A netizen shared how her fiance is very upset about his close female friend RSVP-ing “NO” to their wedding and her alarm bells are ringing.
Here is the story
Long story short, my fiance and I are getting married later this year and one of his long-time friends RSVP’d no to our wedding. He has been upset for a week since he got the news.
This “friend” has always rung alarm bells to me and I really don’t trust her. When we first started dating, she used to make “jokes” about him dating me for money (my family is very wealthy). It also doesn’t help that he had a thing for her when they were younger, but never had a chance to get together as she was always in a relationship. I believe she kept him around for attention but obviously, there’s no actual evidence for this and whenever I brought it up to my fiance in the past he has stopped short of calling me crazy.
His friend is also exceptionally beautiful whereas I’m on the bigger side. In the past whenever we’ve hung out as the three of us, she has asked to go to the beach, which is weird because there are a million other things to do in our city and it kind of comes off like she just wants to get her clothes off in front of him so he can compare her body to mine. Whenever they hang out alone, she’ll have him over for dinner at her place or they go to a restaurant.
My fiance’s reaction has given me major alarm bells. The irritability, the sadness, it all feels hyperbolic considering they aren’t THAT close and the most important thing is our wedding, not whether or not she can come. He suggested inviting her to my bachelorette to ‘make her feel more welcome” and obviously I said no. Whenever I try to talk to him about his mood since the news, he just tells me he doesn’t want to talk about it.
Should I be worried? Our wedding is a few months away and now i’m fearing he has some sort of emotional entanglement with her.