A Singaporean girl recently posted on Facebook to voice her distrust in guys after stating that she grew up in a very unhappy family. She said that she can’t trust any guys as her dad had multiple affairs with many women.
Here is the full story.
This is wrong and I can’t stop…I grew up in a very unhappy family. My dad is seldom at home and he had multiple affairs with different women. When I was young, my mom even showed me a love letter written by my dad’s lover. Ever since then I can’t trust any guy. I feel like they are just going to be like my dad, flirtatious and Undependable. My mom insisted that they loved each other deeply when they were younger which made me feel even more apprehensive towards the opposite gender.
I finally met a guy I really really like. But I feel so insecure. I am worried that he is going to be like my dad. Even the smallest interaction with his colleague drives me mad with jealousy. Deep down I know it’s just friendly chat and nothing much. But I ended up giving him cold shoulder for several days. I feel so miserable and guilty for giving him such a hard time. I really want to stop but the fear of abandonment is so deeply rooted within me I can’t control the way I feel. I know sooner or later my behavior is going to drive him away and I will be even more miserable than before.