My old best friend is getting divorced. She said she wants to give me a chance after she settles down, but she has a child, I don’t feel the same way about her anymore.
she and I had some history together, she Basically led me on and got pregnant by another man and they got married very quickly.
Things happened between us; I slept with her a while ago after she got married and after that, I parted ways with her. I moved house to Pasir Ris which is far from her (i moved away like a month and a half ago). I have been working on myself, and she didn’t contact me for a while until she texted me recently.
She asked to talk in person. I refused and she said it was important because she was getting divorced. I went to talk with her and she said she was getting a divorce and she asked me if we could give things a try after all the legal stuff was done.
A part of me still cares for her, but the other part of me moved on. I am confused on my feelings and I don’t know if I can actually trust her. How do you guys think I should move on forward with her? Are things even worth giving it a chance?
Here are what netizen thinks:
There’s plenty of other women out there. Don’t give her another chance. Plus, she cheated on her husband with you, what makes you think she won’t cheat on you.
Not to be disrespectful, but who cares? SHE’S the one who cheated on HER husband. Shes the one seeking the next boyfriend before her divorce goes through. Why is she allowed to question OPs integrity when he has done nothing wrong. Ya, he slept with a married woman. Shame on him.
You don’t question the integrity of someone who sleeps with a married woman? It takes two people to have an affair. She couldn’t do it all by herself. Yes, she is a little more in the wrong because she vowed to remain faithful to her husband
Slept with a married woman once when I was younger. Was 100% my fault too. I could’ve not done it and it was morally wrong.