What should I do when my friend owes me money and still blames me?
I was damn stupid to lend my friend almost 6 digit worth of money by bank loan even private loan, only for everything to be lost in a scam.
He told me cause of business failed all the money to settle his business debts. So I tried being understanding which he promise would return the money to me.
Really he don’t even bother pay me been 3years, I see his family going on trips to Korea etc. Which he using my credit card pay for it .
I posted he and his family recently on social media they’re fraudsters. He found out angry text threaten me said I’m a bitch , his family going to report police. He even text me give a chance to remove post. WTF… did he forget he the one owe me money didnt pay a single cents.
A lot of people say this money is confirm lost, he and his wife fraudsters. It’s not business failed actually their overspend. Because I don’t make noise, they keep taking advantage right?
The worse when i showed him all the transaction money he owed me. He say need check first correct anot. WTF… he said I’m one who screwed up friendship because of money
Here are what netizens think:
- If I were you I would report him to police for stealing your credit card and spending it. No need proof. The proof is his overspending. If I’m not getting my money back, I’d be happy to see him rot in jail for cheating and let his family lose face and brand him with a criminal record cos nobody wants to do business with a criminal.
- For 6 figures you can actually sue him if there is black and white. If he can’t pay, hire debt collectors to hamtam his family so that they Know that they cannot anyhow spend money.
- No good friend will lend money to let him overspend. That is just killing him slowly when he is lazy, gambling, cheating and overspending without knowing how hard it is to work and earn that amount of money.
- Never lend money to friends or even close relatives. If they need money, offer to pay the medical bills in person or write and IOU. But usually money lent to friends is money you don’t need and money you may not see again.
- Hes playing u out to escape the payments he owes u. He paiseh because the whole people in his life will see this and be wary of his antiques. Tell him to pay u pay in smaller amounts, u keep track of the amount n balance. But frankly la, by the way he act, can see the money cant be returned. Take it as a painful lesson n stop lending ppl ur money permenantly. And cut ur friendship with him n whoever that u know who is with his side for good.