Troubled by ex-colleague
I had a colleague (B) whom I got to know in 2017, I have also met and spoken with his wife in his presence. We met in the arcade.
B reminded me of my late Grandpa
This colleague, B, resembled my late grandpa in many ways.. and I was drawn to him because of this reason. I saw my grandpa in him.
Missing my grandpa a lot, it was inevitable that I tried to talk to B whenever I had the chance to. Why? Just because he looked at me just like how my grandpa would look at me, and when he smiled at me, it was as if my grandpa was smiling at me again..
My other colleague back then, lets just call him H, knew that I was working closely with B on an assignment (H’s a friend of B and his wife, I knew about their relation because we had common friends whom told me about it).
For some reason, H didn’t like that I’m close with B
H wasn’t very happy about it (that me & B working on the same assignment), for what reason I really dunno.. and H suggested that I work with H instead.
However, after knowing more about H’s interest (which wasn’t quite aligned with mine), I kindly declined his suggestions to work together but we remained acquaintances.
Now, I dunno for what reason, H is showing unhappiness towards me and told my other friends things which he imagined about.
He even did something probably without B’s wife knowing it, and is he even doing the right thing? I really don’t know.
Please tell me how to stop H from throwing tantrum at things which he shouldn’t be worried about in the first place.
And please do not create further rumors about B and me, my bf will not like it.