My wife doesn’t remember us f-ing each other and I’m very weirded out by it.
I (41m) am currently going through major issues and am likely about to be divorced from my wife (33f). We’ve been having issues for a while stemming from her admission a couple years ago that she was not attracted to me.
Since that happened I can count on one hand the amount of times we’ve been together. We stayed together for logistical reasons and for our daughter.
We are best friends and not fighting or anything. Aside from the intimacy stuff, things were good. I just accepted things and surprisingly wasn’t that affected by it.
A couple weeks ago I was laying in bed and she came in the room and snuggled up to me and started grinding on my leg and such.
Again, this hadn’t happened in a long time and since finding out about how she felt, I’ve not wanted to make her uncomfortable so I don’t even ask for anything.
This went on for about 5 minutes until I decided to at least try and kiss her. We ended up having….a good session and I was kinda blown away by it all.
I didn’t want to bring it up the next day for some reason, I just assumed it was her throwing me a bone or something and I wasn’t about to complain.
Here’s where it gets odd. Just a few days ago there was some things that went down and now it looks like the end.
During our talks I asked what the incident was about and….she didn’t remember it happening the way it did. She claims I came on to her and made the first moves and such.
It’s neither here nor there on this. Getting to the bottom of things isn’t going to say my marriage. I’m honestly confused and kind of worried about her because I am 1000% certain I’m correct.
Can anybody offer insight into what might have happened?