Men who can’t afford a woman but want the sky.
I don’t have anything against men who don’t earn much, have a bad character, shallow mindset with tiny D energy. But for goodness sake, find a woman who matches you, accepts you and will give in your man child crap behavior. Basically you just want a woman to take over your mother’s role but with additional bed benefits only. I’m sure there will be some willing women even though some may grumble about it years later.
Leave the high quality valued women alone. No one in their right mind will reject a promotion just because your ego can’t accept that she can earn more than you! If you can’t accept a woman has grown to become more successful than you career wise, don’t date high valued women in the first place!
I dated an ass for a few months and he had the audacity to demand that I reject my promotion because it would mean that my income would be significantly higher than him. He disguised the talk that he didn’t want us to spend less time together due to my new management role but I can sense his jealousy from miles away. The suggestion was not out of love or concern for us. Next!
Here are what netizens think:
- What a Karen. I’m outa wherever she is if I were the unfortunate man.
- The same type of Karen who complain when there is only handicap lots left
- What I agree with – that your partner should give you his blessings, promotion or not. As for whether that promotion is good for you or not, no one has the right to decide except you. Maybe the money comes with with more job responsibilities, but also means more learning opportunities? Maybe it is something OP enjoys doing? Only OP will know. What I disagree with. You tagging yourself with a high valuation. You mean if one day you get demoted, force to draw a lower salary, you are low value liao?
- These are men who want the top notch at very low effort. That’s why you see men negging at beautiful women trying to lower her self esteem make her doubt herself (her beauty and capability) so that you would give in to him. Find a partner who does not get jealous/belittle you/see you as competition of your achievement instead he will support and rara you all the way ..