Age matters so much?!
I have always been feeling inferior my whole life and have low confidence in my looks. It’s just worsen now at I approach mid thirties. I wanted to work on my look now but I was told it’s a waste of my money and time by my close friends and families. They think I should have started in my twenties and now I should just focus on saving for my retirement and family if I ever wanted one.
I am actually still very immature on the inside, I still chase kpop idols about half my age, laugh and enjoyed their silly jokes. I want to attend their concerts and fan sign if any. Again I was told by both fans (i was in a fan chat without revealing my age) and friends that older fans (especially fans older than the eldest member of the kpop group) shouldn’t attend fan signs. They said it’s just weird and creepy!? Why am I creepy just because I am older?
Here are what netizens think:
- age matters if you want to learn driving, have S, smoke or drink alcohol, buy a bto as single occupant… otherwise, no, age doesn’t matter much. Money matters more….Make more money and 你讲话 can louder abit
- Just do what makes u happy. Attend those fan signs if u wanna and F care those younger fans.
- Dont listen to people if u want to be n feel happy.
- Actually “working on your looks” also means working on your health. If you eat properly, exercise regularly, you have everything to gain and nothing to lose.
- Carry on working on your looks it’s never too late. But of coz cannot sacrifice family for it. Go to fan meets all u want.
- If you are of their age and noticing someone ten years older being similar to you, will you feel weirded out?