A Singaporean man recently posted on Facebook after he felt that he is losing respect from his wife due to her relying on her brother to satisfy her luxury lifestyle. It is believed that she is receiving $20,000 a month from her rich brother. She once even spend a few thousand dollars on shopping in a few hours and she said the shopping she did was therapeutic.

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I am having an upsetting issue with my marriage and I wish just to have a discussion with helpful commenters here.

I am married to a woman whose older brother has inherited their parents’ business. Let’s just say he makes a shitload of money and I don’t know how much he earns. He lives in a landed detached near Nanyang Primary School. It’s worth mentioning that that company is split 90/10 between my brother-in-law and his mother. My father-in-law is dead, never met the guy. My wife got a 3-bed condo from her dad. We live in it now.

My wife is a housewife. She became a housewife ever since we had our first child. Now we have 2 children, aged 5 and 2. I don’t make a lot of money (I’m a civil servant), and my wife is uniquely high maintenance. Although I would be lying if I didn’t also say that she has changed a lot since we met in uni. In those days, she would walk into ION, spend a couple thousand dollars in a few hours, and call it “therapeutic.” I made it very clear to her when we were dating, repeatedly I might add, that I am low SES and she was the one who agreed to still go out with me, eventually agreeing to marry me. Recently, because of the stress of raising my two children, she has started to ask for significantly more money to spend. She started going back to cafes with her friends at Orchard, something she has stopped doing for a long time, and she has started buying branded stuff. The cost of raising children has also been more expensive than I had predicted. But to be completely honest, if I reduce my savings to negligible numbers, I can support both my wife’s lifestyle and all the household expenses. I don’t make a lot but I think I am comfortably middle-income. The thing is I want to save up for retirement. I think it is my responsibility to save up for retirement because I do not believe in asking anything from my children. So for a few months, I have told my wife that I have not enough money to give her apart from what I usually give her. We didn’t use to fight. But we have fought more in the past 6 months than our entire history together combined.

I think 2-3 months ago, she started having money to spend all of a sudden. She could buy all her branded stuff, go to cafes etc. A few weeks ago, we went to Takashimaya and my son saw this $500 toy that he really wanted. I obviously told him no. I didn’t have the budget for it. He threw a tantrum and I held my ground, as I have always done. Without hesitation, my wife just came over and told him “daddy doesn’t have money, mummy buy for you.” I got so angry I just drove home, leaving them all behind.

Two days ago, I finally found out my wife has been getting money from my brother-in-law. I found out by accident because she left her iBanking session active when she was cooking. In that past 5 months alone, my brother-in-law sent her $20,000 a month. Ok, let’s just get something straight here. I don’t have a good relationship with my BIL. He is really smart and really rich. Because I always feel very insecure about how smart I am, I always try to sound smart during family dinners. But he frankly just knows so much about so many things once he starts talking everyone just listens to him explain shit. It is frustrating and I really don’t like being around him. So I can’t talk to him about leaving my family business to me because I’m sure he would just say it’s his money and he can give it whomever he wants.

I talked to my wife about the money she’s been receiving, and how we should review our household finances and she was adamant in saying that the money her brother sent to her is “her brother’s money,” earmarked for “her to spend” and I’m not allowed to have a discussion on how it constitutes an increase in our household income.

I’m not angry at the money that she’s been getting. I’m just upset that I get the sense that my wife has lost all respect for the kind of money I make, the type of work that I do, and the person I am. For example, she’d suggest a place to have dinner, like a really expensive place, and I stopped being able to use the excuse that we cannot afford it because she’d say it’s her treat. I feel like nobody respects me in the family and I don’t even know what to feel anymore.

A video was recently uploaded on the Facebook page SGRV which shows a man exiting his car before threatening a fellow driver with a metal pole.

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On 11th May 2021, 8.35am at Lake Life Condominium, the driver of #SJA4544Y stopped in the middle of 2 way traffic to wait for his customer (grab or equivalent), after he picked up, he was still using his phone and did not move to the side.

Vehicles were piling up behind so I high-beamed and honked him once, he slowly crawled onto the main road and jammed brake in the middle of the single lane, got down and started yelling. He proceeded to retrieve a pole from his car and swing it towards my vehicle in a threatening way (refer to photograph). After I drove away and stopped at the traffic light (red), he sped up and cut me in my lane over the stop line.

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An elderly man has been homeless for almost 2 years after purportedly giving his Tampines flat to his children.

These days, he spends his nights sleeping at a park near 890B Tampines.

The uncle is always in and out of jobs and most days, he doesn’t know when and where his next meal will come from.

A kind netizen has been buying food for the uncle but is unable to do it regularly, he offered the uncle $50 and is reportedly asking for others to help too.

Images source: @netiizenz on IG

Minister of Health Gan Kim Yong, said in parliament that the government is working with hotels to provide accommodations to affected Tan Tock Seng Hospital workers who are being discriminated against.

TTSH staff are allegedly being told to move out of their homes on short notice by their landlords, as well as being shunned by Grab and Taxi Drivers who refuse to pick them up after work.

The question was posed by Jurong GRC MP Tan Wu Meng, who asked what was being done to alleviate the discrimination that the healthcare workers are facing.

Gan highlighted that this was a “worrisome trend” that shouldn’t be condoned.

He also urged people to stand behind our healthcare workers from TTSH and support them.

Image source: TTSH

The Singapore Police said in a news release that a 21-year-old manw as arrested for suspected involvement in a case of voluntarily causing hurt by dangerous means.

The man allegedly picked up a sharp object along Commonwealth Avenue West on 10 May 2021, at around 11.20pm, and use the object to attack his 41-year-old father.

He then fled the scene before the police arrived.

The two were believed to have been in a dispute before the incident.

The perpetrator was then arrested within 4 hours by officers from the Clementi Police Division and Jurong Police Division, who established his identity through CCTV images and ground enquiries.

He will be charged in court later today (12 May) under Section 324 of the Penal Code.

A couple were having their meal at Gustoso Ristorante Italiano, an Italian restaurant, when the wife allegedly found a piece of glass shard inside her pasta.

She was allegedly tucking into her food when she suddenly spat out a piece of glass.

The husband said that the restaurant staff then picked up the glass shared and went back to the kitchen, as if nothing happened.

The staff then offered to take the Agli Olio off the final bill and gave the couple a $1090 gift voucher.

The husband then highlighted that the glass shard could’ve cut the tongue and organs if swallowed.

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