I (30m) really need to get this off my chest. Recently divorced. I’m too embarrassed to tell my friends about it but I need to tell someone. I hooked up with an escort. She was incredible. She looked like an IG model. It was unreal.
I’ve been single for about 6 months now. I’ve had a couple hook ups here and there from dating apps, but they weren’t that great.
I don’t think I’m bad looking, but my confidence has never been so low since my ex wife cheated on me. It’s hard for me to talk to girls at bars/in public. I’m pretty shy and introverted and haven’t been single in a very long time.
I was having a pretty hard time after the divorce, but after the escort experience, I felt so much better. It really helped me move on. I know that sounds weird but oh well. My ex wife can go f herself.
Netizens’ comments
- You do you, mental health is important. I’d recommend to try not to make it be an addiction and something that would inhibit future emotional growth and connection. Otherwise have fun, and maybe consider a trip overseas
- Hey man, as long as you’re being safe, have a field day. If it helps you mentally, do it again.