A man had shared a story about himself and his girlfriend on NUSWhisper Facebook Page.
According to his post, his girlfriend had approached him and asked him why he is not helping her to pay for her student loan. When clarifying with her, he found out that she expects him to use his saving to pay off her loans.
After she was rejected, she went around to tell her friends what had happened. All of them had turned against him and called him an A**hole for not helping his girlfriend.
In his post:
“Me(32) and my girlfriend(29) are living together for a year and going out for two. I make about 1.5 times the amount she makes and split all our bills including rent 60-40. She has a huge student loan in low six digits. So here’s the incident.
Yesterday, she came up to me and asked why I was not helping pay off her student loan.I asked her whether she wants me to help plan her budget or is she expecting me to help pay off her loan. she said it was the latter. I told her I am not willing to join finances as long as we are not married. But she retorted that I have more than enough in my savings and it’s unfair that I am not helping her pay off her student loan.
So, I asked her if she was expecting me to take my savings and completely pay off her loan. She nodded and I started laughing uncontrollably. She got upset and has informed most of her friends and they have been calling me an *ssh*le as I am not helping her. I would have been fine if she had asked if she could reduce her share of the bills, but for her to suggest this I don’t know how else to react. She has been giving me the silent treatment since. So NUSWhispers, AITA?”
According to a media release, a British national and his Singaporean fiancee will be charged in court today(15 Jan) for breaching Stay Home Notice (SHN) requirement.
It was reported that the man was placed on SHN in a hotel but he was caught leaving the room on three occasions on 21 Sep 2020. On the last occasion, he went to meet his fiancee who was not on SHN. It was said that his fiancee has booked another room in the same hotel to facilitate their meeting.
The man did not wear a mask when he was leaving his hotel room. Both he and his fiancee will be charged under the Temporary Measures COVID-19 Act. If convicted, they could face a jail term up to 6 months and fine up to $10,000.
A video was recently uploaded to Complaint Singapore Facebook page by Facebook user Raven Qiu showing an accident that is believed to have happened earlier today (15 Jan 2020).
According to the post, It was an accident between a car and a bicycle at the junction of Jurong West Street 61. An ambulance was also spotted on the scene. Hopefully, no one was seriously injured in the accident.
A Singaporean girl recently posted her experience with her f**k buddy after he got her pregnant and left her to get an abortion on her own. Even the boy’s parents supported him and did not want to share the cost of the abortion.
Here is the full story.
Hi all. I’ve chosen this platform to rant because I don’t think people my age would understand what I’m going through…A mutual acquaintance got me pregnant (was consensual sex) and yes do regret not using protection. I am still young and studying with no financial capability at the moment. He basically treats me like a fk toy… never ever met me before 10pm, every-time just bring me home do the deed then send me back. I had an abortion, I really regret it. I love kids. What hit me the worst is that when I asked him to pay half, he refuse. He didn’t even come down to talk to me when I called him the instance when I found out that I was pregnant. He said he got some appointment in the afternoon thus he is not free to do so. He is from a well to do family, playing his cars everyday
No I am not a leech, I just feel so bad for my mother that has to go through this all by herself. Even when she offer to talk to him, he said “tell your mother, I’m only willing to pay 50% if you go public healthcare, want go private y’all ownself foot the bill. Nothing to be sorry about, you are not even my gf. Lame, you only come to me when you need money.” I feel so hurt that he doesn’t even have the balls to own up and say sorry. He avoided me and doesn’t show an ounce of concern. My hand was shaking when I took the abortion pill. I felt so horrible, the pain was so horrible ( I’m a person with super high tolerance to period cramps but this is another god level pain).
I feel so sad that I had to kill my baby even though it’s a few weeks only… His parents know about this and they support him. Why I’m ranting this is because last night I dream about my child. It was just nice 1 month after the abortion happen. I dreamt that I was in the hospital holding him and he was smiling happily at me with his cute little face, creepily looking exactly like his father… while the nurse was angrily asking me to put down his name (which I did not come up with yet) and where is the real father and why wasn’t he here with me, my friend was accompanying me in my dream. I almost lost it when I saw my child’s face smiling happily at me and sleeping soundly. It felt so surreal. I am just trying everyday not to feel depressed.
I don’t know what to do. Everything is a mess.I can’t move on because there isn’t a closure at all. I feel so hurt by him…