A Singaporean guy recently posted on how his adoption caused him to joined a gang and to fall into a life of vice.

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I am adopted. Should I search for my birth parent?

I did not know about my past till I am 12. All along, I just thought that I was born oversea while my parent (adoptive) was working there. And it was by accident that I found out I am adopted.

Thing does not go well after I known the truth. For first few years, I joined gang, get into fights, steal, argue with all my closest friend till I does not have any close friends. Deep down, I feel I was not worth of anyone time. I learnt that people leave, even birth parents. Therefore, trust does not come easy.

I did not talk about this for 11 years after I know the truth. Yes, the whole 11 years have been miserable. It was until I enter the university, some events trigger me, and I asked my parent the truth (they did not speak much except acknowledge the fact that I am adopted from orphanage, and I was given up by my birth parent).

I also shared with some of my close friends. However, it is common to receive answer like “you are lucky for the second chance”, “you are chosen one for your parent”. They meant well. But they forget the fact that adoptee is also chosen to be given up. I did not ask my parent much more as there is this “guilt/ungrateful” for asking so much.

Adoption may seem like a simple equation, child need family, family longs for a child. Adoption serves to fills the needs and longing. However, people do not understand that it only fills the gap in adoptive parent’s life but leaving a gap in the adoptee’s life. I understand not every adoptee feel this way, but that what I felt. Now, I am forming a family of my own with my wife. Yet there is always this constant feeling of incomplete. There is always this “Maybe this maybe that”. Now, I know searching for them will complete some of my questions. But what if there are truths that will cause me more harm than good?

A Singaporean boy recently posted on Facebook after he felt that his girlfriend’s wet armpits would affect his reputation when they go out together. But he did admit that he gets turned on due to her wet armpits.

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Help! My girlfriend has a wet armpit problem. Large patches of sweat often appear on her armpit area and her back is always wet. It does not help that she often likes to wear tight-fitting grey clothing or a light-colored shirt and therefore the wet patches are very obvious. And mind you – it is not that she is working out; we could be in an LT attending a lecture together and I could see wet patches forming with a musty smell.

Sometimes it is soaked to the extent that the fabric sticks to her skin. Do you think she has hyperhidrosis? How should I approach this? Frankly, I don’t find that too much of an issue (I get turned on sometimes) but I’m afraid my reputation will take a hit when I go out with her. Anybody here can give health advice? I’m in a dilemma!

An unemployed man, now 37, was jailed for 20 years and given 24 strokes of the cane after pleading guilty to two charges of an aggravated sexual assault by penetration. Three other charges, including molestation of a minor, were taken into consideration during sentencing.

The boy was 10 years old when the abuse started and he was sexually abused for a total of 4 years from 2008 to 2012. The boy only realised that his acts were wrong after watching an episode of Crimewatch.

The boy later revealed the assaults to his mother, who told the victim’s sister what her husband had done. She confronted him and he confessed to the acts and a police report was made.

For each charge of aggravated sexual assault by penetration, the man could have been jailed up to 20 years and given at least 12 strokes of the cane.

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Mercedes driver squeeze through nearly hit a guy then scratches its left side with the truck.

This is what happens when you are impatient.

Muhammad Hisyam posted the video along with the following comments on Facebook:

” LTA please do something about this. Our lives are in danger with this type of driver on the road. Doesnt mean he drive mercedes he can do what ever he wants. SMU3931D “

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Facebook user Baz Bakhtiar recently posted on the Facebook page Complaint Singapore after getting a shock of his life after receiving his electricity bill for January. The bill came up to $1,184.66 for the month of January.

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This month’s bill came, and what a shocker! To set the context we are a young couple staying in a 4-room hdb flat , we rented from hdb while waiting for our BTO.

There is only 2 of us and the usual appliances. When I called SP i was told that the meter reading was done in January and accounts for 10months since the last meter reading.

It was supposedly more than the estimate and hence its been added into this month’s bill. I had been paying my bills on time and its roughly about $100-&120 a month.

I had 2 questions:

1) did they actually think it was okay to lump 10month’s worth of electricity usage into one bill and expect the home owner to pay?

2) should they review their processes. Accordingly the bill suggests a gross underestimate of previous bills, which had been paid.

Now it just seems like ive been holding a block party every other day

On Tuesday (26 Jan), a protest was held outside the MOE headquarters at Buona Vista which led to three people getting arrested.

The protest started around 5pm and they spoke up against transphobia in Singapore’s education system. 5 individuals were seen at the scene holding up signs and flags outside the MOE building.

Police arrived at the site and took down their particulars before telling them to leave. Three protesters were subsequently arrested.

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A 40 year old man is currently on trial after molesting his friend’s wife after their wedding at their hotel room. He told the judge that he thought that he had reached home and that the woman was actually his wife. But upon squeeze hear breast, he heard an unfamiliar voice. He immediately woke the groom up and apologized for squeezing his wife’s breast.

The incident happened in 2016, October 23rd, at around 6am in the morning. He slipped his arm under the clothes of the 37 year old woman while she was sleeping and molested her. The groom actually asked the man, who was his best man, to return to their hotel room to continue drinking, the best man got drunk and slept on the hotel couch.

He told the judge thought he was sleeping on the couch, when he woke up he found himself on the bed and he actually thought that he was actually at home and the woman was actually his wife. That was when he stretched out his arm to grab her breast. It was believed that he was friends with the victim since secondary school. He then stated that he had a habit of playing with his wife’s boobs before sleeping.

A video was recently uploaded on the Facebook page SGRV which shows an ah being arguing with another man after being confronted for being extremely inconsiderate.

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doing morning wakeup call for the neighbourhood, when confronted still refuse to be considerate.

Everytime 5am rev so loud. I understand la u use full system but u park alr not moving u still rev rev wan wake whole neighborhood up for fk? Mscp leh echo v loud.

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