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FRIEND ASKED AN ATTACHED GIRL IF SHE CAN BE HIS BACKUP HDB BTO PARTNER

Friends keep suggesting to BTO together although I’m attached?!

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I’m a Female in my early twenties, and I’m attached for the past 3 years now. It’s made known among our friends that we are keen to apply for a BTO if a good location arises.

Somehow, some of my male friends would message me and say, if things don’t work out with my partner, they would want to BTO with me. LOL. A friend even said he can help me join his current company if I BTO with him

I can’t tell if it’s a compliment or an insult. Makes me think am I their backup plan, or do they think they are comfortable with me or I’m just simply too unattractive that a BTO arrangement would work platonically?

What do guys usually think when they say such things?

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Here are what netizens think:

they only see u as a means to a transaction. things always get ugly when money is involved. dont waste your future, money in case they bail out, and your first timer grants. SG is a good place to live if you dont make stupid decisions.

  • Till i sign the paper. No BTO. Thanks but no thanks
  • I think a lot of us are trained since young here, that the 5Cs la n must buy house la, u r already in a 3 Yr relationship, u buy a house with some1 u are ready to marry n go ahead in life with cos its a long term commitment both house n relationship. You don’t hv this cemented then how many Cs u amass also will lead to a messy end! Gd Luck
  • Some people BTO together to obtain opportunities for investments’ growth. Might as well earn and save enough for a condo. Haha
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