A woman shared how she was play fighting and wrestling with her boyfriend on the bed when she suddenly started crying and her boyfriend then laughed at her.
here is the story
My boyfriend laughed at me while I was crying.
My BF (35m) and I (25f) have been together for 3 years. We often rough house with each other. Like fake wrestling and stuff. Sometimes there’s light choking but never anything like real choking.
Last night we were wrestling on the bed and he choked me but out of nowhere I started to cry. I have no idea why.
I wasn’t scared or anything it just happened out of nowhere and he didn’t do it any differently than usual.
While I was having a genuine reaction he was laughing at me the whole time. I told him how mad I was he was laughing at me.
His words were I’m not going to entertain that kind of insane behavior. I feel like a normal person would ask what happened or if I was OK. They wouldn’t laugh at me and invalidate my feelings.
I often feel like my feelings are invalidated. It’s something I’d like to fix but I’m not sure that’s possible. This is mostly just a rant because I don’t have anyone I can talk to.