My friend and I had been close since childhood. We shared a lot of interests, and we were often mistaken for brothers. We did everything together, from playing sports to going out for lunch.
But lately, things had been different. Whenever I asked my friend to hang out, he would always say that he was too busy.
Always free whenever girls ask him because he is a ‘ji hong’
At first, I didn’t think much of it. I figured he was just busy with work or school, and that it was understandable that he couldn’t always make it out.
But then, I started to notice something strange. Whenever a girl asked my friend to hang out, he would always be readily available. He would even make plans to go out with them, and he would never turn them down.
I started to get suspicious. I asked a few of my friends if they had noticed anything strange, and they confirmed what I had been thinking.
The male friends have tried to ask him out but if it was not for anything interesting, he would also say that he is busy but whenever a female friend or even acquaintance asks him out, he would always say yes.
Sometimes, he would even pangseh us halfway just to go and meet whichever female asked him to meet even if it was just for half an hour.
It was clear that my friend was clearly giving the girls more attention than he was giving the guy friends of him.
Its like he think that he can get something out of the females.
Defended himself and remained delusional about his actions
I disturbed him about it one day, but he denied that he was doing anything wrong. He said that he was just being friendly, and that he is not those type of hoes over bros person.
I laughed it off and thought deep inside me that such an explanation was clearly bullsh-t and decided that this was not a worthy friend to keep.
Its worse when he cannot see that the girls are using him.