BF (29M) wants to go to his BFF’s birthday trip overseas. She was his FWB.
I told him that he can do whatever he wants. I can’t accept it and will walk away. He got so upset, telling me why I can’t accept him going to this trip.
I already accept them hanging out together occasionally. But for me, him going on trip overseas with a group of friends (some are singles) for this girl who was his FWB for 6 months, is simply too much.
They will stay in the same Airbnb drinking alcohol and going out partying.
I have this no ex no fwb rule for any guy I dated. I made this time exception for him as i love him deeply and he seems so too.
He also kept trying to prove that there is nothing between them. However he knows I would get hurt when I hear about this trip, and yet he still accepted her invitation, without inviting me.
I feel disrespected and it seems my bf just wants to do whatever he wants, like a single man. He denied it and said it’s simple in his mind that she is his best friend so he wants to go.
I hate this feeling that he tries to make me feel guilty. What would you respond when you hear him saying, ‘if you give me trust, it should be a total trust’?