I invested 2 years my life in the girl, took the risk to confess to the person who was already in a relationship due to the girl constantly probing me on whether I liked her, got rejected after giving my answer, she requested to continue to be friends.
I agreed. Still continues to go out with the close friend group and one on one sessions with the girl.It has been 8 months since the confession…now and then I would feel trapped and burdened….as I would need to keep silent and display a smile when going out with the group.
Sometimes I will feel affected…when the girl talks about her bf in a group setting to my other friends as nothing happened, where it would cause me to feel that I would want to leave the group so I do not have to face all this anymore…
However, I would suppress all these thoughts…as I cherish this group of friends and constantly remind myself to outweigh keeping this friendship vs being together with the girl.
Would you give up a close friend group, because you missed a shot with someone you liked in the group and the person is already attached?
Here is what other netizens think:
I think this girl is playing you. Move on with your life and take whatever courses to upgrade yourself to be better whether in career or mindset. Also continue to go for group outing. Make yourself successful and show the girl what she is missing out. But when she really comes back for you, hold your fort to reject her like a slap in her face. And get another good girl to share your life with.
Love is about letting go as well. If it takes too much toll in your heart, and if your friends are really close as you said, you can have a honest chat with them to hang out without her, but at a less meetup frequency. Otherwise just be open to meeting new friends. All the best.