i am flat-chested and i hate myself for it.
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i (21f) don‘t know why i have such stupid beliefs about my own body, because i despise and do not believe in beauty standards, but my chest size triggers my body dysmorphia for some reason.
big chests are the ultimate female body part, they look and feel cute. a small waist or a nicely shaped butt is nothing special imo, i mean, even men can have these features.
i look extremely deformed, it‘s as if my body has completely ignored my chest and just focused on other parts.
Netizens’ comments
- Hi, OP! I get what you are feeling too. I (23F) am also flat-chested (my chest is as flat as the desert) and I had trouble with self confidence for years too. But now, I am okay with it. Give yourself some time to love yourself and your body, it might sound hard, but you will get around. People will also love you for who you are. I am glad that my partner does so. He said that me being flat chested makes him close to my heart when he hugs me
- I know it’s hard now, but things will get better! They’re meant to attract, but they’re not the end all be all of attraction! Everyone has different tastes! If it really really bothers you, then plastic surgery is usually an option?
- I actually like flat chests haha, so there must be more people like me, like seriously
- Bewbs are bewbs my dudette, big, medium, small, we love them all the same.
You mustn’t look only at downsides. Think of the back pain that big bewbs might’ve caused you ahahah
Also butts are great, don’t downplay them. I can slap a butt, but slapping a bewb would be a terrible idea.
But without jokes, I hope you are able to accept that part of your body, there are many people out there that prefer them, or just don’t care, don’t think of yourself as less because of your chest size.