My partner told me “I’m not even that pretty” and I can’t get over it.
A while ago, during an argument, my partner said “you’re not even that pretty, I don’t even know why….” And then stopped what he was saying.
(I want to say this now, because I know the comments will want a reason for him saying it. No, I wasn’t saying anything nasty to him. We where arguing over me needing to go to work.)
he told me after that he didn’t mean what he said and he only said it because he thought he was going to leave me and he needed to say someone to ruin it all.
My partner has been the only person to ever make me feel good about myself. We’ve been together 6 years and he always compliments me.
Needless to say, his words hurt. I can’t look in the mirror. I can’t eat properly and I just cry at night thinking he doesn’t think I’m beautiful anymore. I thought I could forget but I can’t.
As much as people want me to leave, this whole argument almost caused that. It was bad. He said and did things that was so scary to me.
But I really want to try. I told him I need things to change and we came to a common ground. I don’t wanna give up and an amazing relationship with my best friend just because he has outburst. I’m sorry