Should I tell her that he has been cheating on her before they even got officially together?
I was in a relationship with A for 2 years before I ended it. I ended the relationship because I felt that we were not compatible with me wanting to be with him all the time and him wanting personal space.
We reconnected about a year later because he was moving to Ang Mo Kio and wanted to invite me over to his house to “say goodbye to the house”. That’s when we both realised we still had feelings for each other.
Despite knowing how we feel towards each other, we still ended up in relationships with other people. However we are still hooking up with each other. He would sneak over to my place late at night, or we would go out to have dinner together. (Would be very easy to trace if she checked his Grab)
It has been about 1 and a half years now of sneaking around. And a few days ago he told me that he applied for BTO with his girlfriend (which failed). But I feel like she needs to know who she is marrying.
I asked him before if he plans to still mess around with me if he was married to her and he said probably. He told me that I am his favourite person and that he loves me the most, but being with her is easier.
So should I tell her?
Here are what netizens think:
- Confessions like this make me think that sometimes it’s really not so bad for a person, man or woman, to be single after all.
- Of course yes!!!! He insulted you by calling you ‘difficult to be in love with’!! Take your revenge!!!
- LOL u just wanna ruin his relationship right. Dont act innocent and righteous la. U said both of you are in relationships with others. Then why not you confess to your bf first leh