Hello, so I’ve been dating a guy for about 5 months now, we even called ourselves bf and gf, we only just recently slept together last weekend then my world came crashing down when I just happened to find out he was married ..
he told me had two children but never mentioned his marriage. I confronted him, of course he said the normal things how he truly loves and cares about me and so on.
I feel so stupid and embarrassed even tho I had no idea. I slept with him under the guise that I was his gf, we went out in public on dates plenty of times, he showed me affection kissing me and being all over me I honestly thought this man was my bf.
Of course I know it has to end I’m not stupid, but I’m soo hurt and sad about this and I have no other support to go to simply because I’m embarrassed to even open up to anyone about this.
We did plenty of other things so me thinking he just wanted to get in my pahnts wasn’t in my mind at all. He claimed I was more than being physical to him and that he cares about me….
I found out from lurking on Facebook but somehow he claims to think someone he knows told me which isn’t true but I didn’t tell him.
I told him I couldn’t continue with a man that was married and even threatened to tell his wife and he didn’t care not one bit.
I grew up in a home where my father constantly cheated on his wife so it’s personal for me because as a child I know how that takes the dads energy a way from his children.
I feel so bad about myself and kind of worthless honestly