I’m (F, 26) incredibly attracted to chubby / fat guys despite being a health-nut myself
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So i just wanted to vent a little here and write my thoughts down.
All my life Ive been incredibly attracted to chubby / fat guys, i’m struggling with my thoughts about it because im a bit of a health-nut myself and the rational part of my brain is telling me to stop being attracted to it bc its unhealthy.
I also have a very warped relationship with my own self image and weight, taking it to the extreme in the sense of wanting control over food.
So I feel split between both sides on this. Sorry for the ramble.
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Netizens’ comments
- We appreciate you and your love for us.
- As a chubby guy I just want to say… its awesome girls like you exist , we don’t usually get any love !!!
- (OP) Thank you so much. There’s definitely a double standard imo. Please remember there’s definitely girls like me who think you’re hot as hell
- Girl love that belly and get over it. It’s okay. Who cares what anybody thinks. You still do you health wise and get you some loving.
- I married a chubby fat guy! Now that “dad bods” are considered hot he’s had several coworkers who have tried to date him he’s told them all that he’s happily married, he also wonders where all these women were when he was single. Chubby fat guys make wonderful husband’s I’ve been married for 11 wonderful years!
- I’m married to a chubby fat guy and it’s great. He’s like a pillow lol
- Exactly! We’re just the best of both worlds.. both strong and cuddly. Plus, you can eat whatever you want and we wouldn’t judge you.
- Personally, and my female friends & work colleagues tend to agree- in general we don’t like men skinnier than us. If they’re bigger, it makes us look smaller
- My very first boyfriend was a heavy guy. I loved him with all of my heart, and even though things didn’t work out, to this day, 40 years later, I am still drawn to heavier guys. My husband wasn’t a heavy guy when we met and married, but as he’s gotten older and heavier, I am more and more attracted to him because of his added weight.