telling my boyfriend I’ll shave my legs if he shaves his?
I know this post sounds super petty, but this is the most ridiculous fight I’ve had with my boyfriend, and unfortunately it’s where we’re at.
I [F28] have never shaved in my life. I think it’s up to the person regardless, but I’ve also just never really had a lot of hair.
My boyfriend recently stayed over and asked to borrow a razor. Since I don’t shave, I didn’t have one on hand, and apparently that grossed him out.
He told me that it was unhygienic to not shave and that it traps a lot of dirt inside and we argued back and forth about the issue when I finally told him that I’d only start shaving my legs if he shaved his first.
He called me immature and petty, whereas I think he’s being super fixated on this weird thing.
It honestly wouldn’t really bother me to shave, but I’m just more irked at his statements where he basically called me dirty. I was serious though: I’ll shave whenever he shaves too.
We’re at an impasse but I wonder if I am being a little too petty about the whole thing.