A woman at Yishun has been causing major distress to her neighbor for a long time. This woman will splash urine and water at her neighbors.
For the past 2 years, neighbors living at Block 112 Yishun Ring Road have had to endure the craziest antics from a 56 year-old woman living in their block.
This isn’t really a confession but just an interesting occurrence that kept happening to me recently while playing an extremely popular mobile game that involves five players in each team.
I’m a girl and I linked my fb acct to the game, hence it shows my Facebook profile picture in the display. After a few successful games, I had quite a few team players who added me as a friend on that game.
I’m pretty cool with that, since that means that we can win more games together but recently a lot of these male “friends” started inviting me randomly to play with their own pre-formed groups of friends and many of them started flirting relentlessly with me after seeing that I’m a girl from my profile picture.
The thing is, I got a boyfriend and it’s very awkward for me, not knowing when do I pull out the “I’ve got a boyfriend” card since all I wanted to do was to play the game with good players and win. I didn’t want to come across as overly sensitive as well as none of them actually made a move or anything.
So I usually ignore their flirtings most of the time until they kept pestering me for my social media accts which I gave it to them, half knowing what would happen next.
Yes that’s right! They immediately stopped inviting me into their teams and some entire teams even left abruptly while I was inside the “virtual” gaming room. Talk about mean 🙁 It’s like I have the plague or something.
Oh wells, definitely going to remove my profile pic soon and pretend to be a guy. Maybe I would get some friends this way 🙁
I have faced with a break up a while ago. Will just like to share some of the things I have learned and vent out my bottled feelings at the same time. You may or may not agree, but I still hope it will provide some valid pointers:
1. Just so you may already know, in every relationship, fights will happen, arguments will take place. However, do not brush issues aside and do not drag them for a long time, resolve them immediately, before you all go to sleep. Let your partner knows if you have any unresolved concern and work it out together as a couple. It is irresponsible to snowball things on your own and then eventually throw them at your partner when you think the relationship is beyond repair. Things will end ugly that way, let’s not do that. I believe your partner would have his/her fair share of merits too.
2. Accept the fact that things will get habitual and become mundane after a period of time into the relationship (I guess roughly after the one year mark?). Both parties have to be prepared for that — things ain’t be gonna sweet and happy all the time. Therefore, try to inject some surprises for your partner now and then. It can be something small or something minor, it doesn’t matter. It is the thoughts and sincerity that matter, I guess?
3. Make the effort to pay attention to your partner’s needs. Don’t be a snob and simply brush away your partner’s requests. I am not referring to just sexual needs. Even simple basic things such as wanting to go to a place for a meal or trying out a new sport, attend to them. Make time, make the effort to do these activities with your partner. Don’t just brush these requests away because it may be not your main interest or you are “too busy”. You are actually neglecting your partner when you do that. Nobody likes to feel neglected.
4. It sounds obvious, but always remember to communicate. A compatible couple should find it easy to communicate about almost anything. Let your partner knows what is happening in your life, listen to his/her response, discuss things together and let your partner knows what is your final stand. Don’t just think everything on your own and keep everything to yourself, your partner may feel isolated and unappreciated. If he/she is the right one, you two should be able to
5. Everytime you feel super unhappy or pekcek, stop talking and take deep breathes. It is easy to say something nasty during a fight, but just like how you can’t pick up spilt milk, you can’t take back what you have said/typed. Learn to take a step back, give each other the space to think things through and calm down before talking things out. Also, choose your words carefully because words can hurt. A lot.
All these are difficult things to be done, but trying to mend hurt feelings is a lot harder. Don’t hurt the people you love. So that is it. Sorry for the long post. You may think this is a troll, bullshit, naïve. Maybe. I am just sharing. Feel free to comment more on it. I’ve made my mistakes and they have cost me my relationship. Maybe. I am just sharing. Feel free to comment more on it. I’ve made my mistakes and they have cost me my relationship. There isn’t one day I am not regretting about what have happened. Every day I am earnestly wishing there can be a second chance, but unfortunately, life doesn’t work that way.
So I hope there won’t be many more people following my footsteps. If you are single, relationship IS a rocket science, be prepared. If you are in a relationship, cherish your loved ones well, don’t take them for granted. I certainly still love my ex a lot, but all I can do now is hope that my ex is doing well and will continue to do better. To the one who once loved and the one I truly love, do take care of yourself. With us moving on with our lives separately, I really hope our paths will cross once again. I miss you.
I certainly still love my ex a lot, but all I can do now is hope that my ex is doing well and will continue to do better. To the one who once loved and the one I truly love, do take care of yourself. With us moving on with our lives separately, I really hope our paths will cross once again. I miss you.
I just got back frm police station Puchong Jaya… Here’s an experience to share… Pls be aware for UBER user
惊魂/历险记:
On my way driving back home, a girl (office lady look) jumping, crying, waving at me and express very worried at a road junction… So, I tot tht infront got accident n asking for help… So I stopped by my car n open window n concern…
She told me she just got robbed by UBER driver… She urgently need my hand phone to call her husband… I send her to police station n ask her husband to wait there…
She also didn’t notice front seat got another passenger… She got extortion with a knife and force to hand over her belonging… She begged for safety due pregnant, so the both suspects let her go…
Luckily she did sent the driver information to her husband before got into the suspect’s car… She always took Uber home and never tot this will happen to her…
So be aware / very careful on the environment / situation while taking UBER. Especially Raya is near…
Hey guys ! Long story cut it short !!! What I was talking about just now was about my ex gf who is 20 years old from Vietnam !!! I came into a relationship with her when she told me about some sad stories !!! I was stupid just to fall for her !!! We were together for more than 6 month and than out of a sudden she told me that she wanted to break up !!!
Today I actually Tried to patch up with her so I started talking to her and asking her friends how is she so far !!! To my surprise when I find out from her Best Friend ( can’t mention the name as I promise her to keep it private ) that she found a 37 years old man as her Boyfriend one week ago when I was still in a relationship with her !!!
Now I know what is called age is just a number !!! At first she was very good !!! But suddenly this shit happens !!! People have told me about Vietnam girls are wild and dangerous !!! At first I didn’t believe and I trust my own instinct !!! Hahaha but my own judgement failed me !!! But I am happy that the devil wing appeared early !!!
So this is the part which I grew suspicious from her words and action !!! She have my Facebook account so she change my profile picture which I was in the photo with her and she changed it to a photo which is me and my Cousin !!! So I grew suspicious and I suspect something was wrong !!! But I didnt think that shit was really happening already !!! The second thing was she told me she was busy so I didnt disturb her for the whole day !!!! Goodmorning message,merry Christmas and goodnight message I did message her and she did not reply worse still the message was seen and the next day after I wish her goodmorning text she didn’t reply and after awhile she reply and ask to break up !!!So I say sure !!!
I was quite angry at that point of time !!! She was very smart so she throw the blame to me saying that I will feel boring in the relationship because she was busy (she didn’t told me the reason but I didn’t ask her ) busy with New Boyfriend maybe !!!
She told me that she was busy typing documents !!! At the end she admitted that she have a older Boyfriend who can take care of her better !!! So I say sure !!! 6month relationship you can just treat it like 6days !!! At the back part she told me she don’t have any Boyfriend ( which is damm obvious she is lying ) her Friend admitted it already !!! She knows that she will be digging her own grave so she start to say about me spending not enough time with her !!!
The best part is I called her a lot of times why she didn’t dare to answer ? Guilty conscious !!! when I told her why I know she change my profile picture her reply was that her 37 years old Boyfriend didn’t have a Facebook !!! ( No Facebook why change my profile picture ) scared your 37 years old Boyfriend see ? Hahaha joke of the day !!!
The lucky part was I didn’t let her suck my money !!! Heard some Rumours about her that she usually do these to her EX !!! The objective of her doing it is still a question mark in my head !!!
Goodluck to her 37 years old Boyfriend !!!
KARMA KARMA KARMA WILL F**KING HIT HER OF WHAT SHE DOES TO HER EX !!!
SHARE THIS POST GUYS !!! Becareful of this Bitch !!!
One of my staff being caught by this plain cloth NEA Officers (without any identification) for SMOKING under shelter and he is fine for $200. Smoker please do not smoke anywhere under shelter.
Please help to look out for anyone trying to sell the below sets (brand new). They are stolen overnight from our shop at Mobile 8 @ Greenridge Shopping Center Jelapang.
Do feel free to call us at 62679919 or call the Police immediately if you do happen to encounter any of the stolen sets. Please help to circulate to friends and associates in the same trade to help with investigations. Thanks all. 🙏
The accident occurred at Marymount Road today afternoon.
SCDF managed to put out the fire. a 50-year-old man was injured in the incident. He suffered from burn injuries and admitted to Singapore General Hospital. This is actually the same vehicle model (Toyota Wish) that caught fire at Buona Vista last month.
All my life I have believed in the concept of insurance, and that it can help when I am have falling ill or provide relief for my children when I finally leave this world behind.
I am writing an utterly bitter experience with AIA so those of you who consider insuring yourself with them, can hopefully benefit from my unfortunate incident.
Let me share a little bit about my mother with you. She used to make coffee for a living, not rich but very thrifty; supporting the livelihood of 7 children. She loved her children and grandchildren with all her heart.
Around 15 years ago when she was finally retired, she was unfortunately diagnosed with dementia. It was extremely painful to watch my mother become a shell of strong independent woman she was. During the last few years of her life, she was immobilised and had to be sent to a nursing home for the adequate medical care she needed. She passed away in February 2017 from gangrene poisoning and pneumonia at the age of 92. It was excruciating to watch her final 8 months of struggle, but the only comfort was that she no longer needs to feel physical pain.
Around 30 years ago, my mother has signed up for 3 AIA policies in her 60s. During that time, despite insurance being largely unpopular, she wanted to leave a legacy with whatever little she had for her children. As she was illiterate and never received any education, she had trusted the agent and AIA to provide comfort for her family when she is no longer around.
When dementia took whatever consciousness was left in her in late 2000s, I took up the responsibility to maintain the routine payments of the premiums for the policies. There was no way I was going to let the legacy of my mother lapse.
With her passing, all three policies became due for payout. On top of coping with the loss of a kin, AIA’s claim process began a nightmare we cannot wake up from. All three policies had pay out terms with extremely deflated values that me and my siblings do not agree with. It might be too confusing to share all the cases here, so I shall discuss just one.
One of the policies was an AIA Financial Guardian whole life (participating) policy she purchased when she was 64 in 1988. The sum assured is $30,000, and the projected death benefit at this point (30 years by 2017) is $67,140. We have paid $48,362 in total premium over 24 years where premium was payable. For this policy, AIA is paying a death benefit of $49,731! While I understand the $67,140 is a projection, this discrepancy is close to 25%. Are those projected numbers we are presented with when we purchase insurance policies nothing but a mere inflated dream so that insurance agents can close the deal and line their pockets? AIA seemed to benefit most if this was the case.
I called up the AIA call centre in late March l hoping to get a clarification and a review. “I will look into it and call you back,” the claim department said. That was a promise that was made but never kept. Three weeks later, I called back, hoping there was an update. Nothing.
Finally on 12 April, Hendry Ang from the customer service team called back to ask me what the issues were, clearly indicating that few or no notes were passed to him. I reiterated our dissatisfaction with the payouts and he assured me he would look into the matter.
No news after a week, except a letter sent addressed to my deceased mother asking her to inform them of the change in address…
So I spoke with my siblings and we decided we should try to meet up with the AIA team to understand the situation. I got a few of my family members down to AIA customer service center to speak with the service team on 20 April.
The same Hendry whom I spoke to sat down and asked us, “So, what is the issue with the payout terms that we are unhappy with?” I had thought he was already looking into the issues, but I guess that was wishful thinking on my side. Our problem was but a hot potato passed around from department to department.
He was unable to offer a proper justification, and was just blindly reading off the policy. We were not placated, and he got us to wait for 45 minutes as he escalated the case to his manager, Melissa Liew. When Melissa came into the meeting room, no one would have expected she came in with absolutely no idea what was discussed before. She started with a whisper to Hendry, “So, what is the issue?”
The 2-hour meeting with them yielded nothing and Hendry was stuck with the first policy, being clueless about the remaining two my mother had bought.
All we got from the session were answering-machine responses like ‘we will reflect your requests to our top management’ and ‘we are still investigating.’ In the end, we accepted that they could get back to us after two weeks for a soulful resolution.
Two weeks later. Nothing.
Three and a half weeks later, I received letters in my mailbox stating that AIA will not accede to the request and they have proposed all proceeds in accordance with the policy terms. Claiming that since my mother has signed and added her thumbprint to the policies indicated that she understood the terms, and that since we mentioned no one was around her when she signed these policies, she must have understood the policies. “Since none of you were around when she signed the policies, we cannot ascertain for what reasons she bought the policies and what they are for.” and “The claims are paid in accordance with the terms and conditions of the policy contract.”
The pain of losing my mother is still fresh and AIA is not making it easier to cope. Saving up every cent she earned and entrusting them to AIA only to have her legacy eroded.
Since AIA has given their ultimatum here, my siblings and I are left stranded helpless. I do not know what else I can do to have a proper review done. We understand insurance is not an investment tool, but we need a fair claim amount that was promised to her.
I have certainly lost faith in insurance and definitely AIA.