A marriage is considered sacred for many but sometimes that are some unforgivable mistakes between a couple.
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A woman recently shared a story thinking if she should take her cheating husband back.
Here are what netizens think:
If cheating husband comes back, yay or nay?
Got a divorce 5 years ago. Together we have a 3yo child when he left. Ex husband cheated and left for another woman.
Just want hear from the readers here, if he comes back, should I forgive him and believe he has made his choice and will stick with me or forget about his guy who ditched me and left me to pick up the pieces myself?
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For context, I am still very much in love with him, miss him often and still keep our photos.
What will you do?
Here are what netizens think:
- You deserve better .What’s past is in the past.There’s a saying never lick your spit back up
- Has he said he wants to come back or are you just speculating? I think you need to work on yourself first because after 5 years you have not moved on. Love yourself and believe you deserve better and you won’t accept anything less. Then if he wants to come back, you won’t even want him coz you’ll know you deserve better. Or if you do accept him back, your own conditions and expectations will be higher because that is what you know you deserve. Understand? Break your own cycle of emotional dependence and pinning for someone who does not deserve another minute of your energy or love. The only contact you should have with him is because of your child to have a relationship with his/her father. Pack up those old photos and find your happiness somewhere else or with someone who will love and commit to you 100%….if that actually turns out to be him again, that’s fine, as long as you won’t accept anything less for yourself ever again.
- No. You’ve made so much progress surviving without him in the past 5 years. Why waste it? You spent past 5 years missing him a little less each day, picking up the pieces, recovering and making yourself whole again each day. 1825 days of effort and healing don’t throw it down the drain.I can understand not being able to let go initially but right now? After coming so far?
- History will repeat itself. Don’t waste your time for such man. Now, he has yet to find a right woman to flirt again.It is hard for leopard to change its spots.Just forget him and move on, and spend quality time with your child.