Is this the dating culture in SG?
I recently just moved to a foreign country all by myself. So I decided to make new friends through dating apps, don’t judge. I’ve been single for the past 2 years and also been looking to meet someone who can potentially be my significant others.
Anyways, I matched with this dude 29(M). We vibes straight off the bat, his level of craziness matches with mine.
I enjoy chatting with this person and 1 week in of texting, we decided to meet in person. So he find me after work, we were just basically warming up to each other, went for dinner before everything closes and he walked me home (we literally walk 30min back home).
All was okay, not the best because I can sense there’s a guarded wall. CONTEXT- When we matched he told me he wasn’t looking for anything serious, he is not ready and just wanna be friends. Which I am totally fine with that.
From then we continue, text, meet up, and he would even talk on the phone with me for hours. Which I find absolutely weird. Platonic, newly met friends normally don’t talk so much. So I asked him, are we still on the same page of being just friends and he was like yeahh.
Fast forward, we fck. After that he was treating me like sht, I can sense his action because he doesn’t want me to fall for him. But I mean I like him as a person, I don’t Love him. I was really unhappy how he disrespected me.
I had fwb in the past and all treated me well and with respect but this dude, his layers of concrete wall is next level. I can tell he is a nice person but he chose to be an absolute d!ck.
Then he suddenly out of nowhere (btw we were texting just fine couple hours ago) unfollowed me. I was mad about it and dumbfounded.
Like WHYYYY, does he has feeling for me that’s why he unfollow me? Is he hidding something from me? Did I did something wrong? Am I overthinking? Idk man, I wished he can communicate it to be maturely, then doing such petty actions. But I’m even pettier for even wanting to understand his action. Or u should say naive, to want to believe there’s a good side of him.