My (18 F) BF’s (17 M) Girl best friend was snuggling him (19 F) during a movie
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We all went to go watch a movie together and after the movie ended his friend has fallen asleep on his shoulder with her hands wrapped around his arm.
She woke up and was like “oh shit sorry, I didn’t realize I fell asleep” Which I have a hard time believing.
all he said was “no worries zoe, it’s all good haha”
He didn’t even try to wake her up , just let her fall asleep.
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Is this a red flag ?
Netizens’ comments
- Maybe not red, but probably at least yellow. Just keep an eye on it, and maybe have a discussion with him about what your boundaries are in a relationship. If he reacts poorly that would probably be your red flag.
- I think it’s a yellow flag, but depending on if there has been other behavior it could be a red flag.
She might like him or be jealous of the relationship you have with him. He might like the idea of you being jealous. If I give him the benefit of the doubt it would be a really awkward position to be in, and you guys are all pretty young. He might not know how to handle that kind of stuff. - Yeah that’s weird. You don’t wrap your arm around a friend. Also, my boyfriend (30M) told me (35F) the only girl friends he has are the ones he wants to have sex with which is why he has zero girl friends. He says guys can’t just be friends with a girl.. it’s also my personal experience that literally all my guy friends tried to get with me at some point or another. So I agree with my boyfriend.