How do you know if it’s time to stop trying for a girl?
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I like this girl, and have been trying to find ways to tell her that I feel something. She responds positively to my compliments and we have normal conversations. I find opportunities to offer her that extra ticket to an event that I want to give her, but so far twice she said she was busy.
How to sense if its an indication of disinterest or if she genuinely is busy and actually did not think much about my offer?
Here are what netizens think:
- You already got the answer to the question. Let me tell you, if someone is interested in you, you don’t have to try so hard and you will get their consent to go out. Learn to read all these signs so you won’t bang your head against the wall. Why not work on yourself and shine and you will see the result.
- Why not wait for the ladies to express interest in you instead? Much less effort required.
- Best way is to stop trying. Then a few days later will have a new post saying:” this boy who was chasing me suddenly stopped trying……”
- Go meet other girls and let her know about it. Girl generally will only take notice in the face of competition. If she doesn’t, mean you 100% no chance.
- [1] she is genuinely busy [2] she doesn’t give af [3] try other women [4] stop writing in for silly advice to simple problems
- If a girl is interested in you, she will find time for you. No one will waste time on unimportant stuff
- She’s rejecting you gently and you still don’t know. If she likes you she would have made an effort to spend time alone with you.
- Twice rejected – means not interested. Usually if the girl reciprocates, she will not turn down an invitation from the guy who took the initiative. Move on loh.