

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CITIGROUP GETTING RID OF ALL UNVACCINATED STAFF

New York – The headquarters of Citigroup has recently announced that all staff is required to go through mandatory vaccination or risk losing their jobs.

Staff who are not vaccinated by the end Jan 14 will be placed on unpaid leave and fired by the end of the month.

As cases in the United States are spreading at an incredible rate, actions are needed to be taken. Other financial giants in the US have allowed their unvaccinated staff to work from home and Citigroup is the first finance company to take a big move against those that are not vaccinated.

Citigroup employees have reached 90% vaccination rates and with the “verdict” made by the headquarters, the numbers are rising.

The Bank said that they are following Joe Biden’s police that companies who are working/supporting government-related contracts to be fully vaccinated.

As of Jan 6, the United States has a 7 day average of 604,832 cases, this brings their total cases to date at over 60 million cases with 858,346 fatalities and over 42 million have recovered.

GIRL TOLD BF OF 7-YEARS SHE CAN’T SEE A FUTURE WITH HIM BECAUSE HE’S POOR

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GIRL TOLD BF OF 7-YEARS SHE CAN’T SEE A FUTURE WITH HIM BECAUSE HE’S POOR

A guy shared how he has been with his current girlfriend for 7 years and when he asked her if she sees a future with him, she said “no” because he doesn’t earn enough to meet her “expectations”.

Here is the story:

“I’m together with my girlfriend since 2015. In these 7 years, I never went to her house for gatherings (even Christmas or CNY)(i only met the mum before and the dad dont even know me). Every time I ask her when am I able to meet your family then she will tell me soon or after she finishes her exams.

Last year she told me that she doesn’t know if she can see a future with me because I dont earn enough to meet her expectations. Being the youngest in the family, she feels that bringing a guy back to meet her family means telling her family I’m the one she’s gonna marry.

After I knew that, I changed to a higher-paying job but she’s still not too fond of it.

I always gave her the best, buy the things she want even it would empty my bank but I don’t know what’s wrong now. Money is important but how much is enough and how much is too little?

All I asked is to visit her family this CNY.

When I asked if she wants this relationship, she say she dont have an answer for me.

I dont want to end 7 years of relationship because of this…”

Editor’s note: If that’s the case, then she has wasted 7 years of your life. Cut your losses, leave her ASAP.

GUY WITH HERPES TELLS GF IF SHE WAS THE ONE WHO HAS IT, HE WOULD LEAVE HER

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GUY WITH HERPES TELLS GF IF SHE WAS THE ONE WHO HAS IT, HE WOULD LEAVE HER

A girl shared how her boyfriend told her that he has genital herpes (which the girl accepts him for it), but added that if she was the one who has it, he would leave her.

Here is the story:

“My boyfriend came forward to tell me he has genital herpes. As soon as he told me this news I went into complete de-escalation and comfort mode.

“We’ll figure this out.” “This isn’t your fault at all.” “Thank you for telling me.” “We will deal with this together.”

I fully accepted him and this condition because I know that genital herpes isn’t actually that big of a deal health wise. (First break out comes with a fever but mostly it’s just the blisters that are the recurring problem).

I know it’s a fairly common STI that can be treated with medication.

Later on we talk about it. And he tells me that if the roles were reversed, if I had herpes and he for sure didn’t, he wouldn’t have stayed with me.

I was deeply hurt but I had to respect his decision since it’s his health.

But still… it really hurts me that he wouldn’t do the same.

I’m just looking for someone to help me rationalize this in my head. Not looking for who’s right or who’s wrong. I just don’t want to feel upset about it anymore.”

Editor’s note: Leave. Him. Now.

GIRL SLEPT WITH CO-WORKER FOR MONEY, COULDN’T AFFORD TO PAY FOR FOOD

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GIRL SLEPT WITH CO-WORKER FOR MONEY, COULDN’T AFFORD TO PAY FOR FOOD

A girl shared how she is in a very bad financial situation and had to choose between paying her bills and food, she then slept with a man for money out of desperation.

Here is the story

“For the past few months I’ve been in an awful financial situation. I was living from salary to salary and I didn’t have time to find a second job.

I lost that job and I picked up 2 jobs that barely pay me enough. I do my best but I’m still struggling. So much that I had to choose between paying my bills and paying for food.

I was telling my coworker about it and how I hadn’t eaten a full meal in weeks and he offered to invite me over for dinner. I knew he was hitting on me but I just needed a real meal. So I agreed. I went over to his apartment alone with him and ate. He then offered me 250 dollars if I slept with him.

Being the disgusting piece of trash I am, I reluctantly agreed and experienced 25 minutes of the most degrading and demoralizing moment of my life. I feel so dirty and I’ll never be able to clean of what I did. I never thought this would be my life.

To add insult to injury he only gave me 200. He then slapped me on my behind and sent me off my way like a prostitute.”

Editor’s note: Wow, I hope you pull through, hang in there…

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