FIANCEE CAUGHT HAVING AFFAIR WITH COLLEAGUE, CONFRONTED BUT STILL CONTINUES

Need advice on fiancee

Need some advise please!

Have been in a rs with my fiancee for the past 7 years.

We are intending to get married next year but somehow felt like we drifted in the last couple of months after she changed job.

She has been busy on most nights and will be out with her colleagues till late (up to 3am). When we are together, she is always tired or on her handphone.

Have tried sounding her off and preparing little surprises but to no avail.

The inevitable came when chanced upon her phone and realised that she has an affair with her colleague who is married with kids.

This has been going on for months and they did unimaginable stuff which totally broke me.

Decided to confront her two weeks ago and she apologised and promised to salvage our rs. Point is she is still in cordial contact with the guy as they are colleagues and she fears backlash.

So confused now and uneasy. What should I do?

Thanks in advance.

Here are what netizens think:

• Stop it. Ask yourself what’s your worth. Right now the married dude is better than you in her eyes. Are you going to live with this for the rest of your life with her? Think, evaluate, action.

• So if you didn’t catch her she would still be doing it? When she’s with you she’s on her phone instead of doing unimaginable stuff with you? Bro, she’s not into you anymore. See this as a blessing that she probably won’t make a faithful wife if you get married and now you have a good excuse (if you really needed one) to break it off. Is it really so hard to see that you deserve better?

• The apology was just a reflex action. Nature always wins. Sooner or later she will cheat again. At least if you decide to breakup, you will walk tall. So dont go there. Dont be like the other guys who dont have a backbone enough and end up miserable. A guy should have a clear head and peace of mind and most importantly his conviction.

• If you can support her financially when married, give her the ultimatum to resesign immediately. If she does not submit her resignation letter tdy or tmr, move on.