Our son told us that he likes men two years ago, I always knew because a mother always knows but my husband has had a hard time since my son’s coming out
He was raised in an old-fashioned way and has extreme views about what a man should be and how a man is supposed to be, since my son came out to us he has giving him a hard time.
To this day he still refuses to believe my son is the way he is, he can’t believe it and thinks that my son is doing it because somehow he is resentful towards him
It has been so difficult with him, he is always berating our son, making snark comments, homophobic jokes, and he has started to drink again (before we started to date he was an alcoholic) he even throw my son’s poetry books because he thinks that poetry is feminine.
Last week while my son was alone at home, my husband came by with a girl dressed in a provocative way, he told my son that maybe he said he likes men because he has never been with a woman or didn’t know what to do with one and that girl was going to teach him
He left and left them locked and told my son that when he came back he wanted proof that he was a man
The girl told my son that it wasn’t any problem with like men and that a lot of fathers hired her to sleep with their sons. She was happy to be paid by doing nothing
My son felt humiliated, ashamed and that his privacy had been violated, he called me and I went to take him and throw that girl out
We are staying with friends (we left our house) because my husband disgusts me, after what he did I feel repulsed and I can’t stand him
I’m going to divorce him because this last years have been an inferno at home with him and I think I can’t forgive him for what he did