I am 27(M) and she is 22(F). We dated for three years and recently broke up mid last year but remained as friends.
While I still harbour feelings for her, she has already moved on and started dating other guys. It was taking an emotional toll on me just to be friends with her, till I told her we can’t be friends anymore for the time being until I have moved on. She agreed and we stopped all communication.
She suddenly messaged me one day asking if I’m willing to be her sugar daddy. She is a struggling student coming from a broken family. She really does not have much money each month. It barely covers her rent.
I am trying to move on, having this kind of relationship is definitely counter productive. I asked her, “what would you do if I say No?” Her reply was to find someone else.
I asked her again, “are you sure you want to exchange your body for money?” Her answer was “With my studies, I really can’t work, so my answer is Yes”.
I loved her so much. I even planned to marry her after she graduated. But to be hit with such a surprise is a bit tough and hard to swallow. The girl you loved was willing to sell her body for money.
I really don’t know what to do. To say Yes is stupid. To say No hurts me.
Here are what netizens think:
- Really sad and disappointing to see young girls resorting to prostitution to earn money. Better to avoid her, you don’t know who’s she’s been with.
- Whats her number? My friend wants to talk some sense into her
- I can’t judge her for what she chooses to do as she’s probably in a tight spot but worth considering if she’s been engaged with others for such services.You’ve got a lot more to lose since she’s not into you.
- Don’t do it bro, I know you probably want to do it to “protect” her and I know you still have feelings for her. But it will crush you, to her sex is a means to an end, to you there are feelings attached. You only stand to lose in this situation.She’s an adult, let her make her decisions and let her bear the consequences. You owe her nothing, time to focus on yourself.